Post: #1

I've been working on my 'game' for the last little while - stopped being such a keyboard jockey and got out there. Got good and improved upon a lot of stuff, and was regularly building attraction in 7's and lower. Now I have a steady girl that is maybe a 7.5...

but my game grew.. I've got a 9/9.5 or or that I've being doing nothing more than running game/flirting with who wants to take things further. One problem is I'm in a small town - and won't be able to juggle multiple girls effectively... what' the best way to let the one down? How do you guys do it when you get into a "relationship"?

Secondly.. this 9/9.5 girl - I'm having problems keeping the game 'tight' -- I'm guessing this is a commom problem as we move up in our abilities -- almost like starting over to some degree? She's a very 'sophisticated' server in a night club.. makes really good $$ and has tight game herself to fend off all the guys.

But what do you do with a girl like this?? I can't see going out for drinks necessarily "her thing" since she's in the business... any other girl, going for a drink or two was a good way to start the evening

Thoughts??

Post: #2

I actually just had this exact problem. I was dating a great girl and met 2 really hot cocktail waitresses in Miami so I broke up with her to try and date these new chicks. It hasn't been going well. As I expected the minute I broke up with my chick it became so much harder to holler at these new chicks. I think the pressure of the whole situation made my attitude change and instead of being cool when i first met them i started acting like every other guy, enamored and desperate.

I think I also became more pathetic after going online and seeing that this one chick's ex-boyfriends are all celebrities. It's a bit demoralizing seeing pictures of your chick at the Cannes film festival, at the Oscars, at Lakers games, on ridiculously huge yachts. After that I definitely spent way too much time trying to think of cool dates to try and impress her but in the end I decided my best strategy was to just do the exact opposite. I could never compete with these other dudes so I decided the best i could be was different. But realistically, trying to be "different" really is a hell of a lot harder than I expected.

Post: #3

What about forget that she is this 9+ and makes her own money and treat her like a regular girl without put her lady business in a totem?

Post: #4

I can relate to that Johnny. I went through the same thing with my ex-fiance to a lesser degree. Her ex was super rich and flew her all over the world to huge scene parties. But you just have to remember that that was in her past.

I mean, you've probably been with a girl who will never match up to one of your exes, but you still like hanging out with her anyway. Same thing man, once you get your mind around it you'll get stronger game.

Post: #5

She makes her own money serving people in a nightclub? Give me a break. Does she need to fully use her neo-cortex to pour some beer? She just is like 99% who count on their looks to get anywhere. Vincent Ignatius wrote about it quite clearly, girls will always have a less interesting job (and life) than us.