Post: #26

(07-10-2013 04:39 AM)Tony.5678 Wrote:  Ok I am going to try it. Are these ok/not beta?

1) Just going up to her and saying 'can I have your opinion on .....' and then just going from there. Hopefully she will say 'yes' and I will just think of something girly for her to talk about and hope she talks for a while about it. Hopefully I can keep the conversation going (a bit worried it is going to dry up pretty quickly). Maybe after 3-5 mins, just stop her and tell her I have to go and say something like 'it was nice meeting you, lets catch up another time. Add my number to your phone'

How does that sound? I don't think I can keep the conversation going for 15 mins so I want her to get the impression I am interesting and then leaving it at that. Then when I have her number just text her a few times (no more than 5) and give off the impression I like her, then asking to meet up with her for longer (i.e at least 4 hours)? During this time I may go for a kiss and hopefully a bang at the end.

Is that realistic and from your experiences would it work?


For night game:
Just something like if I see a girl waiting at a bar or alone somewhere where it is quieter, going up to her and saying "Sorry I'm late, did I keep you waiting long". She may be a bit shocked and say something along the lines of 'what' or just be confused so I'm not sure about it.

Other one I could try (i saw it somewhere) is when walking to the club, if I see another girl walking somewhere else on a night out (perhaps a different club), as we walk past each other I kind of stop her with my arm and say 'hey you are going the wrong way to 'name of club'... come with me'.

You're thinking way too fucking much and putting way too much importance on the opener. The opener is the least important part of the interaction, it's the vibe you convey that matters.

Do yourself a favor and stop theorycrafting on the Internet. Go out and find some girls. Say "hi, how's it going" and go from there. The more spontaneous the better.

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And secondly, stopping your car and getting out to approach a girl works. I have done it. It is not a joke. They are alone and isolated on the street strolling along it is a perfect time to put some excitement in their day.

You need to get a mind set that most girls get bored with their everyday life and want excitement and great sex to happen. That is your job. Worst that happens if you play your cards right is they turn you down because of a BF or whatever, but are turned on that some stranger wants to bang them, and you gain more experience. Win-win.
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@ Easymoney and @ T444 and/or anybody else:

This car game is getting me really curious about how it is done exactly, b/c i have not exactly tried anything like that, yet. Maybe again, i am over thinking the situation... ?

I find it quite interesting and funny, b/c in Los Angeles, as long as i leave the house, I see a zillion girls that i find hot and would like to get to know better; however, i am a little reluctant to make certain kinds of pursuits. Much of my thinking, frequently, is that i do not have time, but probably, just need to build more time into the schedule for this kind of thing and these kind of interactions. I do frequently see girls from the car, even though I have frequently thought about how it would be nice to know that girl walking down the street that I had just passed in my car. So far, I have just never acted on the impulse to stop.

In the car stop approach, do you stop wherever you are and run in the direction of the girl to catch her, or do you strategically place your car in a place that you can approach her from angle that may give you a front approach? If you come from behind her, what do you say? "Oh, hi, I just saw you walking, and I thought that I would run my ass off to catch up with you and to say hi b/c I was fairly certain that if i did not take the opportunity, now, then I would ever see you again." Then wait for her response, and then get her phone number so that you do not lose touch? Or do you say something else, like "hi, never mind that i was running to catch you, just though that I would say hi?"

On the other hand, if you are coming from another angle, then you can say, "oh hi, I noticed that we are here all alone in the middle of this stretch, and do you live around here? Maybe we should meet for drinks sometime?" Then wait for her response, and then get her phone number so that you do not lose touch? Or do you say something else?

I guess, i can relate to Tony about thinking ahead a bit, but I suppose that practice could help in some of these circumstances in order to allow for more spontaneous conversation that flows in whatever direction that it goes.

Post: #28

(08-13-2013 09:24 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  This car game is getting me really curious about how it is done exactly

Gaming from your car is tough because everything happens so fast and if the logistics aren't set up perfectly then someone could step on the gas and the whole thing is over before it started. You really gotta strike like a cobra, and if you are calling out from your car, speak loudly and clearly and have a smile on your face. You want it to be obvious to the girl that you are just a confident guy. "Wow" her, and engage her playful side immediately so that the word creep never enters her mind. A nice car is a good DHV, but if you don't have Game, then you are just gonna waste alot of gas for no ass. Car Game is basically cold approaching from your car. Its tough.

I like to just pull over and talk to them.

I pull over a little bit in front of her and get out. If she immediately sees me, I just ask her for directions or something like that. If she doesn't see me, I start walking in the same direction as her. I time it so she will catch up to me in a few seconds. When I sense that she is right behind me, I turn over my shoulder and open her, I sort of pretend like she has surprised me or was sneaking up on me. I like to stay ahead a few steps of them for the first few moments, For some reason this seems to help.

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Her is a CAR approach from last week:

10pm (22:00) at night. I had just exited my condo building, I see a girl at the bus stop. Cute, Filapina, younger, thin, black yoga pants, long brown hair.

I drive right past her. We make eye contact. I come to a red light. I look around, I see no one behind me. I say -- "Fuck It!"

I reverse my car back about half a block. I stop at the bus stop. I roll down the window and smile..

me: excuse me
her: yes
me: i know this is crazy but i thought i should come back and say hi
her: oh hi
me: hi my name is gio, i saw you and we kind of looked at each other and I thought oh shes cute, whats your name?
her: stella
me: hi stella are you from around here?
her: umm ya kind of
me: i live right here in this building, do you?
her: ya i do
me: well nice to meet you neighbor haha
her: (smile)
me: im headed to the city and i thought you might want a ride?
her: ummm

She looks at me and looks at my car.

her: where in the city are you going?
me: im going to xyz high school
her: oh my god i went there, thats the neighborhood im going to now
me: well get in lets go

She gets in. We chat. It's going okay. It was a short drive. As we are getting close I say:

me: do you want to exchange numbers. You gotta give me a chance to take you out or something sometime
her: umm ya sure