Post: #1

How often do girls you're trying to fuck cancel on you last minute, or go radio silence after making plans?

I'm curious to know if certain guys experience less flakes than others.

Personally, I get flaked on about every other date I setup. I schedule about 5 dates per week, and that's after about 50-100 approaches and online dating conversations per week.

Post: #2

The online rate of flaking has sky rocketed in recent years.
I remember back in 2010 a date off pof was basically a 100% show up. Now you'll be lucky for her to reply to your texts 3 days after getting her number.

Post: #3

(07-03-2013 02:35 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:  The online rate of flaking has sky rocketed in recent years.
I remember back in 2010 a date off pof was basically a 100% show up. Now you'll be lucky for her to reply to your texts 3 days after getting her number.

Yes, my experience is similar. I used to get very close to 100% sex from an online phone number some years back.

Nowadays, more than half the numbers I get online never call or txt me back.

Once again, the game has changed. It's time to adapt.

I've considered quitting online permanently, and focusing exclusively on day game, but I get just as many number flakes from day game.

I will figure this out though...

Post: #4

I quit online some time ago, and never looked back. You're never going to get the best quality women on sites like that anyway.

Flakes from day game are common, but generally due to failing to convey enough value and not making a strong enough connection in the interaction in my opinion. Getting a number is only a small part of the battle.

Post: #5

With online dating, you must text her the same day. It's a different game where her attention is an anthill during the rain. Text her so she gets your number and hit her up for date within 3 days. If she doesn't reply or doesn't pick up toss her number out. You could try again in a week, but I have only had very very few work out after the initial date proposal went nowhere.