Post: #1

My roommate, two guys we went to high school with and I went out last night drinking and we struck up a convo with two broads - one older but pretty hot and the other one younger but not as hot. Either way, the hotter one is talking with me, lots of physical touching, etc - she was fairly drunk and it was obvious she was dtf somebody. My roommate is chatting up the other broad, things are fine until i go to the bathroom. On my way back i pass by him and he says "she touched my ass bro - game on!" . I told him i'd just ask her to leave with me, no game necessary. That's exactly what i should have done, but i didn't. She asked me to buy her a drink, and i told her i don't buy drinks for girls, which of course led to the whole "do you not have money? are you not interested? blah blah blah". I told her it was a point of principle so she flips and says "i'd rather a guy didn't buy me drinks, it makes me feel like an independent woman (retarded). I get it, you're a self-sufficient man" and a whole load of other bullshit. At this point i'm tuning her out but making a lot of physical contact. I see a friend and go say hi to her for a second..while i'm distracted my roommate has moved in and is leaning in hard talking to her. While I admire his tenacity, we are currently a group of 4 guys wherein which the only two guys who are capable of pulling a chick (the other two are straight omega) are now both going for the same girl, which is i'm sure inflating the fuck out of her 35 y/o ego. I go back over, dude has me boxed out from my original seat. Well played, even if it's a touch heavy handed. I'm not the type of dude to fall over myself for a chick so i'm just bullshitting with some other people right nearby - at this point i'm realizing i'm going to have to compromise my own principles if i'm going to work this back in my favor- i already fucked up by not pulling her away from the group earlier. My roommate does the right thing, escalates the physical touching to a makeout but then clumsily starts clamoring to get her phone number. He walks over to me with a shit-eating grin, proud of himself for wasting our combined efforts on one 35 year old chick for a decent portion of the night while there were plenty of other broads in the place. I immediately go into damage control - I need to empty my balls into something. I'm putting in work on as many other broads as I can, but nothing is coming together...just not my night apparently.

So here's the kicker - after I went on my 2 minute drill solo to avoid the situation that had occurred earlier, my roommate had (presumably) been putting the finishing touches on a textbook swoop and making sure his (and unfortunately my) efforts were not for naught. Fucking guy comes back in the bar alone after walking her to the car. I ask him what happened to that broad, he says "She wanted to go home with her friend, and she was pretty drunk. I don't think she wanted to hang out".

Fuck. My. Face. Dude cockblocks and goes full opportunist game on me, only to drop the fucking ball at the one yard line. She was COMPLETELY DTF, I couldn't believe my ears. I tell him he's retarded and he should have pushed the issue - even blown a slight breeze at the issue - and she was on her back with her legs spread within 10 minutes. "Really?" he asks, "I don't think so. She would have said if she wanted to come back, and she was drunk and I felt like I was taking advantage of that". The girl was drunk, but coherent and not stumbling about and puking. I'm in complete shock at this bullshit.

She texts him 5 minutes later asking him why he didn't take her home or hang out. He responds "Because I'm out with my boys, I didn't want to bail on them." Un. Fucking. Believable.

Next time, I'm rolling solo.

Post: #2

This.

From now on I'm going solo too, problem is I know a shit ton of people in town and I don't want to meet them

Post: #3

now both going for the same girl, which is i'm sure inflating the fuck out of her 35 y/o ego.
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I don't fucking get it why guys do this stupid shit. If a stranger guy does that, I say it's a fair game and he has balls even though I would hate that. Only your friend or some guy you just talked to, will do such things because they got no balls to approach on their own.
They are your bros so I guess you can at least talk about this and set the fine rule.

Post: #4

(06-16-2013 05:20 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  now both going for the same girl, which is i'm sure inflating the fuck out of her 35 y/o ego.
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I don't fucking get it why guys do this stupid shit. If a stranger guy does that, I say it's a fair game and he has balls even though I would hate that. Only your friend or some guy you just talked to, will do such things because they got no balls to approach on their own.
They are your bros so I guess you can at least talk about this and set the fine rule.

This isn't the first time he's done this either, just the worst. Two weekends ago he brought two girls (he knew both) back to our place along with their beta orbiter and it should have been on. The one chick he's mentioned trying to hookup with before so i assume that's his play and go for the friend. About a half an hour into it, right around the time we should be taking these broads to bed, he comes over and starts heavily flirting with the chick I was working on. So, being a good wingman (as best as I could be anyways), I switch to the other chick and start working that angle. He sees this, and switches back - it stank of jealousy, the most female of traits.

Honestly, it's just a textbook case of a dude who wants ALL of the girls...the insecurity it takes to function like that is mind boggling.

I did get a chance to talk to him about it today, but he sees nothing wrong with how the night played out. Might be a lost cause. What a shame.

Post: #5

Well you already said you were about to ask her to leave with you. When she asked you to buy her a drink I would have said "I have a nice bottle of wine at my place". Instead you backed down for whatever reason.

It sounds like you ruined the vibe and your roommate took his crack at her. This doesn't sound like a cockblock to me.

Post: #6

(06-16-2013 08:16 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  Well you already said you were about to ask her to leave with you. When she asked you to buy her a drink I would have said "I have a nice bottle of wine at my place". Instead you backed down for whatever reason.

It sounds like you ruined the vibe and your roommate took his crack at her. This doesn't sound like a cockblock to me.

A fair point, I looked at it from this angle at a couple points as well. I think it was his overall approach to the situation, as I mentioned it wasn't the first time similar things to this have gone down.

That said, my main issue with it is that even when he clearly worked it properly, he didn't bang when it was practically sewn up. At that point it was a pointless swoop.

Post: #7

(06-16-2013 08:49 PM)MasterBacja Wrote:  A fair point, I looked at it from this angle at a couple points as well. I think it was his overall approach to the situation, as I mentioned it wasn't the first time similar things to this have gone down.

That said, my main issue with it is that even when he clearly worked it properly, he didn't bang when it was practically sewn up. At that point it was a pointless swoop.

This is going to be harsh, but it's reality.

YOU allowed your friend to cock-block you. His attempt was feeble to mediocre (he even TOLD you he was going to do it before doing it), nothing you couldn't have dealt with.

Also, just so we're clear here, this guy is not a friend. A friend would have SOME code or communication/agreement in place so that you can both work smoothly and get the best out of the situation instead of leaving you both standing holding your dicks. Sure, go out solo, but if you can't deal with your friend or drop him before he cockblocks you hardcore twice, why do you expect a woman to respect you if you don't even demand respect from your friend?

Then you failed her shit test HARDCORE. She just wanted you to take her home. Jaylow said it well, WHY didn't you offer her a higher class drink at your place? Hell, since your friend was such a dick and if you wanted her to sleep with you, you could've still pulled her AFTER he made out with her and got her number. That would've been funny.

Post: #8

Your mates stumbling over each other to get a girl?

Hang out with new mates.