I had my first redhead bang. Until now I didn't realize how incredibly hot they were...nothing turns me on like redheads. The pale skin, the red hair...her pussy was so beautifully pink and she had the tightest little pink asshole.

They're so rare though, what a shame.

Inside The Mind of The Unfaithful Girlfriend - Now Fiancee Pt.1

Solid 8.5 Fake Tits, Great Ass/Body.

Her BF: Chubby, balding, rich, FOB, possibly early/late 40's, possible beta like tendencies.

Friday night we made plans to fuck Wednesday morning.

She knew she was getting engaged on Saturday night.

Never trust these hoes.

It all started with a Facebook add and message months back.

Calling her out on why she added me.

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I let the convo die, then she messages me later claiming I unfollowed her on IG...when in all reality she unfollowed me (girls HATE when they get unfollowed).

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I call her out on having a husband/BF....no shame in her game and voluntarily gave her number out without me asking.

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We'd chat ever so often, then I stopped texting her until she texted me.

I noticed she'd blow my phone up late nights around 1 or 2. I started realizing why....she's a coke head.

She'd drop me a line ever so often over the last few months. Sometimes I'd ignore her and somethings I'd write back.

Finally it all came down to the other night. I posted something about 50 shades of grey on IG, then liked one of hers making of 50 shades (late night drunk).

She immediately texts me after this, and here are a few highlights of our conversation with a considerable amount of nudes. For everyone's safety involved I'm only going to post 1 nude.

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Inside The Mind of The Unfaithful Girlfriend - Now Fiancee Pt. 2

Continued conversation.
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The Finale:

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Lessons Known & Learned:

-Never consider a girl who does coke anything but a plate or DTF.
-Don't be captain save a hoe.
-If your girl is at home all the time when you're at work, question what she's doing.
-The hamster never ceases to stop spinning.
-If you maintain frame, girls will do anything you ask.
-Alpha fucks, beta bucks.
-Don't be that guy.


Now the question is:

should I fulfill this texting prophecy and carry out the bang, sadly yes....I do feel a 1% bit of guilt.

If it's not me she'll fuck, she'll fuck someone else, might as well be that guy.

(02-16-2015 04:55 PM)kaotic Wrote:  If it's not me she'll fuck, she'll fuck someone else, might as well be that guy.

That right there is why you should do it. If it's not you, it will be someone else so it might as well be you.

And damn those titties!

I have relied on online all this time so far. Finally the first girl I met only from an encounter in public is coming over to my hotel in Davao. She asked me to teach her how to make a facebook account. She is chubby but cute lol

Well I done and did something "nice" for my main HB 8 because I wanted to.

My buddy sent me a badass photo of me and her, from our trip, almost looks like a grungy album cover.

I gave it to her with a frame last night, she loved it, is that beta ?

It's probably the second nicest thing I did besides flowers on her birthday, all in a year span, proves she's low maintenance.


In other news black cokehead reached out to me, played it as a joke, oh well.


Also, I saw alot of blatant disrespect towards my buddies from their woman, it pissed me off.


Semi Beta/Alpha:
My best friend is a great guy, ladies man in high school and after.

He has this cute white washed latin girl on lock down for a few years, he's about to propose to her this summer

She's an angry/moody drunk when she drinks, this weekend happened to be her birthday party.

The boys are shooting pool upstairs the girls are down stairs drinking and blabbing. Another friend of ours gets pulled downstairs by his girl and they talk/argue alone in the dining room.

My best friends girl walks up I can tell she was pissed, I don't know what was said, but she said "Fuck Off X" walked away with her middle finger.

My friend didn't say a word....to which I say "really dude ? You aren't gonna say anything and let her insult you like that in front of friends?"

He said.."what do you want me to dude, I'm not gonna start a fight over some stupid shit like this, when she's drunk" -he had this 1000 yard stare in his eyes like he was bummed, I say "dude that's pretty disrespectful to do that in public" -he just shrugs-

I start telling him how I'd never let my main pull that shit on me, then he goes on to tell me my relationship isn't the real dealsince I fuck a lot on the side. I try explaining to him it's just sex and that my main compliments my life and we enjoy our time together, it's not some joke.

I give up trying to convince him on this topic and let it slide. I know he's in love with this girl, yes, she's nice all around. However, she does have a spicy/bitchy attitude and needs to stop fucking drinking.


The Good Friend Who Always Has To Have GF

This dude is a "bad boy" he'll scrap, he lifts, he's a buff dude, all tatted up neck to ankles.

He has a baby face and girls love him, always gets hot girls to bang, but cute crazy girls to have relationships with.

His biggest weakness is being alone, he's always bouncing from ex to ex or to some new girl for a bit.

The girl he's with now is one of his main girls throughout the years. She's a bitch full on attitude latina. I have to be an asshole to her for her to even understand me. She's cute but can stand to lose a bit of weight.

To make matters worse, she's in school and doesn't work, so my boy is paying for shit when they go out, as he talks about it with me, he realizes its stupid to do that.

My buddy works his ass off 12 hour shifts everyday and has to deal with her bitching when he gets home, and finally it all came to a head on Valentines Day night when she went off on him for working.

He tells her to fuck off and sunday night I convince him to go out for a friends bday.

He starts telling him how he accidentally synced his girls phone to his phone and started looking through her text messages and taking screen shots.

He found she was talking to another dude when they were getting back together, I tell him to automatically next her and that he doesn't need her shit.

He sees the light about being single and it being fun and having success banging girls. I tell him he needs to be secure in being alone and told him to stop going back or fucking his ex's.

I ended up getting him drunk and having a good time with the boys, he even flirted a bit with a friends sister.

I'm hoping he's starting to wake up to his misery, I can only do so much.


Got some pretty good Online Hamster pics for you guys, coming soon.

Awesome writeups Kaotic. I've seen this kind of thing pan out before my own eyes plenty of times.

Got trolled in good fun on a date yesterday

girl has a quirky sense of humor but was feelin me. I had told her earlier I wasn't gonna kiss her and she was gonna jump my bones(i pull this on girls)

She flips the script. Go in for the kiss and she trolls me by teasing, I have fun with it becaus I know she's fucking with me and keep trying but tell her I refuse to go more than 85% and she tells me she won't move but I can kiss her. I keep trying like over 10 times and both of us giggling. She kept this up for like...half an hour we ended up laughing and it kinda messed with the sexy mood. I should have froze her out instead of playing into her game..although it was in good fun. Usually I pull this game with girls.

Eventually we made out for a while but it fucked with my game and I didn't even get a blowjob or feel her up, as it got late and she had an interview the next day. I'm not sure what I should have done in this situation. On the one hand we both had fun..but game wise it wasn't a good move...let's hope she forgives my lack of escalation and I get date 2.

In my experience the less sexual things I do with a girl on first date the less likely I'll see her again

Went on a date with a cute black chick from Tinder last night. Date went pretty well, lots of laughing on both sides but not much kino on my part. I forgot what I said leading up to it but I told some joke and then reached down to pull her bar stool about a foot closer to mine, which she said was "creepy" and asked me to push her back to where she was. Definitely not a good sign. Body language was pretty poor all around on her end in terms of interest, she never seemed to turn toward me while we sat at the bar, and declined my invite back to my apartment for a glass of wine. I'd like to ask her out for a second date, and probably will, but wouldn't be surprised if she declined. My material wasn't top notch last night but I've definitely been able to smash on the first date spitting worse stuff than I did last night. I've always had a problem figuring out how to bed black chicks consistently and I'm not sure if it has become something of a mental block for me or maybe I'm giving off some type of provider/boyfriend vibe which causes the pussy to moisten extra slowly over 3-5 dates.

Went on a date last night with this girl who plays with her hair alot. She's constantly putting it up or letting it down or whatever.
Anyway, she is sitting with her back to a wall where there are some tea candles alight. About half way through our date I notice smoke rising above her head, then I see a flame and then she smells it and freaks out. Bitch set her hair on fire!

That trumps the previously most hilarious thing I've seen on a date which was when this girl tripped in her heels and fell down the flight of stairs into the bar we were meeting at.

(02-18-2015 11:27 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Got trolled in good fun on a date yesterday

girl has a quirky sense of humor but was feelin me. I had told her earlier I wasn't gonna kiss her and she was gonna jump my bones(i pull this on girls)

She flips the script. Go in for the kiss and she trolls me by teasing, I have fun with it becaus I know she's fucking with me and keep trying but tell her I refuse to go more than 85% and she tells me she won't move but I can kiss her. I keep trying like over 10 times and both of us giggling. She kept this up for like...half an hour we ended up laughing and it kinda messed with the sexy mood. I should have froze her out instead of playing into her game..although it was in good fun. Usually I pull this game with girls.

Eventually we made out for a while but it fucked with my game and I didn't even get a blowjob or feel her up, as it got late and she had an interview the next day. I'm not sure what I should have done in this situation. On the one hand we both had fun..but game wise it wasn't a good move...let's hope she forgives my lack of escalation and I get date 2.

In my experience the less sexual things I do with a girl on first date the less likely I'll see her again

While it may have been fun, but you let her control the frame, you're right you should have froze her out, there are ton of signs that point to your gut reaction and feeling. All the signs were there, but sometimes we get caught in the moment of having fun (NOTHING wrong with that) and lose our momentum.

ALWAYS go for the bang and ALWAYS escalate as fast you can.

Since you were fun it might counter the fact you were less sexual, hopefully you'll get a second date and bang.

(02-19-2015 06:35 AM)Roardog Wrote:  Went on a date last night with this girl who plays with her hair alot. She's constantly putting it up or letting it down or whatever.
Anyway, she is sitting with her back to a wall where there are some tea candles alight. About half way through our date I notice smoke rising above her head, then I see a flame and then she smells it and freaks out. Bitch set her hair on fire!

That trumps the previously most hilarious thing I've seen on a date which was when this girl tripped in her heels and fell down the flight of stairs into the bar we were meeting at.

Best thing I heard this morning yet ! The good news is she won't ever forget this date for you, the bad new is she might be that horrified/embarrassed that she'll never want to see you again.

It depends on how you reacted and how the date went after the hair incident. I'm thinking you can coax her out for a second date pretty easy with this story.

After my tremendous weekend, I've had a rough stretch.

Two girls not interested in day two (one of whom I was in bed with). Kinda lost interest in another one I was seeing before the weekend. Have to consider her.

Still have one I'm seeing semi-regularly. I guess the peaks and the valleys are part of the grind, though.

Took a 6 home running first date bang recipe. Textbook smoothness. We were having drinks listening to music, then makeout. But LMR was fucking crazy. I tried all the techniques in the book: withdraw, ignore, reinitiate etc. But when she kept saying she had to go I was like "fuck it" then let the bitch out of my house. She's a friend of a bro so I didn't want to act rude.

Not gonna even bother hitting her up again. I've found that the first date bang recipe is a glass cannon. High chance of success but if you miss the shot there won't be a second chance. The speed and intensity of the date, if it couldnt let you bang the girl, will simply be overwhelming to her in retrospect and she will have good backward-rationalization to feel detracted to you.

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(02-19-2015 07:10 PM)JoeyKhmer Wrote:  What would you do in this situation?

I just moved to a new city at the beginning of the year to start a job. I immediately met a new girl that I have been seeing 1 or 2 times a week. We started banging from the get go. I have banged two other girls since meeting her but was under the impression she was not banging anymore else. Last night I went over to her house and she told me she had sex with another guy this weekend. I was slightly annoyed but kept my composure. She asked if I still wanted to be fuck buddies or give her another chance. I refused both. I felt turned off by the idea that she sort of went behind my back and did that even though I am guilty of it myself (she is unaware). I told the story to my friend and he said it seems like an easy lay for me and I should have said yes. Ideas?

Seriously bro?

In less than 3 months you have 3 notches. Since meeting her you pulled 2 other girls. If what you say is true then you have solid game and can pull pretty easily. Why would you care about that girl at all? Go out and keep banging other girls like you've been doing. All is fair game. You thought you were the only one cheating. Turns out she's way ahead of you.

Did you read my whole post? I was wondering if you guys would pass on continuing to sleep with her. She flat out laid it on the table for me and I said no. I did not say I was heartbroken.

(02-19-2015 07:39 PM)JoeyKhmer Wrote:  Did you read my whole post? I was wondering if you guys would pass on continuing to sleep with her. She flat out laid it on the table for me and I said no. I did not say I was heartbroken.

As soon as she admitted that she's automatically a dtf/fwb/plate that's it, that's all.

You can't just assume she's NOT sleeping with someone else unless you've made it specifically clear.

She admitted this to you in the hopes of keeping you around, you didn't do a bad thing by nexting her. You've now already burned the bridge going back to her.

Next time play it cool, not surprised or upset, down grade her, and keep her as a fuck buddy.

There's been some plates I've talked to that actually would admit to me after sex about horrible dates they've had or guys that sucked in bed. We were that comfortable being fuck buddies they would say all kinds of shit.

In your case maintain radio silence, if she follows up with you, restart the fucking and leave it at that....if you want.

OR

Just go game and fuck other girls dude.

(02-19-2015 11:59 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

(02-19-2015 06:35 AM)Roardog Wrote:  Went on a date last night with this girl who plays with her hair alot. She's constantly putting it up or letting it down or whatever.
Anyway, she is sitting with her back to a wall where there are some tea candles alight. About half way through our date I notice smoke rising above her head, then I see a flame and then she smells it and freaks out. Bitch set her hair on fire!

That trumps the previously most hilarious thing I've seen on a date which was when this girl tripped in her heels and fell down the flight of stairs into the bar we were meeting at.

Best thing I heard this morning yet ! The good news is she won't ever forget this date for you, the bad new is she might be that horrified/embarrassed that she'll never want to see you again.

It depends on how you reacted and how the date went after the hair incident. I'm thinking you can coax her out for a second date pretty easy with this story.

This happened about half way through our date and I just laughed at her and teased her about it. I think it was a good thing as it didn't do her any real harm but made the date and therefore me memorable.
I don't think it embarrassed her enough to not want to see me again or anything as she stuck around afterwards and gave me plenty of IOI's. We had a decent make out at the end of the date so I'm confident of seeing her again.

Will actually use this incident in my follow up text I think.

(02-19-2015 07:10 PM)JoeyKhmer Wrote:  What would you do in this situation?

I just moved to a new city at the beginning of the year to start a job. I immediately met a new girl that I have been seeing 1 or 2 times a week. We started banging from the get go. I have banged two other girls since meeting her but was under the impression she was not banging anymore else. Last night I went over to her house and she told me she had sex with another guy this weekend. I was slightly annoyed but kept my composure. She asked if I still wanted to be fuck buddies or give her another chance. I refused both. I felt turned off by the idea that she sort of went behind my back and did that even though I am guilty of it myself (she is unaware). I told the story to my friend and he said it seems like an easy lay for me and I should have said yes. Ideas?

I don't get this attitude. You are banging other girls apart from her but you get shitty when she does the same thing? Who cares as long as she keeps banging you.
I think it's hypocritical for guys to have this attitude and you're shooting yourself in the foot for no reason.

If I was you, if the sex is any good, I'd keep banging her as a FWB.

(02-19-2015 07:39 PM)JoeyKhmer Wrote:  Did you read my whole post? I was wondering if you guys would pass on continuing to sleep with her. She flat out laid it on the table for me and I said no. I did not say I was heartbroken.

I don't know, from your reaction sounds like you already have some attachment. If she is banging other dudes & you didn't care you'd wrap it up and push the FWB agenda w/o missing a beat.

(02-19-2015 09:29 PM)Roardog Wrote:  

(02-19-2015 11:59 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

(02-19-2015 06:35 AM)Roardog Wrote:  Went on a date last night with this girl who plays with her hair alot. She's constantly putting it up or letting it down or whatever.
Anyway, she is sitting with her back to a wall where there are some tea candles alight. About half way through our date I notice smoke rising above her head, then I see a flame and then she smells it and freaks out. Bitch set her hair on fire!

That trumps the previously most hilarious thing I've seen on a date which was when this girl tripped in her heels and fell down the flight of stairs into the bar we were meeting at.

Best thing I heard this morning yet ! The good news is she won't ever forget this date for you, the bad new is she might be that horrified/embarrassed that she'll never want to see you again.

It depends on how you reacted and how the date went after the hair incident. I'm thinking you can coax her out for a second date pretty easy with this story.

This happened about half way through our date and I just laughed at her and teased her about it. I think it was a good thing as it didn't do her any real harm but made the date and therefore me memorable.
I don't think it embarrassed her enough to not want to see me again or anything as she stuck around afterwards and gave me plenty of IOI's. We had a decent make out at the end of the date so I'm confident of seeing her again.

Will actually use this incident in my follow up text I think.

Followed up with her Friday arvo (she is studying and uni hasn't gone back yet so texting her during the day is better than at night) with a line about getting the smell of burning hair out of my car. Her response was negative and logical which annoyed me as I thought it was a funny line.
Anyway, I let it go as it was Friday night but negged her about it this afternoon and now have another date set up for next week.

(02-19-2015 06:35 AM)Roardog Wrote:  Went on a date last night with this girl who plays with her hair alot. She's constantly putting it up or letting it down or whatever.
Anyway, she is sitting with her back to a wall where there are some tea candles alight. About half way through our date I notice smoke rising above her head, then I see a flame and then she smells it and freaks out. Bitch set her hair on fire!

That trumps the previously most hilarious thing I've seen on a date which was when this girl tripped in her heels and fell down the flight of stairs into the bar we were meeting at.

Candle stick ass, that's what I'm talkin about !

Ive been going radio silent post notch with the last few girls I slayed. My thinking was that it forces me to pursue other leads to get laid and keeps me outside my comfort zone.. but at times I wish I kept 'em on as plates over the winter. They're all decent looking girls... nothing to write home about though. It's hard out here when the weather isn't cooperating. Add shitty logistics on top and my pussy stream has dried up to a trickle. Lesson learned.. lock down a few plates before they all go into hibernation/get cuffed by other dudes.

Looking forward to the nicer weather; my lease is up at the end of April and I have a place lined up with way better logistics. Next few notches I'll try and keep on as plates.. In the meantime, I'm pretty much in monk mode.

(02-21-2015 08:25 PM)rdvirus Wrote:  Ive been going radio silent post notch with the last few girls I slayed. My thinking was that it forces me to pursue other leads to get laid and keeps me outside my comfort zone.. but at times I wish I kept 'em on as plates over the winter. They're all decent looking girls... nothing to write home about though. It's hard out here when the weather isn't cooperating. Add shitty logistics on top and my pussy stream has dried up to a trickle. Lesson learned.. lock down a few plates before they all go into hibernation/get cuffed by other dudes.

Looking forward to the nicer weather; my lease is up at the end of April and I have a place lined up with way better logistics. Next few notches I'll try and keep on as plates.. In the meantime, I'm pretty much in monk mode.

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Regarding going Radio Silent on girls after you bang them. Do they usually text you? Or do they take the hint?

I'm usually flat out too lazy to text after a ONS and they generally won't text either.

That's twice now in two flights I've had a really hot chick seated next to me. I must be on some good luck right now haha.

HSLD

(02-19-2015 05:34 AM)Blackmagic Wrote:  I told some joke and then reached down to pull her bar stool about a foot closer to mine, which she said was "creepy" and asked me to push her back to where she was.

I usually say to girls "pull your chair closer to me so I can flirt with you more."

This almost always gets them laughing, and they always do it. Girls like to follow directions. It's a bit of a silly move but it let's you know where you stand with the girl, and then of course she's closer to you and you really can flirt with her some more.