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AlphaPrimate22 路 2016-05-02 17:26:00 路 #7651
(05-02-2016 05:23 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(05-02-2016 05:18 PM)AlphaPrimate22 Wrote:  a girl at the gym asked me "what are you doing later tonight" last saturday at the gym

Me: going to X bar's party

Her: Wheres that?

Me: Its on X and Y

Her: Oh, gotcha

Me: Ill let you get back to working out. Seeya around. walks away

She was probably wanting to see me again later.

More like was interested in hanging out.

She literally opened you asking what you were plans were, basically, she was free, you just had to close her correctly and have her meet up. Without looking desperate/thirsty.

At the least played it cool, said you had a few options and your X's bar party was one of them. Number closed her and invited her out.

yeah. I didnt really think getting her number would have done anything. I see her at the gym like every saturday. she was eye fucking me so i finally approached last saturday. this weekend ill invite her back to my dorm to "hang out" if she is there.
YoungBlade 路 2016-05-03 00:14:00 路 #7652
Nature documentaries also great for Netflix and chill caveman game. She'll think you're a lion/rhino/elephant/gorilla whatever takes its females and impregnates them.
Travesty 路 2016-05-03 16:24:00 路 #7653
Just got done with 2 daygame approaches. I missed 2 opportunties with hotter girls I wanted more badly due to it being more difficult approaches by circumstance and also an ounce of puss out factor.

The 2 campus approaches neither ended well. For the 6.5 20 year old blonde (big sunglasses couldn't tell how attractive until the set started. I did start the conversation us walking side by side. She was very cold and aloof, not stopping her walk though not trying to get out of the conversation as we both walked slowly.

She was within a minute or so of entering a building so I didn't have much time.

I felt I had lost it so I decided to amuse myself:

T: "you seem to be in a dour mood today, is it the weather?"

Her: "no, I am actually in a really good mood" (plain flat mostly cold voice with some warm trolling tone mixed in)

Here I thought about saying: "Shit this is your good mood? I hate to see what your bad one looks like". I refrained.

Her: "what major are you?"

T: "My major, and you?" (Should have cold read her major - maybe Depression Studies?)

Her: "Philosophy"

T: blah blah blah about philosophy (nothing stuck)
T: "I feel like I am not going to wear you down even if I offer ice cream and whatever else"

She laughed a little.

Creeper status achieved offering ice cream to a younger girl when all else fails.
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-05-03 16:54:00 路 #7654
Hindsight is 20/20.

Good stuff on the self amusement.

Take that to the next level

So rather than take a chick's buying temperature via off the top conversation (which is what I do) stretch your game a bit.

Travesty - Man, I'm in such a good mood today
You ever feel like.....
*It's a question but say it like you don't expect an answer*

More banter, then cold read her

"You look like you're in a good mood"

A) she is, she agrees - game on

B) she's not, she agrees anyway because you're bringing her up - game on

C) she's not, and she tells you, giving you an opportunity to brighten her day (with an instadate that leads to sex) - game on

D) she stays quiet or runs away. Well at least you're in a good mood, lulz

I use environmental openers a lot, but chicks aren't very observant. So giving a chick something that is easy to chime in on makes the opening was easier.

WIA
Travesty 路 2016-05-03 17:00:00 路 #7655
Thanks for the feedback. I agree anything that takes a girl in the moment is always best so whatever is happening in the here and now. Deep conversation is better had at home with a glass of wine and your arm behind her on the couch back.

I think as I keep focusing on myself while talking to girls and making sure I am having a good time, "breaking the horse" of cold girls gets easier. So called blow outs also end softer because the girl senses that for whatever reason if she really isn't into it she can come clean and knows I am not going to try to bring her down I will just move on. That entire energy brings a girl's defenses down because she can tell you don't have a high investment in her at all yet.

Wearing down cold girls is my biggest weakness that I need to work on and what I would considered mid set Game. When you are barely getting that hook and need to keep rambling, observing, and cold reading to get her over the hump where enough comfort is established she starts feeling how attractive you are to her.

This is where Game really happens. I can imagine those that came out shorter on the looks or height spectrum need to deal with this type of Game constantly which is the best Game to have, winning people over that are skeptical at first.
storm 路 2016-05-03 22:12:00 路 #7656
So, ended a long dry streak, mostly because I had been focusing on work.

I had a hard time escalating, took me way too long. No resistance when I did.

Probably she was ready when we came into the apt but at the bar we had very minimal contact so I just started holding my hand against her for longer and longer. I did close, but probably I could have just banged as soon as we entered the apt, but that is not a move Ive done before. What is the best way to go straight into action after the apartment door closes?
Comte De St. Germain 路 2016-05-03 23:20:00 路 #7657
(05-03-2016 10:12 PM)storm Wrote:  So, ended a long dry streak, mostly because I had been focusing on work.

I had a hard time escalating, took me way too long. No resistance when I did.

Probably she was ready when we came into the apt but at the bar we had very minimal contact so I just started holding my hand against her for longer and longer. I did close, but probably I could have just banged as soon as we entered the apt, but that is not a move Ive done before. What is the best way to go straight into action after the apartment door closes?

If she's into you why not caveman, and I saw the original context in the Trump thread. MAGA!!!!!!!!!!

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Travesty 路 2016-05-04 10:10:00 路 #7658
So the good news guys is I am high again right now.

The better news is it is because I just celebrated banging another new college day game chick 20yo from China low-mid 7 on tastes. Big eyes, great legs and ass.

The even better news is that I have had sex with 4 different girls on my bed without changing the sheets including 3 different squirters within the last 12 days with 4 days of those being of town. Don't worry I move the squirters to the same edge of the bed so they squirt on the same patch of carpet.

I think the female pheromones all mixed and sitting on my sheets and carpet raises T levels dramatically. My balls have felt like anvils lately.

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So I direct approached this girl and I got into knowing her. She was smiling after I first opened in a way that said she thought it was entertaining rather than a turn on. A good form of entertainment though for her. I got to know quite a bit about her in a short time period without her knowing much about me. Always the best turn of events for how a conversation goes. I learned she is only here until August before she moves to NYC. It means she has a timeline that is perfect for a casual relationship to happen. She seemed to delay before giving her number though that can sometimes be the a great sign because they are already seriously thinking about sleeping with you. This was last week.

So I went out of town to NYC for family time last weekend and I was texting her slowly. She texted me before asking her out that "if I ever need a friend here in town" then let her know.

I asked her to hang out after returning from NYC. She says cool.

Now for how much she seemed in person to see me as entertainment, I noticed maybe a tiny bit of attraction, I am surprised she texted me the day I got back to ask how my trip was. Young girls especially in the early stages of text game for me are usually too gunshy where I live to show some clear interest before any meet when dealing with day game. Online girls can be more aggressive in this way since they are actively looking for sex.

So I do my routine place (a bar), routine time, routine first bang day of week.

She says she can't drink she's 20. This is when I learn her age. Well I say to myself let's pull out an old trick I used over a year ago multiple times to drinking with a girl under 21 at a bar or public place on a first date.

I say it's fine she can just hang they don't card unless you order a drink. She agrees. I am surprised how easy this is going.

She texts me she's outside the bar at the agreed time. I show up 5 minutes later on purpose as always to a first a meet. I ask her before we go in if I can score her a vodka drink would she drink it, she says yeah. This girl seems pretty conservative as far as dressing in a classic pretty type way that many Asian girls are great at. She is wearing the short shorts and a sleeveless shirt with a little sweater over that were tight clearly showing off a lot of legs, and her toned body.

We go in luckily my favorite couch is open. I tell her to go save a seat for me I will get the drinks. There is a small line at the bar. I hate this part where you have to wait for the first round and the girl may not be next to you since you don't want the bartender asking her for an ID. I always think another player can swoop in and mess the vibe from the top. Luckily no one approaches her there are 30 people in bar, mostly dudes though it is more pub-like where people stay in their little spot with room between people and groups.

I order my vodka drink and then a plain cranberry juice for her. I bring them back. Then I say "this is what I did all the time at bars before I turned 21".

I take out the 2 airplane bottles of Tito's vodka out of my jeans that I just bought 20 minutes before the date in preparation. Along with a gigantic Red Bull to have a 4 shot drink of vodka before I show up to the date so my buzz is on high.

I do best on first dates 3-4 drinks with some energy drink in me. I can ramble and start escalating all day in this state. Especially if I have a feeling she will end up banging me.

I love the airplane bottle with a known vodka brand because it is sealed and looks official no new girl will freak out that you may be trying to do some funny business.

She is down to spike her cranberry. Then we kick back and talk. She was sitting legs crossed away. I sit a little far from a girl at first even if I know I can sit closer. I also try to lean away and turn my neck as little as possible to look over to her to continue the conversation until there is some solid comfort. This goes doubly for girls that cross their legs the other way or put their purse between you as a barrier. At this point you need to make them laugh and smile.

So she got relaxed and laid back so I did as well. I start touching her bare thighs to emphasize points. I could talk about my NYC trip and what her plans are like to live there. We really talk about anything, I try to keep the conversation on her as much as I can. No age question pops up during the date. This usually happens with 75% of the dates I go on with younger girls.

I ask if she liked drinking games. She does. She asks where I live in the neighborhood. She also asked how many roommates did I have. This is after we talked about her living situation. I feel she is comfortable enough to ask her over to a drinking game and watch a movie and she is down. We walk 3 blocks to my place. She likes how spacious it is and how I live alone and the place is clean. Big selling points for a player go after young chicks, takes little to impress them, but you still need the right location, to live alone, make it nice inside.

Funniest part I have a love seat that is perpendicular to my couch. I have suffered 3 times having girls choose to sit on it instead of the couch which creates a large distance. After the first time I knew the way to stop it was to put blankets, pillows, my gym bag, grocery bags all over it to fill it up as storage when a pre-bang comes over so they don't fuck up my flow by sitting there. She asks why I use the seat for storage hahaha.

Well at least she ends up sitting on the couch. She is down to have a drink and wants tequila. I make a strong one. We play the drinking game then watch a TV show that is boring and slow paced on purpose. I go pop a slice of an Indian Cialis because I love banging hard on the first bang especially give a top performance. Early on she shows me her hip tattoo. Looks a little trashy, like I said though she covers it up and has this conservative too pretty for porn vibe. So a contrast. I am guessing she is quite the hoe by this point.

I go for the makeout and she is into it right away, faces straight ahead only turns her neck. I crawl more on her and go for the outer pussy rub. Success. Here is a small key which is if things go well on the couch I try to always get my dick out hard in her hand and have her rubbing it and moaning before I go under the pants for pussy rubbing. After this goes on for a little while when it feels like its time to strip I caveman carry her to the bed. She immediately asks when she hits the bed if I have a condom. I waste no time to get us naked and get the condom on. Whenever a first bang gives the green light like that I just get it in before any stupid shit could possibly happen.

After sex, which seemed pretty good to me, she invites herself to sleep over which I find strange. Most young college chicks like to get out because they don't want to you think they are clingy. We watched the Exorcist for her first time, skipped straight to all the creepy bedroom parts. I forget why, maybe it seemed too early to go to sleep.

In bed I did the WIA questions finally after not for years.

"When did you know you wanted to have sex with me?" She answered when she said yes to coming to my place. And she also inferred that yeah of course if she is ok with coming over it means she is down to bang.

Next is the strangest part. She talks about how she hasn't had sex in a long time. She has only had one boyfriend ever starting her freshman year who she lost her virginity to. She hasn't had sex in a year. I am her 2nd ever. I thought I could be #5 that school year the way some UCSB chicks go, that hip tatt and how fast she slept with me seemed like big signs.

I asked how she went that long without sex as a college girl. She said she could just focus on other things. I asked her how often she masturbated. She said once every 2 weeks. I was like wtf? I told her I could masturbate 6 times in a day if my T levels are high enough - though I refrain.

I ask her how often she gets hit on during the day. I was surprised she said once every couple months, she says the guys have bad game and ask her to hug and stuff right away and go overboard on the compliments and seem way too happy to be talking to her. I have never seen a day game approach since I have lived her. Could be a good sign meaning there are enough girls to go around. Either way this girl goes to parties and is approached in the daytime, I am the first guy she has had sex with in a year? Funny part is I completely believe it because she seems like a no bullshit Chinese practical girl.

She finally pulls the age question. A few years ago I had a harder time lying or facing this question for whatever reason. Now I automatically reply with "guess" with a sly grin as is and has been the conventional wisdom. This works well because it puts a girl in a more defensive gesture and you get insight into what she sees you as. She guesses 23. That is the youngest I have been guessed in awhile but I will take it. I have been better at my diet, exercise, hair style, clothing... everything has gone up a notch. In NYC at a birthday party a 30yo old chick said I look like I am 21 sort of trying to make fun of me. I will take that to the bank to. Whatever I am doing is working. I end up replying I just turned 24 a month ago but she was so close!

When I try to have sex a second time she is really wet, she turns it down abruptly in a way that is practical and serious, because she is "tired". She needed to wake up 6:30AM for work and it is past midnight. I half way understand. I tried again in the middle of the night and was turned down. She leaves for work this morning.

I think I caught a sexual camel running low on hump supply.

As I could sense what I would call The Ease, the way in which guys on here like Gio, BlurredSevens (RIP), and LINUX talk about being with girls. I feel lately I have reached a new clear level that I hadn't improved on much since my Colombia trip in November that really pushed my Game with the new language, culture aspect.

Things almost seem to go too easily I am still at a newness to this more zen stage that I get paranoid it has been so easy. I feel like outside of girls too I just tend to deeply control the vibe of any conversation I have with people unless it is another man with a strong frame.

Two big parts of this have been recently, first part updating my wardrobe a bit, find the right hair style and facial hair after experimenting to get the best youthful look. Second part in fitness I just have gotten bigger. I am now a pretty lean 205lbs. Where even a plate lately I have known for a long time is giving me unsolicited compliments on a steady frequent basis.

"You have the perfect arms" while rubbing them up and down. That shit never happened a year ago I'll fuckin' tell you whut mate!
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-05-04 10:26:00 路 #7659
Great job
yeppels 路 2016-05-04 10:42:00 路 #7660
(05-04-2016 10:10 AM)Travesty Wrote:  So I went out of town to NYC for family time last weekend and I was texting her slowly. She texted me before asking her out that "if I ever need a friend here in town" then let her know.

What do you text/how often? A lot of guys on here say to strictly keep texting to logistics etc but in situations like this where you won't see the girl for a few days, it might be better to run some banter over text to keep her warm.
Travesty 路 2016-05-04 11:38:00 路 #7661
Depends on the girl and how fast she texts me back with questions or not. If she is slow to text or gives me the minimal I just double down on the not caring text attitude and delay - go straight to logistics. If she texts me back soon, double texts, asks questions then I go with it for a bit - always try to cut it off on a high note like the great George Costanza.

For instance pre-bang in a one day period I would never have more than let's say 5 exchanges back and forth if she is really warm I would still cut it off and say I am busy I will see you soon.

This time she was responsive. However I thought it'd be thirsty and no reason to text if I am on a trip to see other people in NYC. The trip should come before her and she should feel that by my absence. I think this is also why she texted me the day I said I would be back without waiting. She got thirsty herself. If I didn't have the genuine excuse of being out of town on the weekend I would text more because she was responsive and ignoring her too much could make her say forget this I am putting pussy on the table and he is being an idiot.

Texting game is drastically less important in day game than online game or even night game numbers. The girls are just more forgiving and if they thought about banging when in broad daylight, sober, with no agenda to get hit on that day it means she is motivated if she is responding to texts unlike other types of number crunches.

Also in text game I think the time spaced between your texts and their length is probably 90% of the equation. What question you ask, cold read, statement, GIF(very risky to send one you think is funny may bomb with her), etc... the content isn't so important.

Always be patient, waiting a bit longer to text has never failed me. Texting shorter with still getting my point across also never failed me. Not using emoticons unless with real Latinas has never failed me. Pre-bang realistic vague excuses for long absences in text (2 days+ like when you are going out with other girls and the schedule is full but you don't want to be hand holding the comfort in text while your girl that night is in the bathroom) are golden to keep girls around so they feel you are busy rather than they are being ignored. Turned a negative into a positive, lessen your work.
Balkan 路 2016-05-04 15:04:00 路 #7662
Good stuff Travesty. Appreciate you fleshing out all the subtleties of that encounter. I often get into that dynamic where I learn a lot about a girl and she knows minimal about me, I used to think this was bad and therefore divulged a lot more to compensate. In retrospect, most of the interactions that I kept the mystery high/didn't divulge have gone quite well. Thanks for the insight.
HonantheBarbarian 路 2016-05-04 15:41:00 路 #7663
Man I love travesty's fucking field reports
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-05-05 09:37:00 路 #7664
From a long term female traveler

"Stacey: You know, I would say some of it is lack of opportunity. I don't necessarily think that women are so risk adverse or we wouldn't do get involved in this risky behavior. We just don't have as much opportunity and choice, you know? The average woman, I'll say in Chiang Mai or Bali, Western woman, and I guess I'm thinking about relationships and men and getting involved in the local culture and stuff like that, for a 25 year old white American male, Chiang Mai is your oyster. Bangkok's your oyster. Well, they all are. I think for the average woman of the same kind of age from the same sort of place, her world shrinks in that regard very, very quickly."
Travesty 路 2016-05-05 10:35:00 路 #7665
^ I am too dense to see the inner workings of the female mind in this statement. Is it that women don't have the confidence to become accepted by a different tribe of people and make new friends easily?

Or is it just saying 25 is considered The Wall for women in other countries so they aren't the Belle of the Ball anymore?
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-05-05 10:40:00 路 #7666
Guys in Chiang Mai are having a lot of success, but western women are not.

WIA
Snowflake 路 2016-05-05 11:47:00 路 #7667
Just got another reminder about the fickle and unpredictable nature of women last night.

I was out drinking with some colleagues and my current fb was there too - also a colleague (I'm on a 3 month internship with her and will be gone soon; a "don't shit where you eat" scenario to some, a mere prolonged shit test for others)- at a popular dive bar in the city I'm in right now.

All of the colleagues are in the same age range (23-26) and don't know we're banging even though some suspect it; it doesn't really matter for the sake of the story.
I have been fucking this girl since the second week of our working period, but last week we had a little falling out. She has told me stories about her ex boyfriend, about how he lives in this city too now and how she met him a few weeks ago to "smooth things out" but he just started crying and told her he missed her Undecided , but this was not the cause of our little falling out.

She tried to scold me on my so called player ways after I showed a friend a screencap of a girl asking me to come bang her once I'm back in town, as her boyfriend will be out of the country for work, and she caught a glimpse of it too. This seemed to really rock her hamster and she went ballistic on me. I was having none of it, so after that we still acknowledged each other but were not on a friends-with-benefits basis anymore.

Now back to hanging out at the bar. Our colleagues start leaving for another bar and while they do, she pulls me in to dance a little bit. After the colleagues were a little further away she started telling me how she can't believe I'm wasting my potential by banging sluts, how I should man up and find a real girlfriend etc etc... the works. I was in a pretty chill mood and just let her hamster prattle away as she got more and more heated. At one point I just dragged her to a corner and started feeling her up - she didn't react.

As I went in for the makeout after going shhh and interrupting her little speech her ex boyfriend pops into the room (the timing right? Laugh). We don't realize immediately but as soon as we do I take a step back. She walks in front of him and talks to him as I stay chilling in the corner just looking at the scene, after a couple minutes he is gone and we're back at it... later I take her home and have my way with her til 6 am.

Now, her ex is a little bitch there's no doubt about it, but I was just shocked at how she went from mad, to lukewarm, to hot for me, concerned about her ex then back to being hot for me again. I've tried to convey the scene as best as I could but I'm not sure the sheer brutality (it appears as brutal to your naive writer at least) has come out.

Her ex, who she has been with for 5 years (!) and will hopefully have a little wake up call after this, was just tossed aside, together with all her sanctimonious condemnation for players... for some dick. Brutal.

Some more context to paint this picture more clearly.

This girl and I are both students in the same university and we also are in the same class, but never met. We are now both on this internship program abroad.

I have flat out told her I am not interested in having a serious relationship with anyone right now unless I find a unicorn, and am merely interested in increasing my notch count and having fun. Sheknows I will have sex with this little slut who's been asking me to come through to her new house since her boyfriend (who she lived with), is now slaving away working in Switzerland. She still hopped on my dick later that night and even told me her ex texted her again, later that night (I'm having second thoughts about the likelihood of him changing his chump ways now that I type this), telling her he "thought" about her and he was sorry (!) for that.

This might be a testament to the lows some men can go to as much as it is about the instinctual, animalistic nature of women. It was really eye-opening for me. Not a new lesson or anything, but a really powerful reminder.
kaotic 路 2016-05-05 11:54:00 路 #7668
Her ex won't wake up - look at at he cried and begged for her back. He lost the frame and lost the relationship long ago.

5 years translated means - 5 years on and off while getting dicked down.

She's emotionally attached him still - probably will always be a bit like that.

All the meanwhile getting banged out by you.

Shit doesn't change, we try bringing brothers in, in the end only they can see the light and join the secret society.

Women will always act like this, most men will be that beta widow, who gets eaten by the female black widow.
General Stalin 路 2016-05-05 18:30:00 路 #7669
(05-05-2016 09:37 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  From a long term female traveler

"Stacey: You know, I would say some of it is lack of opportunity. I don't necessarily think that women are so risk adverse or we wouldn't do get involved in this risky behavior. We just don't have as much opportunity and choice, you know? The average woman, I'll say in Chiang Mai or Bali, Western woman, and I guess I'm thinking about relationships and men and getting involved in the local culture and stuff like that, for a 25 year old white American male, Chiang Mai is your oyster. Bangkok's your oyster. Well, they all are. I think for the average woman of the same kind of age from the same sort of place, her world shrinks in that regard very, very quickly."

(05-05-2016 10:40 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Guys in Chiang Mai are having a lot of success, but western women are not.

WIA

I'm guessing by the name "Stacey" she is a white girl? I would think this is just a hypergamy rationalization. An attractive white girl would do fine most anywhere that isn't super homogeneous. How many tall blonde Western broads are trying to hook up with average-joe 5'5" Thai guys? How many are trying to hook up with Thai 9/10 guys? I'm sure native Thai girls are doing fine for themselves, and of course foreign white men do well there, not to mention not all sexpats are competing for the top 10% of women... At least thats my take.
yeppels 路 2016-05-06 10:08:00 路 #7670
(05-05-2016 09:37 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  From a long term female traveler

"Stacey: You know, I would say some of it is lack of opportunity. I don't necessarily think that women are so risk adverse or we wouldn't do get involved in this risky behavior. We just don't have as much opportunity and choice, you know? The average woman, I'll say in Chiang Mai or Bali, Western woman, and I guess I'm thinking about relationships and men and getting involved in the local culture and stuff like that, for a 25 year old white American male, Chiang Mai is your oyster. Bangkok's your oyster. Well, they all are. I think for the average woman of the same kind of age from the same sort of place, her world shrinks in that regard very, very quickly."

What is a 'long term female traveler' looking to get out of traveling to Chiang Mai/Bali vs a guy traveler?

Is a woman's travel experience made by her meeting a high quality dude and spending a week or two with him sight seeing? Or dependent on making some short term friends in a region? One night stands or short flings with locals?

For some of the guys on this forum, a travel experience might be made by meeting women and fucking a few of them, which is considerably easier than finding a high quality man for 2 weeks in Thailand that has the time and resources to show her the country.

For guys who aren't players, who don't really care about chasing pussy, their travel experience is made by experiencing cool shit in different countries alone or with others. They don't necessarily need other people to have a good time. They might get laid once on a trip by luck.

Chiang Mai is also a popular destination for Digital Nomads - people who do random online work and want to live cheaply in different countries. Chaing Mai is cheap and has good internet access. This is a male predominated field. She might come accross this community and say "Wow these guys are so happy and have a lot of friends, why don't I have this kind of social surrounding?"
Vaun 路 2016-05-06 10:49:00 路 #7671
Jealousy/inadequacy is popping back up, when I thought I squashed it 10+ years ago. Bouncing from player lifestyle to LTR much harder than expected. Keep thinking to myself, if this is a learning moment, for me to know my weaknesses, to expose them and understand myself better. Or is it the girl I am with, is there a stronger oxytocin response to her like crack. I dont know. Seriously acting like I did in my early 20's with these stupid feelings. I think I care too much. It got like this when I switched off player mindset, into exclusive mindset, 3 months in.
Travesty 路 2016-05-06 11:53:00 路 #7672
^ Take a week long trip away from her to regroup. You don't have to cheat, hit on some girls though and flirt. Treat it like as a mission to prove to yourself you are ok without her.
WestIndianArchie 路 2016-05-06 12:01:00 路 #7673
(05-06-2016 10:08 AM)yeppels Wrote:  [
Chiang Mai is also a popular destination for Digital Nomads - people who do random online work and want to live cheaply in different countries. Chaing Mai is cheap and has good internet access. This is a male predominated field. She might come accross this community and say "Wow these guys are so happy and have a lot of friends, why don't I have this kind of social surrounding?"

Quote was taken from a transcript about the dark side of long term travel by digital nomads.

She is one of them, and relocated from South east Asia to Europe. Lulz

WIA
kaotic 路 2016-05-06 12:05:00 路 #7674
Successful date on cinco de mayo led to a bang.

Boring date last night, 25 year old gal, She had ghosted on me awhile ago, then hit me up on SnapChat, texted me, apparently she was having issues with her ex before.

I extended the date playing pool, since the freeway was closed due to a police standoff.



She was alright, she claimed to be "vain" about her looks.....she wasn't a looker and her body went to shit.

She's a 6 at the most.

She gasped in surprised when I said sugary slushy drinks are shitty for your looks and your body.

Very run of the mill hair dresser, if she was 19 or 20 she would've been in her prime.


I didn't have any regular clothes since I spent the night at that new notches house Thursday.

So I showed up to the date last night dressed in a nice polo, slacks and dress shoes.

I stood out like a sore thumb since this was a college bar, the main bartender/bouncer laughed knowing that I brought another girl the night before.

I got looks from girls....and I got outright hit on by gay guy calling me hot in front of my date.

I kept it cool, thanked him, as he walked away my date just laughed, and I said "what can I say ? I attract both sexes" she laughed even harder.

Finished up the game, gave the table to some mexican biker bros, bounced.

Won't be hitting her back up obviously.


This weird introverted mexican girl matched me on Tinder and immediately asked if I knew her friend (I did, she had a huge crush on me but I fucked her friend isntead). I claimed names don't do much for me, I need to see faces.

Without asking she offered to hangout with me today after 1. I told her I'm only available after 8pm. We'll see what happens.

The Armenian girl reached out to me after I wrote her off, I deleted her number, I asked who it was, she said her name. Looked it up on FB, sure enough it was that bitch.

Didn't bother responding.

Got a few more potential dates lined for next week.

The 19 year old plate wants to me to use the bed restraints she bought me, she blew up my phone with nudes last night on the way home from my date.

Doing leg day, made me all sorts of horny, I need my balls drained, so maybe I'll invite her over if the introverted girl doesn't reply back.
Vaun 路 2016-05-06 12:54:00 路 #7675
(05-06-2016 11:53 AM)Travesty Wrote:  ^ Take a week long trip away from her to regroup. You don't have to cheat, hit on some girls though and flirt. Treat it like as a mission to prove to yourself you are ok without her.

we are going on a short vaca, and then apart for about a week. I think I will do that. I haven't really day approached in six months, I may have to give it a whirl again.
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