Post: #10826

Haven't posted in this thread for a while.

Hasn't been much happening. Been sick for a month and been seeing a girl for the past few weeks. Very sexy, but definitely not relationship material.

I don't know what it is about women in my area, but they are all incapable of saying "thank you." That's a huge deal for me, so there's no way I'm going to get into a relationship with a woman that doesn't show appreciation or gratitude.

Have a lot of girls in the pipeline, the only thing that is going to be a hindrance is distance. Been going back and forth with a sexy blonde that's 27 who is begging me to come over and fuck her. Only issue is she lives about an hour and a half away. I'm beyond caring about notches and there are girls I can bang locally so I'm being lazy and not wanting to drive.

Have a brunette girl that I really want but she is also in a city that's a little bit of a drive away. Have another blonde in the same area so if she wasn't to work out, I can go see her instead.

All in all, it has come down to the effort I want to put out with these women. In a perfect world, they would all be coming to me but that isn't going to happen.

I'll most likely suck it up and hit up the brunette since I have a back up in close proximity. Haven't banged any of these girls. The two blondes are a sure thing, the brunette may require a little work.

Post: #10827

(02-16-2018 12:37 AM)Roardog Wrote:  

(02-15-2018 09:14 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(02-15-2018 08:52 PM)Mess O. Wrote:  I noticed you mentioned Coffee Meets Bagel a couple of times recently. How's that been servin' ya? The thread we have covering it hasn't shown any updates since November.

It's alright, converted a few bangs, mostly using Bumble for the most part, occasionally Tinder.

I got professional photos done like a month or two ago and that's made night and day difference.

I need to do this. I've asked every girl I've been on a date with recently and they've all told me I look better in person than in my pics so clearly my pics are letting me down with the hotness level of girls I match with.

(02-16-2018 01:26 AM)Mess O. Wrote:  Yeah, I gotta get down on that shit, too.

Find a homie or a girl you befriend who takes pro photos, or at worst, ask around and find out who takes pics and that you need "pro headshots for linkedIN" or whatever. Then tell the actual photog what you want.

Post: #10828

A tip for you players (a lot of times I realize these little things after I've done them a bunch...I did this one last night):

When you deliver a more aggressive line or text, follow it up with a fluff line. Usually I use it for a solicitation. She'll see your intention with the first line, but you're offering her the option to react to the fluff. It reflects the importance of ambiguity when flirting (I've talked about many times before).

I had an example from last night, but I'm afraid the specifics of the situation would have misled the overall strategy. Below is an example:

...
Me: It's pinot noir
Her: Hahaha
Her: One of my favs
Me: We should hang out
Me: And I told you cavs would win

Whether she responds to the hang out line will give you a heat check. It doesn't mean she doesn't want you, but if she doesn't respond to the hang out text, she probably isn't interested in the moment. If she wants to hang out, unless she's retarded, she'll respond to the hang out text.

The same standard rules apply to how aggressive you can be depending on you and your situation. This is more about the overall strategy. Hell I use it on girls I'm regularly seeing. The same calibration for you applies as usual. If you're good (a good salesman), you can get them to say yes before you've even proposed an offer. For instance, last night I got this chick to invite me over to her apartment sometime without me even using the 'we should hang out' line. (I'm not saying I'm really good, I'm just saying it worked)

Post: #10829

(02-16-2018 08:17 AM)Remington Wrote:  Haven't posted in this thread for a while.

Hasn't been much happening. Been sick for a month and been seeing a girl for the past few weeks. Very sexy, but definitely not relationship material.

I don't know what it is about women in my area, but they are all incapable of saying "thank you." That's a huge deal for me, so there's no way I'm going to get into a relationship with a woman that doesn't show appreciation or gratitude.

I don't know dude, I think it may come down to how you establish your frame? I noticed non US/UK girls seem to be much more grateful, thankful and appreciative for any little niceties you do to them. Then again, I've never been with a girl who was long enough in the UK to become seriously corrupted...

Post: #10830

^It's not about frame. It is about how these women were raised by their families as well as their societal surroundings. Unfortunately, in the area I live, the women here are very lacking when it comes to manners as well as acts of appreciation.

My parents raised me to say "No sir, and yes ma'am." I was taught to always be gracious and appreciative for what I have and for what others do for me. Thankfully, others around me were raised similar.

I don't live in that area anymore, and since moving a little further north a couple years ago, I noticed it wasn't just a few women (also men), but a majority of the population. The people here need to attend courses on how to not act like impolite cock masters.

Post: #10831

Something I've found that has improved my text game considerably is to have a smile when texting the girl, like smile while you're writing the text.

I find when I do this, my texts always come across as fun and light-hearted.

Post: #10832

Yeah, if the girl you're seeing isn't showing gratitude than you need to next her and find a better one.

Post: #10833

(02-16-2018 03:59 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Yeah, if the girl you're seeing isn't showing gratitude than you need to next her and find a better one.

Bingo, that's why my plans tomorrow are going to end up in one of these new girl's beds.

Post: #10834

(02-16-2018 03:59 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Yeah, if the girl you're seeing isn't showing gratitude than you need to next her and find a better one.

Nah, just...

Post: #10835

You know what sucks?

When youre horny, you want to fuck and none of your leads are replying or down to come to your place for a movie.

And you cant go out and game because youre in the middle of no where.

Post: #10836

(02-17-2018 12:11 AM)the1element Wrote:  You know what sucks?

When youre horny, you want to fuck and none of your leads are replying or down to come to your place for a movie.

And you cant go out and game because youre in the middle of no where.

You know what sucks? Complaining.

Work out, organize your place, read a book, meal-prep for the week.

I say this because I'm gonna drive home and do at least one of those instead of meeting up with friends/fucking off.

Happy Friday.

Post: #10837

Eh man that post wasnt meant to be taken that seriously.

Of course im gonna do other shit

Post: #10838

Just got off the phone with a girl I'm going to meet up with next week.

The vibe was so fucking good...

I have to share this.

The conversation lasted about 20 minutes and I was the one to end it, telling her I'm free Tuesday and Thursday. She has to check her schedule on Sunday to see when she's off.

I called her while I was cooking eggs and bacon, she was telling me how she's sick and at one point in the conversation she told me she had to cough and took the phone away (I still heard her cough). I made a joke that she's a smoker and told her she should really quit the habit. She laughed and insisted she's never smoked and so on..

Then she told me she's been losing weight and I joked about how her boobs are almost 90% of her body weight now (this was referencing a conversation we had a few days before where she told me about her big boobs haha.). I told her about how some Size E boobs probably weigh more than her and she told me she has double d's. Then I told her "wait double d's? Now you have my attention. I wasn't paying attention before, but now I am (said in a fun, light-hearted voice)" She just started laughing and told me to stop.

I'm not going to reiterate the entire conversation, but the vibe was great with a slight sexual tone.

When you're conversating with a girl you sort of have to lead the conversation but you can't just jump from talking about her having a cough to talking about her tits. You have to sort of work with what she gives you, but you lead the conversation where you want it to go.

When she told me she was losing weight, I could have made an anorexic joke, I could have gone serious and told her you lose weight so much weight when sick...there was a lot of places to lead the conversation.

But I didn't want to talk about losing weight when sick, nor did I want to joke about her being anorexic. I wanted to take it as a chance to turn sexual, which is what I did.

When she told me about her double d's I told her.."well you're lucky I'm a boob guy..." then she said "I also have a nice ass"

To which I replied

"Do go on. I'm listening." (in a non-serious light hearted manner)

and then she told me how she's super short, and blessed with nice tits and ass.

Girls are never going to lead the conversation, a man should lead the conversation but the conversation he leads to has to make "sense". It has to relate back to what she last said.

This is why I think questions like

"What's your passion?"

Don't really work...

(at least I've never found they do)

There has to be a reason to ask such a question, if she asked you what you do for fun, you told her your passion for nature and photography, then she says she really enjoys kayaking and does it whenever she can you can respond back with...

"Is that your passion?"

Then if she's goes

"Oh no, it's not my passion I just like doing it."

You can follow up with

"So whats your passion?"

Now it makes sense to ask that question.

The thing with girls is you want to lead the conversation to a fun path, with ups and downs and if possible throw in a sexual undertone.

If she says,

"I'm not a smoker"

You can respond back with

"Yea, I believe that. Your voice is too feminine and innocent to be a smoker"

That's taking the conversation down a fun path and injecting a little bit of sexual undertone by saying her voice is feminine and innocent.

Idk if you guys will find this interesting but I did and it's something I find I'm doing more as my game develops.

Post: #10839

(02-17-2018 06:00 PM)the1element Wrote:  Just got off the phone with a girl I'm going to meet up with next week.

The vibe was so fucking good...

Have you actually met this girl in person? It doesn't seem clear to me.

(02-17-2018 06:00 PM)the1element Wrote:  I called her while I was cooking eggs and bacon, she was telling me [...]

Post: #10840

(02-17-2018 06:25 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(02-17-2018 06:00 PM)the1element Wrote:  Just got off the phone with a girl I'm going to meet up with next week.

The vibe was so fucking good...

Have you actually met this girl in person? It doesn't seem clear to me.

(02-17-2018 06:00 PM)the1element Wrote:  I called her while I was cooking eggs and bacon, she was telling me [...]

No man, this is an old girl from Tinder.

We've been keeping in touch here and there.

Post: #10841

(02-17-2018 06:29 PM)the1element Wrote:  

(02-17-2018 06:25 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(02-17-2018 06:00 PM)the1element Wrote:  Just got off the phone with a girl I'm going to meet up with next week.

The vibe was so fucking good...

Have you actually met this girl in person? It doesn't seem clear to me.

(02-17-2018 06:00 PM)the1element Wrote:  I called her while I was cooking eggs and bacon, she was telling me [...]

No man, this is an old girl from Tinder.

We've been keeping in touch here and there.

Post: #10842

Went clubbing with 2 friends, wasn't in the best state to run club game, then saw a girl I fingered at the club, she said hello but didn't respond much so I left it. I wasn't enjoying it, then outside the club I hear 4 chicks speaking French, talk to them and find out they are all from Algerian descent. Get 2 of their IG's, one has a boyfriend but she kept on asking me for my contact. I realised that gutter/street game is my forte compared to the club, hopefully ill message one of the Algerians and I will schedule a date soon. Even my friends were shocked at my approach, they would never do such a thing.

Post: #10843

V-day I opened maybe 25-30 woman with the same opening "Happy v-day". This was said either seriously or with a slight smirk. (Strictly day-game, early evening when the sun went down.) I broke my own rules and approached like a mad man due to a couple ladies falling out of my harem. (My rule is I can approach 10 women for every 1 time I get approached) most women were very receptive, I was shocked. Almost all led to conversations. Two were in a rush and I caught them off guard as they walked past me. After following up that night with a bunch of number (I expected to go no where) I got quite a few of "hey, the chat, it made my day" type of msgs back. Also got a couple of "wouldn't say "happy v-day" and of course I qustioned it and they all said the same thing pretty much, "hard to have a happy v-day when your lonely." Some had b/f's or husbands that they are sick of. This one 7 was my favorite out of the bunch. So payed extra attention to her. Played the were both married and not happy game lets creep. She was playing hard to get big time. Couldn't get to her spot (husband was with family). So got her out to a small bar right around the corner of her spot. After a few drinks, bounced to liquor store, than to a park right next to her spot. It was late and we were buzzing by this time. Another post drink and my arm was around her sitting on a bench and making out with her. After about 5 or so minutes I picked her up in my arms and said "where am I going". She laughs and days i dunno. I said I gotta pee can I stop at your place to piss. She looks at me and smiles (she knows whats up) and points "that way". I literally carried her ass for 10 minutes to her house with 2 reaks to make out in between. (I purposely skipped thr car for the excitement (hers) to carry her to her house. As soon as we got in it was over. She pulled down my sweats (I was wearing this matching sweat pants sweat outfit) and grabbed it. "Oh boy im not used to anything like this" she said. I told her I would definitly take care of her. So I began my usual foreplay ( no LMR on her part) by caressing her neck/back, licking both than moving down her chest, tits, until I was eating that bitch out. Once I got those shakes outta her I gave her a minute to recover and put it in. She goes "no condom no nothing, you naughty boy". I daid some stupid shit like let me show u how naughty before putting my shit deeper. After a few pumps i put that shit all the way in amd i swear i hot something in there. She was like OMG. After a few pumps she had another orgamsm. At this point im like really? Shes like i told u i never had anything like you before. Than i went to the bathroom to buy myself some time and to jerk my firsts one out. I hurried back while i was still hard and continued. Due to the jerking in the bathroom we were at it for a good 15 minutes. I busted insude her and she wad one of those who loved it. She was like omg i can feel it. She goes "me and my husband was trying to have a baby, what if..." I said "i'm glad I can be of service to you guys". She just laughed and pulled me back into her. After busting agian (yes a 3rd time) i go whens your husband supposed to be home? She looks at the clock and says "shit any minute now, you gotta go". Perfect timing. I put my shit on, we made out agian before I left and said "happy valentines day" and left.

Still following up on some other leads, but v-day is a perfect time to approach!

Post: #10844

Had a fun Friday night with a surprisingly sexually adventurous local girl. Loved having her hair pulled and being choked.
Even took her anal virginity which I haven't done for a while. Think that makes her the fourth A-card I've taken.

It was a pleasant result for a night that looked like it was going to end in a bust earlier that day when the girl I was supposed to see flaked on me claiming she was still recovering from a cold. Funnily enough I saw her out on Saturday night at 4am so she must have recovered pretty quick!
Hit up all my other leads and plates but on such short notice and given it was Chinese New Year they were all occupied or out of town. Except this girl who agreed to leave a family dinner to come and meet me. Apparently she hates Chinese New Year.
Initially she was resistant to coming to my area to meet me as it's half an hour from her but I held firm and she caved.
She Uber'd to the bar near my place that I had chosen and it was an easy close from there. She sexualised the conversation herself within the first half hour and later, after the bang, she admitted she'd been in a bit of a dry spell. Something I was happy to capitalise on.
Best sex I've had in a while, will definitely put her in the rotation.

Post: #10845

Update from the weekend: Hit up the brunette chick the day of to get her address, she never got back to me.

I said fuck it, hit up one of the blondes and we went out for a couple drinks. Got back to her place and immediately got into her bed.

Nice, perky fake tits, great ass, sex was awesome. Good thing she didn't have roommates because she was a screamer.

Completely drained after that. Little sore yesterday. Went to a movie with my main girl yesterday and had a fun day with her.

Post: #10846

Friday I got all my shit done for the weekend, unfortunately had cousins visiting so couldn't do shit.

So I had a plate come over and suck me off real quick.

Saturday did some wineries with a bunch of my friends and my main - got wasted - forgot that wine sucks, I never drink it. Ended up triggering some lefty white chick because she didn't like what I was saying to my main.

Woke up the next day and the Asian pin up doll came over, she was sick but told me I'd of nexted her if she didn't show. She hops on my bike and we ride to a great area for brunch. She's bitching about how she was wearing a Chinese outfit for Chinese New Years - and people came up to her saying "Happy New Years" - this broad was saying they were stupid and it was racist. I just laughed and moved the convo.

We went to a brewery but as we were leaving she was talking about how I "walk in front of her" and she knows that middle eastern men are like that and don't treat women well. (Keep in mind I was walking in front of her because we were on a packed sidewalk and walking with our helmets).

I tell her she might want to check that map of hers and that I'm not middle eastern - with a laugh.

She apologizes and starts back pedaling - I turn my Harley over so I can't hear her talk and we head home.

I give her a half assed hug, she texts me a few hours later thanking me for the day, all I say is "for sure"

I automatically nexted once she got off my bike - she's got a bagful of hamster and she looked more and more unattractive as the progressed - she was a solid 7, but a 6 by the end of the day.

Oh well, keep it moving.

I had another tiny MILF come over after, we banged, then I went to my friends house, hopped in the jacuzzi had a drink, came back home, and banged the new East Coaster gal before bed.


I can't fuck at my house the next 3 days because I've got my lame ass cousins staying at my house - so I've planned 3 dates Mon-Weds.


I had a great fucking weekend and am looking forward to this work week and the gym.

Post: #10847

Thanks again for the suggestions this weekend kaotic.

I'm in wine country right now down here – I'm with you I'm not a fan of the stuff either.

Post: #10848

Whenever I consider seeing an older woman more than once, inevitably something happens to remind me of why I shouldn't.

Had a first date bang with a 38 year old back in early January. Tried to get together for a second time but she was always busy so I moved on. Radio silence for a month, then out of the blue she texts me with "so you can't call or text me anymore?!?". So I let her know when I'm free to meet up and she starts with "are you seeing anyone else, I'm not a booty call, I want commitment, I wanna be taken out on dates" etc etc.

I nexted her, but I found it kinda funny how she developed all of these standards AFTER we already fucked.

Post: #10849

(02-19-2018 12:45 PM)Jagnum Wrote:  Thanks again for the suggestions this weekend kaotic.

I'm in wine country right now down here – I'm with you I'm not a fan of the stuff either.

Anytime you need anything you got my digits bro !

While I'm not a fan of much wine....I am a fan of all the hotties that come to wineries.

The wineries near me are our Napa - so TONS of single girls and groups of girls come out on the weekends, Sundays are best because it's brunch and bitches love doing basic bitch shit.

We went with my boy and his fiance - his fiance has a younger sister who had some cutie friends (of course I brought my main which sucked).

Also fun fact, apparently there's a pour filter you can use with your wine to remove impurities that cause hangovers and headaches.

Post: #10850

(02-19-2018 12:33 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Saturday did some wineries with a bunch of my friends and my main - got wasted - forgot that wine sucks, I never drink it.

(02-19-2018 12:45 PM)Jagnum Wrote:  Thanks again for the suggestions this weekend kaotic.

I'm in wine country right now down here – I'm with you I'm not a fan of the stuff either.

That's because American wine sucks. Get yourself some Aussie or South American wine and you'll convert.