Post: #1

Question is how do I initiate ME performing oral sex on THEM without hurting my confident/cool/aggressive vibe? Do I handle it the exact same way as I do when I confidently stick my cock in their face and grab the back of their head firmly and with a smirk to receive oral prior to insertion into pussy?

Do I just roll them over and dig in with a smirk - maintaining cocky eye contact as I creep down? I rather like when a chick rides my face/tongue for a while (me laying on my back) and I don't really see a non-beta way to have this happen. Any ideas for cocky, sexy ways to suggest or initiate MY performing oral sex?

I only have this desire with the considerably younger chicks I'm seeing - but it's an unshakeable desire. I must taste them - I'm not fully satisfied just fucking anymore with these young ripe chicas.

Post: #2

Direct her and tell her what to do/what you want. Works no matter what it is you're telling her to do.

Unless you're into "queening" and want her to suffocate you and yell at you. Probably hard to avoid seeming weak with that one.

Post: #3

You're over thinking this. Once you have them on the bed and you're kissing their neck and breasts, just slowly move down their stomach and give them an evil grin as you pull their panties off and tease their inner thighs and eventually their pussy. I tend to really get into it so my technique starts off gentle but quickly gets aggressive. In my opinion you can still dominate the hell out of them while eating them out. It's just the frame you take into it.

Post: #4

Do what you want. Tell her while you're watching TV or out on the town that she looks sexy and you want to go down on her, then escalate in bed and when you feel like it, just transition from fingering her and kissing her, to kissing her neck, then breasts, then keep kissing down until you reach her thigh area. Kiss around her pussy to make her really want it, then go ahead and do it. You don't need to smirk to be cool. Just take your time, tease her and make her want it.

Personally I haven't gone down on a girl in years, but if you dig it and you're good at it then nothing should keep you from having a good time with your face in a chicks legs.

Post: #5

(04-18-2013 03:17 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I rather like when a chick rides my face/tongue for a while (me laying on my back) and I don't really see a non-beta way to have this happen.

If they are excited enough to have sex with you, then you're the boss. Rip their pants/panties down and go to town. Point at your chest and say "sit here".

If they are small enough to do so, physically move them where you want them. If they're too big, tell them very specifically what to do.

I like fingering girls that are giving me head, which requires an "L" shape (or 69). The easiest way to get them to do this is "keep going, put your ass here. I'm gonna do stuff to you."

I don't let a woman drive in the car or bed.

Post: #6

Over analysing.

Just go beast mode on her puss. Finger her while licking her neck and biting her nape. Then pull her pants down and rip her panties off. Then its an all you can eat buffet.

Munch away my friend, munch away.

Since when is giving pleasure "weak"?

Post: #7

Whisper in her ear "I wanted to taste your pussy all night".

Post: #8

(04-18-2013 07:20 PM)germanico Wrote:  Over analysing.

Just go beast mode on her puss. Finger her while licking her neck and biting her nape. Then pull her pants down and rip her panties off. Then its an all you can eat buffet.

Munch away my friend, munch away.

Since when is giving pleasure "weak"?

This -- but add in one little thing. After fingering her lick your fingers. Sounds cheesy or gross, but it really works, or at least it did for me.

Post: #9

Better yet, have her lick your fingers.

Post: #10

(04-18-2013 06:10 PM)BarkChompson Wrote:  

(04-18-2013 03:17 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I rather like when a chick rides my face/tongue for a while (me laying on my back) and I don't really see a non-beta way to have this happen.

If they are excited enough to have sex with you, then you're the boss. Rip their pants/panties down and go to town. Point at your chest and say "sit here".

If they are small enough to do so, physically move them where you want them. If they're too big, tell them very specifically what to do.

I like fingering girls that are giving me head, which requires an "L" shape (or 69). The easiest way to get them to do this is "keep going, put your ass here. I'm gonna do stuff to you."

This is what I was after. Top notch advice, mate. Thanks.

Post: #11

(04-18-2013 08:09 PM)polymath Wrote:  Better yet, have her lick your fingers.

I alternate between the two, depends on the vibe.

Post: #12

(04-18-2013 07:20 PM)germanico Wrote:  Over analysing.

Just go beast mode on her puss. Finger her while licking her neck and biting her nape. Then pull her pants down and rip her panties off. Then its an all you can eat buffet.

Munch away my friend, munch away.

Since when is giving pleasure "weak"?

Yeah I hate all this talk that wanting to give a girl pleasure makes you weak or "beta". Complete rubbish to me. As long as your dominant and in charge, you can do whatever the hell you want.

Post: #13

You're a beta.

Post: #14

Dahh. You got me

Post: #15

The "sit here" worked like a charm on both chicas this weekend - and sounded cool / confident to boot...thanks again

Post: #16

I'm mostly dominant sexually but I think most women have a lot of frustration about openly expressing how horny they are. So the times I've had them sitting on my face while I licked them and egged them on whispering "Fuck my face" it drove them crazy and it was a total joy how they lost it and just thrusted frantically while they orgasmed, almost breaking my nose off in the process.

One of them commented while I ate her "You're addictive" in a despairing tone. If you're getting her off like that, I think you've got a competitive advantage over Mr. Pure Alpha who doesn't trouble himself at all.

But I think asking US what we think is a little silly, the whole point of being Alpha is you DO WHATEVER YOU WANT as long as you're not brutalizing someone ( I mean geniunely brutalizing them so it fucks them up) , and you give zero fucks what anyone thinks about it.

If you like sucking pussy do it and fuck all the Alpha trolls.

Post: #17

(04-22-2013 09:11 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  The "sit here" worked like a charm on both chicas this weekend - and sounded cool / confident to boot...thanks again

Found Mike in the act.

Post: #18

(04-23-2013 02:13 AM)Blaze Frazier Wrote:  

(04-22-2013 09:11 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  The "sit here" worked like a charm on both chicas this weekend - and sounded cool / confident to boot...thanks again

Found Mike in the act.

So I compose a unique post that results in good debate. I thank the posters who give me good advice in answer to my question, and report back how I used it. And then you mock me by using a GIF that suggests I'm a 90 pound weakling with a bad haircut and ugly features who could only possibly be fucking undesirable, overweight women? Cool, bro. Thanks for the useful dialogue.

Post: #19

3 day ban for Blaze for hating.