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I found this little gem at Shining Pearls of Something. There is a lot of language, and terms that you can regularly find here. Although I did some work on the punctuation, but it's the same material.

http://shiningpearlsofsomething.blogspot...alogy.html

Here is his site.
http://dannyfrom504.wordpress.com


Awesome Analogy!
Danny from 504 nails the truth about that old double standard:
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"Bubble Gum
Posted: March 10, 2013 | Author: dannyfrom504 | Filed under: Girl distractions, Wisdom |2 Comments »
I was talking with a girl at the hospital last night and she knows about the site asked me about the sexual double standard. it was the typical, “why aren’t guys sluts for banging a bunch of girls but if a girl fucks a bunch of guys she’s a total slut.” *sigh*
Even with the key/lock analogy, I wasn’t getting through to her. The hamster was strong with this one. So I had to change tactics and go in for a direct assault-
“marrying or committing to a slut is like finding a piece of chewed bubble gum on a park bench and deciding that it’d be a good idea to put it in your mouth.”
This got her. She made the face. You know the face, the face that shows a light bulb went off. She tried to throw it back at me by saying that applies to men as well, and I simply told her that the analogy doesn’t apply to men because in terms of relationships, women don’t care about gum. The more chewed the gum, obviously the better it is since everyone wants a piece.
I FINALLY got through to her, and I asked her how old she was and if she’s had at least 5 sex partners. She admitted she had and she was 19. I asked her if it were safe to say she typically dates 2-3 guys in a year. She again, said that that sounded about right,
“then, by averages, you’ll have slept with 15 men by the time she’s 24 (her prime in the SMP as I explained to her) IF she were to only date 2 guys a year and 20 if it were 3, “you my dear are on the carousel. the cock carousel. Now i’m only including BF’s. I’m not counting the miscellaneous hook-up you might have. And see, the guys you’re turning down now, the ones that are probably marriage minded, will probably want NOTHING to do with you when you decide you want to “settle down”. Part of my site is to teach guys how to spot the chewed bubble gum from the fresh pieces. and I tell men they need to post-pone marriage until they get in their 30′s, because then, they have more options. And you’re natural hypergamous instincts (had to explain hypergamy to her) means the older you are, the less likely the men you’re attracted to will want you. Since, you know, she’s chewed gum on a park bench, and since a 32 year old guy typically has his shit together better than a 26 yo guy, that 32 yo man has MANY more options than a 30 yo woman. Hell, I haven’t had more than a FWB deal with women in their 30′s for the last 4-5 years. The women I date now tend to be 19-24. and I’m damn near 40.”
This had her on the ropes. I explained to her that this is indeed the time to figure what she needs with a guy, and I know all too well that a former slut can see the err in her ways and make a change and doesn’t mean she’s ruined, but….that her partner number counts to quality men. She of course replied that she’ll be maried by then. I el-oh-el’d and told her I’d bet money she’ll end up pregnant, then get married, then divorce in about 5 years. That I had seen this happen NUMEROUS times in my 19 years in the military. AND after the marriage ends, she probably be close to 30 and her chances to find another long term partner will diminish significantly. Then I told her the story of my friend back in San Deezy. How the SAME.EXACT.THING happened to her. She’s now 29 and she’s finally to a point where she’s sick of men and instead will concentrate on her son. She was basically a pump and dump for every guy she dated after her divorce. Her relationships didn’t last more than 6 months (hello, my “rule of 3′s) after her marriage ended. Then I NAILED her-
“but of course, this won’t happen to YOU right?” She said nothing. I told her I wasn’t trying to be a dick or to scare her, but just wanted her to be aware of the reality of the modern SMP. From a man who’s knee deep in it and has a LOT of experience with this shit. All the emails I get from women, reading the testimony of women and men who’ve been through divorce. I can only tell her the truth, what she does with it is on her. “Just food for thought, you do the dishes girl.”
chewed bubble gum is my new go-to analogy for the SMP in regards to partner count."
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This is his blog, I've been reading it for a couple of weeks now and it's good: http://dannyfrom504.wordpress.com/

Regarding the analogy about the key and lock, Krauser wrote something a while ago that I always remember but haven't had the chance to use yet. It was something like "if a girl is a virgin aged 25, she's labelled pure and respected, if a guy is a virgin aged 25 he is ridiculed and called a loser".

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(04-09-2013 08:58 PM)MattC Wrote:  This is his blog, I've been reading it for a couple of weeks now and it's good: http://dannyfrom504.wordpress.com/

Regarding the analogy about the key and lock, Krauser wrote something a while ago that I always remember but haven't had the chance to use yet. It was something like "if a girl is a virgin aged 25, she's labelled pure and respected, if a guy is a virgin aged 25 he is ridiculed and called a loser".

Yeah, I just signed up to get alerts. The chewed bubble gum thing is a new one for me. And I have used the key and lock analogy a couple of times. I love the looks that iy gets. You can actually hear their souls shrivel.

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Good reading, thanks Danny!

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I don't actually ever explain this to girls.

They all understand intuitively why there is a double standard, so if they pretend not to get it I just look at them as though they are stupid.

If they go all 'grr-feminism' on me, I just joke about how they are making themselves less attractive. Arguing Feminism 101 is basically Roosh's '9 ugliest feminists' article strategy: don't argue, insult. It is all they respond to, and they'll certainly do it to you. Examples:

"I think it's so unfair that there is a sexual double standard."
"Yeah but, its like a master key and lock. Shitty lock, super key. blah blah."

"I think it's so unfair that there is a sexual double standard."
"Ew gross! You want to be allowed to sleep with all the men. Like that one (point to fat guy) that one (point to old guy) and those 6 all at the same time (any group of men)!

One of the two is a lot more effective and you can always use plausible deniability that the second is a joke if she goes nuclear on you. If you try and use the top one, you'll only end up buying into the argument frame and then getting called a small dick pervert who hates women's freedom.

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Love Danny's blog, great redpill writing without being off-putting to bluepillers who read it. The gum analogy is good, but I agree with Kitsune in that it's generally pointless to argue the sexual double standard with women who aren't redpill themselves (you wouldn't have to anyway, because they'd know the truth). Women don't get it that it's not an easy thing for a man to get laid (unless he's a natural or has honed his game consciously to razor's edge and has high status of course), and they want you, as a player, to make it look as natural and easy as it is to them. They don't want to hear if you used to be a fat nerd who played D&D in a basement and worked a shitty job, they want to think you've always been sexy, stylish, and high status (they've been told since they were born that they were a perfect little angel and have never felt the need to actually improve and evolve as a person, so the man should be that way too).

Anyway, back on point. Read his blog, great Game tips.

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I'm chatting with Danny right now. He thinks it's great that he was mentioned here. I talk to him on the phone about once a week. He's a good egg.

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(04-10-2013 06:32 PM)Private Man Wrote:  I'm chatting with Danny right now. He thinks it's great that he was mentioned here. I talk to him on the phone about once a week. He's a good egg.

Excellent. I think his site, this forum, and others like it should be more widely known.

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I'll send him an email on the 30th of April and the 1st of May, reminding him to sign up for RVF.

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I've spoken to Danny on the phone a couple of times. He's a cool, legit dude, but not much into group activities like forums.