Post: #1

When I go into a date (OKC especially) using this frame of mind, I bat 1.000. Last fall I got a hat trick (3 different girls 3 days in a row) using it. Got one tonight, and probably another one Friday (although she's POF, which tend to be less educated/more effeminate/real).

After finalizing all the details, I think "this girl is gonna suck".

That way, I don't give her any credit at all, and she has to earn any positive feedback with actual effort and investment.

Helps keep me from being needy, and makes me feel like I'm the one screening her for my approval, not the other way around.

Post: #2

Good reminder, but you're not exactly re-inventing the wheel here, if you ask me. A mindset that will give you the idea of her having to qualify herself to you is a pretty basic thing to develop. Otherwise you'd be the one qualifying. And consider the fact that these girls seem to depend on dating site that are increasingly becoming cheaper and easier to get hook ups from. They dont seem to be making much of an effort to just go out there and talk to guys, get drinks etc. Low self-esteem and hunger for the cock is written all over those girls. Plus there is the stigma: Quick OKC/POF dates are supposed to end up in a horizontal pattern.

Post: #3

All of what you said is exactly right.

I think I meant it as more of a tip/reminder, the phrases "she is an idiot" or "she probably sucks" are just quick ways for me to check myself.