Post: #26

I think preserving ego (at certain degree) has been beneficial to my mental health.
How about in this situation? It's easy to tell if she is interested or not right after you talk to her. (she asks questions too, she doesn't turn her body, she doesn't go to restroom, she doesn't give whole attention to friends etc)
When I didn't have this 'ego', I lingered around. I knew she wasn't interested by gut feeling but I thought 'maybe'
So now, if I don't see positive sign from her within several minutes, I just say 'nice meeting you' and eject.
I don't have to waste time anymore. I don't get bitter as well.

(04-12-2013 02:13 PM)GenJx Wrote:  soup is right. stop trying to preserve your ego and you will get laid more. couldnt give a shit what some random girl thinks anyway. if its someone that matters, yeah dont put up with shit

Post: #27

(04-12-2013 04:12 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  I think preserving ego (at certain degree) has been beneficial to my mental health.
How about in this situation? It's easy to tell if she is interested or not right after you talk to her. (she asks questions too, she doesn't turn her body, she doesn't go to restroom, she doesn't give whole attention to friends etc)
When I didn't have this 'ego', I lingered around. I knew she wasn't interested by gut feeling but I thought 'maybe'
So now, if I don't see positive sign from her within several minutes, I just say 'nice meeting you' and eject.
I don't have to waste time anymore. I don't get bitter as well.

this is all definitional but i dont think you're ejecting because of ego but doing what is efficient, and using game. ejecting because you dont want to waste time on a low probability of bang

ejecting because you feared the potential to be rejected would be trying to preserve 'ego'

Post: #28

Yeah, I guess it's about different personality.
I can't tolerate people ignoring my txts. (I reply promptly)

I txted this girl from a bar. no reply so I figured she wasn't interested and deleted her number. about a week later, she txted me
just hi how are you without apologizing. I asked if she received my txts and she said she was busy.
I just replied 'cool, understandable' and that was it. didn't hear from her.
Maybe this bitch wanted to hear 'lol that's totally fine. I am glad to hear from you ' ?

I am honestly confused about whether I should treat them like a Customer in normal businesses
OR
treat them like a customer in Bar businesses.

In normal businesses, you still have to be nice even though you don't profit anything from them and they are very ousy. you have to be a doormat and kiss their ass to make sales.

In bar businesses, if they cross some line, you can kick them out and even tell them 'get the fuck out of here'

So I am not sure how much I have to bend over for a bang.

(04-12-2013 04:26 PM)GenJx Wrote:  

(04-12-2013 04:12 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  I think preserving ego (at certain degree) has been beneficial to my mental health.
How about in this situation? It's easy to tell if she is interested or not right after you talk to her. (she asks questions too, she doesn't turn her body, she doesn't go to restroom, she doesn't give whole attention to friends etc)
When I didn't have this 'ego', I lingered around. I knew she wasn't interested by gut feeling but I thought 'maybe'
So now, if I don't see positive sign from her within several minutes, I just say 'nice meeting you' and eject.
I don't have to waste time anymore. I don't get bitter as well.

this is all definitional but i dont think you're ejecting because of ego but doing what is efficient, and using game. ejecting because you dont want to waste time on a low probability of bang

ejecting because you feared the potential to be rejected would be trying to preserve 'ego'

Post: #29

(04-12-2013 01:17 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Quote:IIRC correctly, you are doing massive numbers

Massive numbers of posts here maybe

Mech,

I spent last night getting blazed and reading your posts in the other texts thread. Seriosly I laughed about as hard as you can. My favorite was the "we cant see each other anymore ", lol!

Anyway you alluded to having a lot of "pre bang" conversations left on your phone and willing to post them. Can you please do so? If you want a thread started for it, I will do it! Outside of being hilarious your messages convey massive dominance, I would love to see the opening stuff.

Post: #30

(04-12-2013 04:50 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  Yeah, I guess it's about different personality.
I can't tolerate people ignoring my txts. (I reply promptly)

I txted this girl from a bar. no reply so I figured she wasn't interested and deleted her number. about a week later, she txted me
just hi how are you without apologizing. I asked if she received my txts and she said she was busy.
I just replied 'cool, understandable' and that was it. didn't hear from her.
Maybe this bitch wanted to hear 'lol that's totally fine. I am glad to hear from you ' ?

I am honestly confused about whether I should treat them like a Customer in normal businesses
OR
treat them like a customer in Bar businesses.

In normal businesses, you still have to be nice even though you don't profit anything from them and they are very ousy. you have to be a doormat and kiss their ass to make sales.

In bar businesses, if they cross some line, you can kick them out and even tell them 'get the fuck out of here'

So I am not sure how much I have to bend over for a bang.

Well, if you want to use the business metaphor, then yes treat it like a normal business.

Better yet, treat it like sales. If the worst prospect you cold called proceeds to call you back, guess what? It's now a warm lead. Why would she text you a week later? Bottom line is, something was tingling, maybe she felt a little more needy, maybe her bf dumped her, maybe she needed attention, bottom line is quite likely, if you gamed her right she would of come out and you would have had the chance to close.

That's why it's worth keeping numbers like this around for a while. Keep a girl's number for six months to a year, even if she's stopped responding. But it all depends on what you value more: your ego or your dick.

Post: #31

(04-14-2013 11:00 PM)Therapsid Wrote:  

(04-12-2013 04:50 PM)Sebastian Wrote:  Yeah, I guess it's about different personality.
I can't tolerate people ignoring my txts. (I reply promptly)

I txted this girl from a bar. no reply so I figured she wasn't interested and deleted her number. about a week later, she txted me
just hi how are you without apologizing. I asked if she received my txts and she said she was busy.
I just replied 'cool, understandable' and that was it. didn't hear from her.
Maybe this bitch wanted to hear 'lol that's totally fine. I am glad to hear from you ' ?

I am honestly confused about whether I should treat them like a Customer in normal businesses
OR
treat them like a customer in Bar businesses.

In normal businesses, you still have to be nice even though you don't profit anything from them and they are very ousy. you have to be a doormat and kiss their ass to make sales.

In bar businesses, if they cross some line, you can kick them out and even tell them 'get the fuck out of here'

So I am not sure how much I have to bend over for a bang.

Well, if you want to use the business metaphor, then yes treat it like a normal business.

Better yet, treat it like sales. If the worst prospect you cold called proceeds to call you back, guess what? It's now a warm lead. Why would she text you a week later? Bottom line is, something was tingling, maybe she felt a little more needy, maybe her bf dumped her, maybe she needed attention, bottom line is quite likely, if you gamed her right she would of come out and you would have had the chance to close.

That's why it's worth keeping numbers like this around for a while. Keep a girl's number for six months to a year, even if she's stopped responding. But it all depends on what you value more: your ego or your dick.

Yeah, I keep numbers around.

I have never prescribed to this "delete her number" thing.

Different "deals" have different "sales cycles".

Post: #32

Keep those numbers never know when the stocks go down.

Post: #33

Tip y'all. Not my material Gary Brodsky's. Haven't tried too often, only on chicks I already been rolling. Sounds good to me though:

Ex) "on next tuesday I was taking you out to xxx for a (optimistic adjective) time, something came up sorry to break the date"


This is a mindfuck flake against chicks if you don't have the balls, time, energy, or philosophy to physically flake on girls. The point is to use that language that you have broken a date with her that never really existed in the first place. Play it up how great, exclusive, or expensive, it was going to be and that you decided to cut its legs out. This plays her, it's like Indian-giving her money, attention, status, and pleasure.

Post: #34

One of my most effective tricks is sending the 'wrong' text. Ex:

Me: yea meet me at the front by valet

Her: Waaaat??

Me: wrng person. ignore

Her (hamster going nuts: who's he with? where's he at? etc) What are you doing?? Want to grab a drink? ; )

Me: (using the situation because my text was VAGUE enough that I could be talking to a guy friend/business partner or a girl)
meet me at Aventine's in 30min. try to look hot ; )

Me: but seriously look hot

Her: Kk! See you soon sexy! : )


I swear this is very affective. 'Wrong' Text Game. Try it. Thank me in advance.

Post: #35

(04-16-2013 08:12 AM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  One of my most effective tricks is sending the 'wrong' text. Ex:

Me: yea meet me at the front by valet

Her: Waaaat??

Me: wrng person. ignore

Her (hamster going nuts: who's he with? where's he at? etc) What are you doing?? Want to grab a drink? ; )

Me: (using the situation because my text was VAGUE enough that I could be talking to a guy friend/business partner or a girl)
meet me at Aventine's in 30min. try to look hot ; )

Me: but seriously look hot

Her: Kk! See you soon sexy! : )


I swear this is very affective. 'Wrong' Text Game. Try it. Thank me in advance.

What kind of girls (flakey/non-committal, already slept with, etc.) do you use this with?

Post: #36

(04-17-2013 12:08 AM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

(04-16-2013 08:12 AM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  One of my most effective tricks is sending the 'wrong' text. Ex:

Me: yea meet me at the front by valet

Her: Waaaat??

Me: wrng person. ignore

Her (hamster going nuts: who's he with? where's he at? etc) What are you doing?? Want to grab a drink? ; )

Me: (using the situation because my text was VAGUE enough that I could be talking to a guy friend/business partner or a girl)
meet me at Aventine's in 30min. try to look hot ; )

Me: but seriously look hot

Her: Kk! See you soon sexy! : )


I swear this is very affective. 'Wrong' Text Game. Try it. Thank me in advance.

What kind of girls (flakey/non-committal, already slept with, etc.) do you use this with?

I doubt it goes that smoothly unless you hit her with dick before.

Post: #37

Didn't want to start a text advice thread, so thought this is the most appropriate thread, this interaction is from an approach last weekend.

Me: Hey, how's your week going?
Her: Good. things are getting lighter.
Me: Same here.Let's get together this weekend.Friday evening?
Her:Hey so I want to say this upfront.Coffee is the most ill do.I'm not interested in anything else.Is that cool?

What's the move here? Clearly, I got friendzoned.

Post: #38

Yep, you got friendzoned. Next her

Post: #39

(04-17-2013 09:49 PM)NewGamer Wrote:  Didn't want to start a text advice thread, so thought this is the most appropriate thread, this interaction is from an approach last weekend.

Me: Hey, how's your week going?
Her: Good. things are getting lighter.
Me: Same here.Let's get together this weekend.Friday evening?
Her:Hey so I want to say this upfront.Coffee is the most ill do.I'm not interested in anything else.Is that cool?

What's the move here? Clearly, I got friendzoned.

If you go by that logic, than you are never going to get laid when a girl says "we're not having sex" LMR

Ignore what she says and go by what she does.

Agree- "you're right we shouldn't be doing this" but physically escalate.

Post: #40

Here's a trick I use

I keep a bunch of photos on my phone showing different locations and activities-i have photos taken when I was sitting at bars of bar scenes or various drinks-a beer, a martini, etc, I have beach scenes, cooking scenes,work scenes, shopping scenes, live music scenes etc.

girls respond to these interesting pics much better than plain text, so I use them to generate interest

Of course, i don't actually have to be doing the activity to claim i am........

all sorts of ways you can work this

Post: #41

(04-20-2013 02:40 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Here's a trick I use

I keep a bunch of photos on my phone showing different locations and activities-i have photos taken when I was sitting at bars of bar scenes or various drinks-a beer, a martini, etc, I have beach scenes, cooking scenes,work scenes, shopping scenes, live music scenes etc.

girls respond to these interesting pics much better than plain text, so I use them to generate interest

Of course, i don't actually have to be doing the activity to claim i am........

all sorts of ways you can work this

do you just send pics of do you also send a message?

Post: #42

mostly a short message unless what I want to say is clearly implied by the pic- just a pic of the beach means "I'm at the beach" or a drink "I'm having a drink"

Sometimes i'll send a pic of a drink and say "Come join me" Sometimes I'm actually not at the bar but can get there quickly if she accepts

Sometimes I'll send a pic and say "Guess where I am"

If I know they're at work or doing something else unfun I can tease them by sending them a pic of the beach "Beach is great today!" or a pic of a beer "Mmmm this beer is delicious!" They know i'm teasing them and think it's funny

Post: #43

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Post: #44

(04-16-2013 08:12 AM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  One of my most effective tricks is sending the 'wrong' text. Ex:

Me: yea meet me at the front by valet

Her: Waaaat??

Me: wrng person. ignore

Her (hamster going nuts: who's he with? where's he at? etc) What are you doing?? Want to grab a drink? ; )

Me: (using the situation because my text was VAGUE enough that I could be talking to a guy friend/business partner or a girl)
meet me at Aventine's in 30min. try to look hot ; )

Me: but seriously look hot

Her: Kk! See you soon sexy! : )


I swear this is very affective. 'Wrong' Text Game. Try it. Thank me in advance.

This is good will try these out on a couple of my exes here just to mess with them. Can't lose!!

Post: #45

(04-20-2013 02:40 PM)MrXY Wrote:  Here's a trick I use

I keep a bunch of photos on my phone showing different locations and activities-i have photos taken when I was sitting at bars of bar scenes or various drinks-a beer, a martini, etc, I have beach scenes, cooking scenes,work scenes, shopping scenes, live music scenes etc.

girls respond to these interesting pics much better than plain text, so I use them to generate interest

Of course, i don't actually have to be doing the activity to claim i am........

all sorts of ways you can work this

I use this a decent amount with girls I'm dating. Instead of sending them a lame question or longer message, I'll just shoot them a picture. As an example I was recently visiting family and instead of texting a girl I'm dating about it, I'd send them a picture of my nephew and I doing something cool or fun or making funny faces.

Instead of getting a response back like, "aww that's sweet" or "how old is he?" I get a flurry of response with her gushing over just how cute my nephew is or laughing her ass off and wishing she weren't working and she could be hanging with us.

The right picture is worth a ton of words. When I see something cool, I take a picture of it and with the right approach can bring her into your world and make her wish that hers wasn't so dull in comparison. I also sneak pictures of girls when they aren't looking and then send it to them a week or two later. They get all worked up like "when did you take that?? I like it." and create their own drama/interest in it.

You can weave a story or make a girl laugh or so many things with a simple picture. I learned this from Krauser and his excellent texting/chat game.

I used to joke with one girl that she was just a kitten and I was a lion. Sometimes I'd send her an angry roaring lion instead of giving her shit, or one time I totally overloaded her with laughter by sending her a picture of a lion licking it's own nuts. She talked about that one for days. Other times if she was feeling crappy or stressed at her work, I'd just send her a goofy picture of a kitten or a kitten with a silly set of ears photoshopped onto it.

Women LOVE that shit. Take her out of her world into a better one, yours (the one YOU get to create).

Post: #46

I've been trying out a trick for dealing more with girls who want to change the location of a first date.


A girl from OKCupid was pleading with me to come meet her in a neighborhood that was far from me and not conducive to bang.

Here's my reply:

"We can meet at xxx but im not sure when ill be out there next"

I'd be curious to hear what your results are with this. I was trying to respond to the girl in a way that showed her that it didn't matter to me whether or not we met (implied pre-selection), that wasn't at a higher, butt-hurt, emotional pitch, and that basically says "if you don't meet me at the destination I selected, we aren't meeting tonight"

Post: #47

What do you have to lose by texting her back? Got some dates this way.

Post: #48

Holy fuck man this thread is 5 years old. I imagine soup figured it out somewhere along the way.

Post: #49

(04-15-2018 12:53 AM)Eugenics Wrote:  Holy fuck man this thread is 5 years old. I imagine soup figured it out somewhere along the way.

Fucking lol