Quote:1. For example, you become the one to always begin the conversation.
This is generally the lay of the land; sometimes its not, but that's why they call it opening. Fortune favors the bold; there's really not too much the typical average gamester can do about it until you have influence, cash, flash, dash, and a suit collection that would make Michael Porfirio Mason cry himself to sleep.
Quote:2. Becoming way to open, some things are better not said. PERIOD.
Discretion is a lost art form. Sometimes its advantageous to share...not often but it does happen. Chicks prefer mystery to knowledge, one of the many ways they differ from us.
Only the pertinent details and things you can relate by. By pertinent details I mean that you have a job and you are a heterosexual male. By things you can relate by, she'll help you out with that.
Quote:3. If the girl is saying something about how much she likes you and is not in a relationship yet with you, that means she has plenty of other options.
And what about you?
Never underestimate the appeal of a taken man.
If you don't have many options, that doesn't mean you can't make it appear that you do.
But this ties into discretion.
What to say:
I'd love to talk some more but I've gotta go meet someone for drinks soon.
Mysterious, succinct, to the point. For all she knows you're just hitting the bar with your buddies...but what if you're not?
What not to say:
I'd love to talk to you but I'm literally drowning in pussy juice from all of the girls I'm banging.
Trying way too hard.
See the difference? Subtlety, inferrence, getting her imagination working, these are what you want to do.
Quote:4. If she says she likes you but is scared, THAT EQUALS PURE BULLSHIT. THE BITCH IS CONFUSED.
This is a very common shit test, I'm sure we've all seen this one before.
What to say:
Well there's no pressure, we go out and something happens, that's cool, if not then whatever...
Laissez-faire and aloof but also curious and showing an acceptable amount of interest.