Post: #51

Lol Jaylow, WTF? Did you have long nails? Was she super duper tight or something? That happened to me once several years ago, made a girl bleed from fingering. But it was mostly because I was basically holding her up by her vagina, with my other arm around her lower back, me standing up. Haven't scratched a girl like that before or since.

My nails don't even touch the front vaginal wall, and the 'backstroke' is slower, so I don't think my nails would scratch anything. When I do it, the fingers are only moving vertically (assuming she's lying on a flat surface) - scratching her is unlikely when you're just moving fingers up and down, even quickly. Your technique must be off. Although I guess if she's wildly bucking her hips, that could change the finger positioning and cause scratches.

Post: #52

(02-27-2013 06:36 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  I was attacking a girls G spot with my fingers a week ago and she had to go to the doctor and had a pelvic infection and cuts inside her from me doing it too hard.

Guys, trim your finger nails. It's dangerous to go in their with talons. Besides, keeping them nice and short works great for not ever having to clean underneath them (because dirt can't get in where there's no space to stay).

Post: #53

I had recently cut fingernails, it wasnt that. I was attacking her G spot so hard I had half of her body off the bed and all that pressure was on her G spot and nowhere else. If I can deadlift 425 I can lift a girl off my bed with 1 arm. Shes 25 and said no one gave her an orgasm from the inside before. She did not bleed that night, but she was txting me the days after about how I "destroyed" her vagina and she had to go to the doctor because something was wrong. She told me she was super sore and there was blood the day after, she thought she got her period at first. The problem was probably that there was not enough lube and I was going too hard.

Post: #54

What about if the guy introduces the toy? I haven't been able to make this girl cum and we just happened to be at a sex shop together and I thought it might be interesting to buy a vibrator to use on girls.

I bought it and I think she thought I was buying it for her but I made it clear that it was for me and it was staying at my place. We went back to my place and I made her cum twice with it within 5 or 6 minutes.

She was literally starting to almost seizure with it and made me quit using it. After I was done doing that I fucked her and she was the wettest she had ever been during sex before. The next day she was texting me wanting to hang out again and talking about the vibrator.

I guess this is good for guys like me who sometimes have a problem lasting very long in bed.

Post: #55

Get your girl the egg. You keep the control. Take her out and play with it. Fun game. Soaked puss.

Post: #56

As long as she's not shoving a vibrator up my ass, I don't care. It's kind of a turn-on after she had a few orgasms to want to get another bigger one.

Post: #57

(02-25-2013 04:08 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  G ...I think you're missing my point. A girl busting out a vibrator during sex is like
a guy busting out a vibrating pocket pussy or putting on a porno.

It's an artificially induced orgasm. It's like saying "You're not doing it right" or
"I need help to get off".

Re: your quote "you're not doing it right".. 95% of guys aren't doing it right.

Bringing out a vibrator automatically puts you ahead of 95% of her other sexual encounters and quite possibly makes you the object of the best sexual pleasure she has ever had IN HER LIFE.

I believe it was Plato that said "there is something about making a girl cum from using a vibrator on her clit while you are pounding her with your cock that keeps her coming back for more!"

Positive re-enforcement is the concept I am talking about. Many girls find it hard to have vaginal orgasms because for those they need CONSTANT and CONSISTENT hard penetration for 15-20 minutes.

A way around this is to give them pleasure through their clit.

But similar to how girls are awful at giving hand jobs, men are generally just as bad if not worse at stimulating the clit.

Guys, A VIBRATOR IS YOUR FRIEND.

If you want a flow of steady women coming to your bed to retrieve their sexual pleasure from you that their husbands, boyfriends, other men in their lives cannot provide then use a vibrator while fucking them.

But hell.. on the other hand, caring about a woman's sexual pleasure is beta.. right?

Post: #58

*********** Right @ 46 minutes ********************

Post: #59

(02-25-2013 04:08 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  G ...I think you're missing my point. A girl busting out a vibrator during sex is like
a guy busting out a vibrating pocket pussy or putting on a porno.

It's an artificially induced orgasm. It's like saying "You're not doing it right" or
"I need help to get off".

You couldn't be more wrong mate, various girls have told me that an orgasm from a vibrator/toy and an orgasm from penetration are completely different sensations. If you can bang a girl doggy while she's going to town on her clit with a toy you can get her to have a simultaneous double orgasm. I did this with a chick I was fucking and I literally thought she was having a heart attack, she started kind of convulsing and it sounded like she was choking but it gave me a massive ego boost after the fact haha.

Also, if its with a chick you are seeing long term, she will forever associate having an orgasm with a toy with having sex with you, rather than her doing it when you've pissed her off too much to break you off with some pussy. Theres nothing to suggest you aren't "doing it right", although if you read it that way maybe you need to throw down better!

Post: #60

Get your girl to wear one of these when you go out.

http://www.vibratorwarehouse.com/decaden...07914.html

You get to keep the remote and when she 'misbehaves' press the button. Easy to do when at a movie. Bonus points for getting her to wear it out to dinner or social function.

Post: #61

Why are you so worried about pleasuring her?

Post: #62

(04-15-2013 11:37 AM)soup Wrote:  Why are you so worried about pleasuring her?

Do you guys not go after repeat bangs? If your a lame 2 pump chump do expect her to come running back to you the next night ready to do dirtier an kinkier things??

After blowing a girls mind with some good sex shit they will literally be
come you sex slave an let you do all kinds of kinky shit. An tell their friends an as soon as her friends get a chance they will try to game you....

Granted yea some girls I dont care about a repeat bang an just bang the way I want with not a care in the world of whether or not they are enjoying themselves. Plus girls talk if they bang you an you are terribly lame they are gonna tell their friends an your gonna have a strike against you if you wanna lay pipe to other girls in her social circle.

Post: #63

(04-15-2013 11:37 AM)soup Wrote:  Why are you so worried about pleasuring her?

Are you talking to me or OP?

Post: #64

(04-15-2013 11:47 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

(04-15-2013 11:37 AM)soup Wrote:  Why are you so worried about pleasuring her?

Do you guys not go after repeat bangs? If your a lame 2 pump chump do expect her to come running back to you the next night ready to do dirtier an kinkier things??

After blowing a girls mind with some good sex shit they will literally be
come you sex slave an let you do all kinds of kinky shit. An tell their friends an as soon as her friends get a chance they will try to game you....

Granted yea some girls I dont care about a repeat bang an just bang the way I want with not a care in the world of whether or not they are enjoying themselves. Plus girls talk if they bang you an you are terribly lame they are gonna tell their friends an your gonna have a strike against you if you wanna lay pipe to other girls in her social circle.

Post: #65

(04-15-2013 11:47 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

(04-15-2013 11:37 AM)soup Wrote:  Why are you so worried about pleasuring her?

Do you guys not go after repeat bangs? If your a lame 2 pump chump do expect her to come running back to you the next night ready to do dirtier an kinkier things??

After blowing a girls mind with some good sex shit they will literally be
come you sex slave an let you do all kinds of kinky shit. An tell their friends an as soon as her friends get a chance they will try to game you....

Granted yea some girls I dont care about a repeat bang an just bang the way I want with not a care in the world of whether or not they are enjoying themselves. Plus girls talk if they bang you an you are terribly lame they are gonna tell their friends an your gonna have a strike against you if you wanna lay pipe to other girls in her social circle.

Word. Plus I like when girls cum all over my dick and balls so I can make them lick it all off.

Making girls cum is how you get them to do shit for you. Buy you plane tickets and shit. Come on man.

As far as the why am I worried thing. I'm not worried at all. Worrying is how you dry the pussy up. I ain't got no worries.

Post: #66

(04-15-2013 11:47 AM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

(04-15-2013 11:37 AM)soup Wrote:  Why are you so worried about pleasuring her?

Do you guys not go after repeat bangs? If your a lame 2 pump chump do expect her to come running back to you the next night ready to do dirtier an kinkier things??

After blowing a girls mind with some good sex shit they will literally be
come you sex slave an let you do all kinds of kinky shit. An tell their friends an as soon as her friends get a chance they will try to game you....

Granted yea some girls I dont care about a repeat bang an just bang the way I want with not a care in the world of whether or not they are enjoying themselves. Plus girls talk if they bang you an you are terribly lame they are gonna tell their friends an your gonna have a strike against you if you wanna lay pipe to other girls in her social circle.

I can just hear their conversations now:

"Omg, Cr33pin was so amazing in bed! We were getting it on and he whipped out a giant... vibrating rubber dick! Yeah, he really knows how to work that dildo. You should give him a try.. hmnn don't know what you are missing!"

Post: #67

My friend used to keep dildos and vibrators in his drawer. He used them on countless girls. Surprisingly none ever questioned anything.

Post: #68

I stole a girls vibrator once at a party and was going up behind people's back and vibrating their faces. Got drunk and forgot I had it in my pocket and got searched by police later that night. The cops had a laugh and made fun of me. I tried to explain but they were like, "we don't want to know, get the fuck out of here and we do not want to see you again."

Haha.

Post: #69

Thinking about picking up a vibrator for a girl i've been swooping a few times.

Thoughts? Brands? Preferably something small, inexpensive and cordless. Not trying to bring up Mr. 10 inches w/a rotating wheel and buttplug attachment (ala Eurotrip movie, ha)

Post: #70

I look at it like this. Every headlining act needs an opener to warm up the crowd.

Post: #71

(07-10-2013 02:39 PM)DVY Wrote:  Thinking about picking up a vibrator for a girl i've been swooping a few times.

Thoughts? Brands? Preferably something small, inexpensive and cordless. Not trying to bring up Mr. 10 inches w/a rotating wheel and buttplug attachment (ala Eurotrip movie, ha)

Honestly, there's not going to be a one-sized-fits-all answer [no pun intended.] But, yeah, i'd start off with a smaller model and not the footlong purple saguaro.

Post: #72

For the guys over 30, one benefit of using toys is that you can use them on her during your refractory period, and she will be dripping wet when you are ready to go again.

Post: #73

I'm usually the one introducing the toys. You'd be surprised the amount of girls who are gleefully receptive and greatly turned on when I bring out the rope and ball-gag on the first date. I feel a little like Patrick Bateman but then I remember that guy was both a literal and figurative killer with the ladies.

They always cum hard.

Post: #74

(07-16-2013 12:13 PM)A War You Cannot Win Wrote:  I'm usually the one introducing the toys. You'd be surprised the amount of girls who are gleefully receptive and greatly turned on when I bring out the rope and ball-gag on the first date. I feel a little like Patrick Bateman but then I remember that guy was both a literal and figurative killer with the ladies.

They always cum hard.

That has to have backfired before, right?

Post: #75

Not yet.

However, you have to properly build up to it. I haven't tried going total Bateman on a sloot yet by just randomly springing it on them unprompted in the middle of of talking about New Order's critique on society and living in the moment as expressed by their song 'True Faith' (yet).

Before we meet up and we're exchanging sporadic texts she'll usually say she did something bad or something I wouldn't approve of - so I tell her that her behavior has earned her a spanking and that I'm starting a tally for her. This will plant the seed in her hamster controlled mind that I am a little bit kinky/dominant.

As we converse before the meet up, I start to get a fairly good read on the girl and I use that intel to know if I can become more aggressive and push the boundary even further. If she's playing along with my game I'll say something a little bit more suggestive like 'You seem to enjoy misbehaving. I'm not sure I can handle you, maybe I should bring some rope for our date'. I'll only suggest this if I'm 90% sure she'll be open to the idea or has experienced submission before, otherwise I risk falling too much into Bateman territory for most women. (On the first date, at least).

Example:

Last Saturday I had a date with a 8.5 Dutch/Indonesian nurse that could probably live off the kindness and benefice of men if she really wanted to. The first sign for me was her profession: Nurse. Nurses are surrounded by death all the time. They know just how brittle the glass of life is, so they're usually more overtly sexual and 'in the moment' type of gals. Every nurse I've met has been very open and receptive to kink.

As we're exchanging texts throughout the week she tells me she likes really masculine men - in her words 'I like a guy who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to take it'. There's flag #2. On a primal level, she wants to be clubbed in the head and dragged inside my cave. I postulate from that sentence she's probably has at least one fantasy that involves her being restrained and ravaged by a powerful man.


Now we have the go ahead to work spankings into the banter - spankings are the gateway to everything kinky, exploit that angle and you could have her wandering around on all fours with a collar and leash if you have patience and exploit her Gina tingles enough.

Once I've worked the spanking tally in, I look for my angle to get bondage in. I usually don't have to wait long. She was always mentioning how much she works and how that destroyed her last relationship. There was my angle.

War: it is always 'work work work' with you. Live a little.
Nurse: lol I can't help it!
War: I have an idea to get you away from work for a few hours...
Nurse: Oh, what's that?
War: Depends on how much of a bad girl you are.
Nurse: lol tell me!
War: Nope.
Nurse: Lol y not!?
War: I don't want to spoil the surprise.
Nurse: lol fine, can I have a clue?
War: Hmm, alright. It's a little bit kinky...
Nurse: hahaha okay go on!
War: It rhymes with 'pope'
Nurse: lol I'm drawing a blank
War: Think a little '50 Shades of Grey'.


Notice I gave myself an out, and could've easily pulled something more jocular out of my ass if she didn't give me a sign that it was okay to proceed. She eventually got it that I alluding to rope and tie her up with. She said I was all talk and I wouldn't bring anything. Girls love to challenge you and see how you respond. She works so much and feels compelled to do so she longs for a guy to just take her away from it, even if only for a few hours. Jack pot. Can't go to work if you're hog tied.


We had dinner at a nice little lounge in Studio City, and I just focused on making her laugh, utilizing 'Most Interesting Man' in the world game, and just sold her the idea of A War You Cannot Win. Our dinner lasted 3 hours, I wanted to cut it at the 90 minute but we vibed well and I had a great time talking to her. I wouldn't mind seeing her again and i genuinely enjoyed her company. The key here wasn't to get sexual immediately, but establish rapport. We made jokes about our creepy waiter, made fun of her for dressing up her dog in sweaters, and waited for her to bring up sex. I think it's important not to seem over eager about it. She asked me if i had any sexual fetishes after I joked about her deriving pleasure from administering urinary catheters and rectal tubes to patients. I simply said 'You already know, i like to tie people up'. The look in her eyes told me all I needed to know. She's surrounded by beta manboobs and desperately wants to be taken and fucked by a bold, bad man.

After making a joke about bending her over the table and giving the senior citizen couple dining next to her a show, I told her I was going to leave. We walked to my car where she flat out asked me 'Wheres your rope?' I popped open the trunk and brought out my leather bag with my BDSM implements in it and tossed a length appropriate enough to tie someone's wrists with. I let her examine it and play around with it for a bit standing next to my car in the parking lot when I asked her if she wanted to see what it was like to be tied up? She eagerly agreed.

We got in the backseat where I tied her hands in front of her and showed her how to properly do it. I was enjoying the sight of her in a skin tight black dress that accentuated her lovely curves where she found one of my ball-gags. She asked me what it was. 'A gag, darling'. She then asked if I used it on anyone before. I lied and said no, but I do sterilize it with every use. I asked if she'd like to try it and of course, she said yes. Even a socially clueless omega can tell she was turned on at this point. She didn't think I'd actually have any rope with me, and was pleasantly surprised when I displayed I was unlike most of the other guys that hit on her by actually not being a pussy and doing what I say.

At this point, I had a hot little nurse bound and gagged in the backseat of my car in the parking lot of a restaurant/lounge/banquet hall. You guys can figure out the rest.