Post: #1

I, as well as a lot of players have a decent harem and ive seen it talked about it plenty of times on here.. I have a rotation of about 4. Only problem is, is that they range between the 6 to 7 range.. I do ocassionally get about an 8 or above but it never turns into a regular fuck buddy thing..

I cant imagine a guy having a huge harem of hotties unless youre either A. 6'3 talk dark and handsome or B. filthy rich..

So my question is: what does your harem look like?

Post: #2

My harem limit always used to be 4. Then I would start messing things up too much. This was in a city of >100 000.

Eventually I lost the the energy for it, and stayed with one at a time.

Post: #3

Currently this is what I'm working with:

#1. Bottom Chick: Latina 8.5-9, 23yo. Was my girlfriend for years (met her when she was 18yo) had multiple affairs and still got notches. Eventually she had enough and cut me off. I had 2 mini-relationships since then both hell. We made contact again in November and I broke it down: I would 'date' her but open relationship only because I refuse to be monogamous. She agreed and things have been good. Smoking hot, loyal, ride or die type.

#2. Half-White half Panamanian (sp?) 7, 29yo. Been banging her for over 6 years. Always down, zero drama, cooks, throws me dough, solid cool girl. Easy booty call anytime of night.

#3. Half white half El Salvadorian solid 9, 24yo. Met her in November right after a nasty breakup. Chick is hot as fuck with major cock sucking lips. Problem is she went a bit mental on me wanting exclusivity so I let her cool off for a bit. Just brought her back into the rotation.

#4. White 8.5 tall model blonde model 23yo chick. Recent acquisition. Wrote a thread about her re: Craigslist Game. She's down to fuck and pulls no punches and she actually knows how to ride my cock for a white girl. New but chill and no drama so far.

Those are the regulars right now. I've found anymore than 4 and it becomes a bitch to manage. I have a couple girls I'd like to put on the roster to replace #3 but not sure it will happen.

Post: #4

Also, re: having a harem of 7's and up I will tell you it seems much easier to have a harem of 6-7's then dealing with 7-9's. The only reason my chicks are high on the scale is that I lay down the law and its attractive to them. It can become a headache though that's why I'm looking to replace #3 with a 7.5-8. Although they are not as hot, they're more chill and just want the cock; not exclusivity.

Post: #5

I actually don't like the word harem used like this. It sounds like too much bragging. Harem is when you have multipble women most of whom have known you as the only man locked up and guarded by einuchs. We don't have that to be honest.

What we have is a rotation and it should be called that. Rotation is dynamic and much more changing then a harem. You don't own these women and only use them for the time circumstances and opportunity allow that. Let's just be honest about that.

Okay if you live in a house and have 3 or more women living with you as with an only man whom the sexually please on a permament arrangement then you have a harem, but who here lives like that?

Also I don't think it is worth it to care about the amount of girls in your rotation. This is an ever changing number and depends from the effort you put in it. And keeping big amount of girls in a rotation requires a lor of maniging that is too bothersome to have for a long time. I have had up to some 5 girls simultanoisly in my rotation, but when numbers get so high it's often too tough to tell if some girl counts or not. Most of the time I am having just one main girl and an another girl whom I meet rarely, so that is two. I could increase that number but it takes a large effort and is not what I want to do daily. My main girl must be at least an 8 for me to feel content and the other girl is usually from 7 to 9.

Also having 4 girls in 6-7 range is not really a problem. These are decent grades.

Post: #6

One 27yd 8 (she's also half white/half El Salvadorian oddly enough - good mix) who lives across the country but I see about once a month. Hottest sex of my life.

A local 32yd white 6. I knew her in college, she was a 9, she's gained some weight. Still has a super cute face but is on the border for being too heavy.

I'd like to add one more local girl and maybe replace the 6 with a 7 or 8. I don't think I could handle more than 3. I've gotta agree with McQueen'sPlayboyRules - dating 8+s is a pain in the ass. I did it a few times when I was younger and I'm now bored with it. I'd rather be with cute chicks who know how to fuck and have low drama.

Post: #7

Not quite a proper harem but the six or seven girls I was fucking every now and then all pretty much vanished into thin air this week. Unbelievable, pretty sure Roosh made a post about this supernatural occurrence, a sign from the Game Gods. Oh well, looks like we'll start over.

New pussy>Old pussy

Post: #8

(02-21-2013 08:00 PM)Mage Wrote:  I actually don't like the word harem used like this. It sounds like too much bragging. Harem is when you have multipble women most of whom have known you as the only man locked up and guarded by einuchs. We don't have that to be honest.

Yeah that's true. On the other hand, the first time I started seeing the word "harem" in connection with game wasn't by players themselves, rather meta-commentary about sexual market dynamics post-sexual-revolution. The term was "soft harem" to distinguish from the classic harem, and the focus was on the consequences for beta males and females looking for commitment from alphas.

Post: #9

(02-25-2013 09:38 AM)Blaster Wrote:  

(02-21-2013 08:00 PM)Mage Wrote:  I actually don't like the word harem used like this. It sounds like too much bragging. Harem is when you have multipble women most of whom have known you as the only man locked up and guarded by einuchs. We don't have that to be honest.

Yeah that's true. On the other hand, the first time I started seeing the word "harem" in connection with game wasn't by players themselves, rather meta-commentary about sexual market dynamics post-sexual-revolution. The term was "soft harem" to distinguish from the classic harem, and the focus was on the consequences for beta males and females looking for commitment from alphas.

Yeah, well that little word "soft" adds a hard felt difference in this case.

Post: #10

For a while I had three married women going, it dropped to two, and a new third just entered the picture (see my post on gaming a married woman).

I don't know if the third will remain.

Two seems right for me, and I don't think two constitutes a harem.

By the way, one of the two came over Saturday night (she had a "girls night out") and the blowjob was beyond fantastic.

Post: #11

(02-21-2013 07:55 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  It can become a headache though that's why I'm looking to replace #3 with a 7.5-8. Although they are not as hot, they're more chill and just want the cock; not exclusivity.

Would you ever replace #4 with a 7.75-8.34?

Post: #12

(02-21-2013 07:52 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  Currently this is what I'm working with:

#1. Bottom Chick: Latina 8.5-9, 23yo. Was my girlfriend for years (met her when she was 18yo) had multiple affairs and still got notches. Eventually she had enough and cut me off. I had 2 mini-relationships since then both hell. We made contact again in November and I broke it down: I would 'date' her but open relationship only because I refuse to be monogamous. She agreed and things have been good. Smoking hot, loyal, ride or die type.

#2. Half-White half Panamanian (sp?) 7, 29yo. Been banging her for over 6 years. Always down, zero drama, cooks, throws me dough, solid cool girl. Easy booty call anytime of night.

#3. Half white half El Salvadorian solid 9, 24yo. Met her in November right after a nasty breakup. Chick is hot as fuck with major cock sucking lips. Problem is she went a bit mental on me wanting exclusivity so I let her cool off for a bit. Just brought her back into the rotation.

#4. White 8.5 tall model blonde model 23yo chick. Recent acquisition. Wrote a thread about her re: Craigslist Game. She's down to fuck and pulls no punches and she actually knows how to ride my cock for a white girl. New but chill and no drama so far.

Those are the regulars right now. I've found anymore than 4 and it becomes a bitch to manage. I have a couple girls I'd like to put on the roster to replace #3 but not sure it will happen.

4 seems to be a magic number if you are wrangling multiple Gfs. I've found that I keep several more going if the relationships are more tenuous.

Post: #13

1. Cute mexican/white chick (I call her Rose) that I've been dating for over a year that I rather enjoy dating, but who is likely going to figure out or ask if we're exclusive and not like the answer to. I see her the most, we are both busy, but she studies near my house so I often have her stop by afterwards. Petite, nice brown girl body with amazingly perky tits and a super tight vag that I've figured out how to get off very easily when before she'd had major trouble. Just needed to figure out her head. Have a lot of fun with her, have to keep my distance because she wants to have too much PDA.

2. Italian, french and ??? (call her Maria), cute white girl with awesome curly brown hair. Has a little bit of bug eyes her grill isn't perfect, but she's 5'9" and thin, is just starting a new gig as a fitness instructor which will pay additional dividends. Great lay, very submissive, very laid back. Moved into my neighborhood (walking distance away) when I was still dating her, she has since asked for the talk, gave it to her, we stopped dating, a month or so passed and now she is friends with benefits.

3. Italian/white? girl (Kay) who I've just recently started hanging out with but that I've known as the roommate of my good female volleyball playing friend for a while. Pretty, not perfect, but really nice body and smart/funny. I'd socialized with her previously when my friend had brought her over to my place or my town for partying/dancing. Finally realized I was an idiot for not pursuing (not from fear, just generally not thinking) her as she's definitely attractive.

This is how I started it off, the next free night I have (possibly tonight) I'll be having her bring the movies. I actually told her I'd bring the wine, but she wants to bring that too. I am starting to dig this girl and I need to be careful as I haven't been able to escalate the physical much due to hanging out with her where we didn't have hardly any privacy and for other reasons. This next time I hang out with her I have to escalate or I'm screwed.

I am worried with this new girl Kay that there's a higher possibility of fucking it up due to various circumstances and that I'm pretty damn into her. I cannot wait to get her naked. I've had this main girl Rose going and Maria on the side as FWB, but I've not expanded my harem in too long (and the rest of the options died). I feel like I am at risk for harem collapse, but I am going to avoid or build it back up if I have to. The sex has been really, really good with both Maria and Rose and I've been lazy with that being the case. As an example, this morning I banged Maria for a while, went down on her and made her cum hard, then fucked her for a while longer before busting hard enough that I was shuddering hard from it. Then we laid for a bit and she got ready for work (she works earlier than I do), but I was hard again and she sucked me off for a bit then told me she needed to run home, call her boss and say she needed to come in late, then she could come back before work because she wanted so badly to ride me. I told her not to be late for work (it's good to set the girl boundaries, especially because then they can't do some hamster shit and blame you for making them late), but made her suck me some more before heading out, telling her she could think of that for the day while she's working and I'd let her know when to come finish riding me and sucking me off.

I think that 3 in a harem is perfect, any more and it's too much work, but even if you have 3 you should be working on prospects occasionally because 3 can become 2 or 1 REALLY fast.

Having 2 means that it's likely you will have some times that both girls are on the rag or they are busy. Having 3 usually always leaves 1 option available any given day of the week.

Post: #14

(02-25-2013 10:17 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(02-21-2013 07:55 PM)McQueensPlayboyRules Wrote:  It can become a headache though that's why I'm looking to replace #3 with a 7.5-8. Although they are not as hot, they're more chill and just want the cock; not exclusivity.

Would you ever replace #4 with a 7.75-8.34?

Definitely hahaha

Post: #15

three

Post: #16

Four tops. Ive tried for more but it all jut kinda collapses.

Post: #17

(02-25-2013 09:41 AM)Mage Wrote:  

(02-25-2013 09:38 AM)Blaster Wrote:  

(02-21-2013 08:00 PM)Mage Wrote:  I actually don't like the word harem used like this. It sounds like too much bragging. Harem is when you have multipble women most of whom have known you as the only man locked up and guarded by einuchs. We don't have that to be honest.

Yeah that's true. On the other hand, the first time I started seeing the word "harem" in connection with game wasn't by players themselves, rather meta-commentary about sexual market dynamics post-sexual-revolution. The term was "soft harem" to distinguish from the classic harem, and the focus was on the consequences for beta males and females looking for commitment from alphas.

Yeah, well that little word "soft" adds a hard felt difference in this case.

Just call it plate spinning, if you have more than one girl on rotation you are officially spinning plates.

Post: #18

Four seems to be the limit for me. I prefer three because I can still have some time for myself.

Post: #19

I'm in the awkward position that my girls are spread across Europe so I only see each one on a bi-monthly basis. That's a problem with doing nearly all my gaming on holiday - a problem I need to deal with by getting some London girls going. I don't know if harem, rotation, spinning plates is the right word. All of them are in love with me and exclusive to me. All of them know there are others.

1. Serb A - My top girl. Smoking hot 21yr old. Tall, leggy head-turner. A dirty hound in bed but only one prior sexual partner.
2. Serb B - Another leggy head-turner, 23, she's a folk singer in her little town. She's a bit crazy and gives me drama. One prior partner.
3. Belorussian - A 23yr old former nightclub dancer. A bit of a tart. She's now a kept woman with a Moscow millionaire (he's put her on a salary and apartment in her hometown and visits once a month for sex).
4. Lithuanian - Not the hottest but my favourite. 23yr old, very thoughtful "good girl". One prior partner.
5. Croatian - A buxom 21yr old philosophy student. Great personality, pneumatic figure. A bit needy. One prior partner
6. Bosnian - A 26yr old journalist. She's the weakest link, the only one I don't have a strong hold on.

1-5 are solid 8s. 6 is a seven. I like the idea of having girls in cities I can go visit for a shagging holiday but truth be told its a bit of a hassle. Would much rather have 3-4 regulars in London so that's what I'm working on.

Post: #20

1. I have one main girl right now. Cute Thai girl,28, athletic build, with nice tits. Cooks Thai food, does my laundry, puts lotion of me everynight, masssages me,pays for my shit,solid 7. She is def housewife material.
2. White girl is sending me some dirty pics and texts. I'm in for sure with this one All around a 6 and pretty inexpereinced. Problem is she is a cupcake/2 weeks away from the gym from being too fat for me.
3. Third girl (white) is a good girl. Solid 6.5-7. She will take some work but I am willing to do that since I am set with two others.

Post: #21

(02-28-2013 09:22 AM)Krauser Wrote:  1. Serb A - My top girl. Smoking hot 21yr old. Tall, leggy head-turner. A dirty hound in bed but only one prior sexual partner.

What's the point in keeping track of your harem's collective notch count? Do you believe that they really have had one sexual partner? Why does it even matter in the first place?

Post: #22

It matters because it is an indicator of their character and potential level of attraction. A girl who has had dozens of guys in her bed is going to be less stable in a harem situation than a girl who has had one prior partner, probably eons ago, and is more or less in love with her man. The high-count girl will think less of meeting and sleeping with other guys, whereas "sexual inertia" will keep lower-count girls in a relationship even if they aren't completely satisfied with it.

Post: #23

While I used to very much enjoy the benefits of a rotation system (booty call on demand, cooking service, making her adjust to your needs, making her wear lingerie etc), I realised that there are also some disadvantages. If I have three girls on demand, I will be sexually satisfied most of the time and my drive to get new pussy will not be as high. I also noticed that I put less effort into new prospects if I know that in case I fail, all I have to do is dial a number to have an already experienced girl come over and serve me well. Then there are all the little annoying things like the crap they leave in the apartment and the scent they may leave on your sheets (other girls will know and bug me with questions). So whenever I feel Im getting to lazy, I drop all but one and take a break or go someplace where I cant bootycall.