Post: #1

In the past few months I got quite good with both my night game and my day game, but I noticed that I feel a little lonely. Many of my friends told me to get an actual girlfriend, but I kept rejecting the idea. Recently I've met a girl at a school event and invited her to a grab a coffee. All things went well, actually I've got more feedback from her than from most of the sluts I usually date, and I went for the number. I know she likes to text but, my aproach on texting is rather direct. This girl made me rethink the whole girlfrienfd idea.
If you can help me with some suggestions or ideas that could help, I would be more than thankful.
Thank you in advance... (Sorry if this thread had been discussed before)

Post: #2

What's the actual problem, mate? I'm confused. The date went well, you dig her but you don't think you want to continue because you text differently to each other?

Post: #3

Someone made another post here today about really passive shy girls, the more direct and dominant over her you are the better chance you have of getting what you want. If you tone things down more to her level you risk not getting her. PHONE HER, be assertive, lead every step of the way.

Post: #4

When I rext a girl it is very sumary like ''hey,it's....,nice to meet you, what's up'' , I'm not really good at making texting conversation becouse I have the impression I don't get a good feedback (I suppose as long as she text back it's a good sign). On the other hand I don't want to become her texting budy or some sort, so I'm thinking about saying things like "you won't belive what I just saw", wait for her response and then text something funny.

Post: #5

Phone her. Do not ask to phone her. Be direct and tell her what the 2 of you are going to be doing. Do not make it sexual.

Post: #6

(02-18-2013 11:05 PM)Jaylow Wrote:  Phone her. Do not ask to phone her. Be direct and tell her what the 2 of you are going to be doing. Do not make it sexual.

I found out that we learn at the same school, if I'm supposed not to make it sexual, I'm thinking about inviting her to tag along on the way home. LastI asked her out again last friday, and she said she was tired (maybe she actually was), and since the weather conditions were unfavorable, we just texted over the weekend (it seems liked the lamest thing that I've ever done ) )

Post: #7

text her to walk home with you??? cue captain pecard face palm

Post: #8

If things go well as you describe and she knows meets up with you knowing you're interested then text "what are you doing tonight/tomorrow?" and that's it. It's straightforward yet not sexual.

If you don't want to become her texting budy DO NOT beat around the bush with things like "you won't belive what I just saw", wait for her response and then text something funny. That's like.. how to become her texting buddy 101. OTOH you can win with some texting back and forth if you direct of all that texting in direction you want [to get her curious or bit intrigued or more familiar with you or build some comfort at first and then go more direct]

my personal take.. PHONE GUIDE link in my signature

Post: #9

Be funny. Tell her you want to get to know her better and that she should tell you something about herself. Ask her about her most embarrassing experience etc.
That should make her light up

Post: #10

Watch Rocky to see how to get a shy girl and keep his frame of mind.