Post: #76

On a 28-day cycle, you've got a 3-4 day window where the girl can get knocked up. The whole thing about pre-cum or residual semen left in the pipes from a previous fuck are nice and all, but unless you're blowing your load balls deep on her cervix, I'd say the odds of knocking her up are still reduced.

If this dude honestly pulled out each and every time, he should tell her flat out that he wants a paternity test at the first available opportunity, and that he wants to be present when all samples are collected. And he needs to make it clear that he will not discuss anything else regarding this pregnancy until a test is done.

Even if the kid turns out to be his, he's well within in his right to treat her like complete dog shit for what she did, and he ought to kick her ass to the curb right away. She did fuck him over after all.

He's under no obligation to her whatsoever. She can go on medicaid and get help from the state. But he can't be liable for anything until the paternity is determined. And considering how the courts are now holding men responsible despite paternity testing that proves otherwise, he would be wise to avoid doing anything that could be interpreted as "fatherly" until the test results arrive.

Post: #77

(02-17-2013 09:39 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  Once a woman truly decides that she wants a baby, she'll try to get pregnant by the next decent guy she fucks. If he's got a good job and is good looking (they want a pretty baby), you can believe they'll be an "accident." She won't give a damn if HE wants a kid - it's all about HER being ready for one, and she won't care if he wants to be a part of bringing the kid up. She'll definitely want him to help pay to raise the kid though.

There's something particularly sinister about this too that also applies to post-wall women trying to have babies on their own due to the clock ticking (Artificial insemination). And that something is that they're deliberately creating a single parent household, regardless of the impact this would have on the kid. They want kids, but oddly they don't care enough about them to look out for their long-term interests by not creating a single parent household. They want kids as accessories and status symbols. Like I always say, women want BABIES, not KIDS. There's a key difference.

Post: #78

I'd be incredibly suspicious if I was this dude. Can't find the study now (at work) but it was definitively proven pre cum does not at all contain sperm. So if you're pulling out you should be good unless you get lazy. Anecdotally I've raw dogged no pill chicks (I know, I know) enough to have back this up. Dude needs to paternity test, badly.

Post: #79

(02-18-2013 08:25 PM)flyfreshandyoung Wrote:  I'd be incredibly suspicious if I was this dude. Can't find the study now (at work) but it was definitively proven pre cum does not at all contain sperm. So if you're pulling out you should be good unless you get lazy. Anecdotally I've raw dogged no pill chicks (I know, I know) enough to have back this up. Dude needs to paternity test, badly.

Not true, that study was incomplete:

Quote:A noted limitation to these previous studies' findings is that pre-ejaculate samples were analyzed after the critical two-minute point. That is, looking for motile sperm in small amounts of pre-ejaculate via microscope after two minutes – when the sample has most likely dried – makes examination and evaluation "extremely difficult."[5] Thus, in March 2011 a team of researchers assembled 27 male volunteers and analyzed their pre-ejaculate samples within two minutes after producing them. The researchers found that 11 of the 27 men (41%) produced pre-ejaculatory samples that contained sperm, and 10 of these samples (37%) contained a "fair amount" of motile sperm (i.e. as little as 1 million to as many as 35 million).[5] As a point of reference, a study showed that, of couples who conceived within a year of trying, only 2.5% included a male partner with a total sperm count (per ejaculate) of 23 million sperm or less.[13] However, across a wide range of observed values, total sperm count (as with other identified semen and sperm characteristics) has weak power to predict which couples are at risk of pregnancy.[14]

Post: #80

(02-18-2013 08:35 PM)tmason Wrote:  

(02-18-2013 08:25 PM)flyfreshandyoung Wrote:  I'd be incredibly suspicious if I was this dude. Can't find the study now (at work) but it was definitively proven pre cum does not at all contain sperm. So if you're pulling out you should be good unless you get lazy. Anecdotally I've raw dogged no pill chicks (I know, I know) enough to have back this up. Dude needs to paternity test, badly.

Not true, that study was incomplete:

The same link states that it's possible the guys in that study used their semen out of embarassment of not being able to produce pre-ejaculate.

Post: #81

Here's a song that describes the same scenario of a bitch who schemes to get pregnant and where Phonte gives some advice to any man caught in the same situation.
Close Call

Quote: Until one night she put my hand on her stomach
And said, "Baby, we gon' be a family once I pop this kid."
I said, "Bullshit.
So let me back it.
And just explain to you, exactly what your options is.
Option one: Take this nigga to the Hoover
Or option two: Fuck on, I never knew ya.

The rest of the album by 88 Keys, The Death of Adam, addresses other themes relevant to the player lifestyle.