Post: #1

Hi all,
So I was at this bar last Saturday, smoking a cig when this little French cutie opened me. We got talking, danced and a heavy makeout followed. I was playing the aloof, passive-aggressive guy and she seemed to love it. Anyway she wouldn't come back to my place that night (she was with her friends and I was with mine), so I gave her my number which she memorized since neither of us had out cellphones with us. Anyway, fast forward 5 days and I get a message - Do you want to meet up for a drink? Problem is, I'm leaving town for 2 weeks, so I played the jet-setter busy types and told her maybe but it has to be in the evening. So after some ping-pong, finally she wants to meet up this eve, but she has to be at a party after. The time she proposes is 9pm at a location near her party. I am thinking not to go but suggesting her to msg me after the party if she wants to meet up.

What do you guys think?


PS: This chick seems quite into me, but I really don't want to meet on her terms.

Post: #2

Sometimes I just don't get it.

People post about how hooking up with girls, and now a girl looks like she's into you and your asking if you should go or not...?




Dude just go with it, chances are, if everything goes smooth you two might not even end up going to the party but to your place or whatever place you can bang her.

Post: #3

I believe this is meant for the newbie forum.

As for responding to the OP: If you don't want to meet her on her terms, set a different date. Counter propose.

Post: #4

I don't have another date for the next 2 weeks as I will be on the road. The question is meet before the party or ask her to msg me after for an "after-party" (my place, of course)

Post: #5

Why do some guys on this forum think they have to be hardasses about scheduling a date? I guess the idea is to come across as "alpha" to the girl but more often than not you are just cockblocking yourself.Yes the man should take the lead in scheduling but often dates have to be negotiated.
My #1 Rule of Game is: I cannot fuck a girl
unless I am physically in her presence

Post: #6

if you don't go to meet her she'll wind up fucking someone else at the party

Post: #7

^^^ This
women are fickle as hell and you should always try to strike while the pussy is hot for you

Post: #8

Update: Went for the drink. Walked her to the party (nearby). Told her I want to see her after and msg'ed details to get to my place. 2 hrs later, I get the call. She's waiting below my residence, horny as hell. The rest mes amis, c'est histoire haha. The stereotypes about French girls are true to an extent - this one was pretty wild in the sack. Needless to say, it was ransacked.

Thanks for the wisdom, much appreciated.

Post: #9

(02-10-2013 01:18 PM)capote Wrote:  Update: Went for the drink. Walked her to the party (nearby). Told her I want to see her after and msg'ed details to get to my place. 2 hrs later, I get the call. She's waiting below my residence, horny as hell. The rest mes amis, c'est histoire haha. The stereotypes about French girls are true to an extent - this one was pretty wild in the sack. Needless to say, it was ransacked.

Thanks for the wisdom, much appreciated.

You fucked on her terms? Was that beta?

Post: #10

(02-10-2013 08:45 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

(02-10-2013 01:18 PM)capote Wrote:  Update: Went for the drink. Walked her to the party (nearby). Told her I want to see her after and msg'ed details to get to my place. 2 hrs later, I get the call. She's waiting below my residence, horny as hell. The rest mes amis, c'est histoire haha. The stereotypes about French girls are true to an extent - this one was pretty wild in the sack. Needless to say, it was ransacked.

Thanks for the wisdom, much appreciated.

You fucked on her terms? Was that beta?

Lol epic.

Post: #11

Op = winning