Post: #101

(02-20-2013 02:23 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Interesting stuff. 
Sounds like you are on a good career path. That is more important then girls. You can always be a lawyer who plays music on the side. Don't ignore your artistic passions.

The other thing I want to tell you is this...

Don't let the "manosphere" shape your perspective. The manosphere is mostly guys who are unsuccessful with women. Their perspective is jaded. Many are bitter and butthurt. Many have grown to hate women because women don't like them. Don't allow these types to influence you.

Gain real world experience off the computer. Then, come to your own conclusions.

As you know, most people are unhappy, obese, and beta. You don't wanna be like "most people". You wanna be better then "most people". So, you have to think and act a little differently then "most people".

For most of my life, people have been trying to convince me that "the glass was half empty". I never argued. I just said, "more water for me", and took the entire glass for myself. If that makes sense..

The manosphere does sometimes reek of spergs and sour grapes. I've felt pretty bitter about my experiences with women in my life, that's for sure. I think most of us come here feeling pretty bitter and pissed off, and that's understandable. But ultimately its counterproductive and won't help you get any pussy.

The main lesson of the manosphere that I've taken so far, and what I think is the most important one, is just how much the culture that I was raised in ( at home, in school, and in greater society in general) have emasculated me. I felt like I was going nowhere in my life after I graduated college ( not that I felt particularly great in school), and the manosphere helped me realize that the core reason for that was that I was disconnected from my masculinity. "Game" is about finding your inner man and letting him come out in your interactions with women, instead of continuing with the sniveling beta bullshit most of us have been acculturated to using.

Post: #102

Not all of us have bad experiences with women. Personally, I have nothing bad to say about any of the women in my past. For the most part they were really great. If anyone did the mistreating it was usually me.

Post: #103

the worst part of game is not having it!!

Post: #104

I sometimes feel bad for the girls that really like me like a potential boyfriend.

But, like the guy who slaughters cows for a living, I gotta do what I gotta do even if it isn't pretty.

Post: #105

(07-05-2013 03:13 PM)soup Wrote:  I sometimes feel bad for the girls that really like me like a potential boyfriend.

But, like the guy who slaughters cows for a living, I gotta do what I gotta do even if it isn't pretty.

I'm not as far along in my red pill journey as you soup but I agree with this. I still get beta pangs from time to time and what works for me is to think if the roles were reversed there's not a single woman who would hesitate to (metaphorically) slit my throat and bail on a moment's notice if I did the same to her.

Post: #106

(07-05-2013 05:01 PM)RCron Wrote:  

(07-05-2013 03:13 PM)soup Wrote:  I sometimes feel bad for the girls that really like me like a potential boyfriend.

But, like the guy who slaughters cows for a living, I gotta do what I gotta do even if it isn't pretty.

I'm not as far along in my red pill journey as you soup but I agree with this. I still get beta pangs from time to time and what works for me is to think if the roles were reversed there's not a single woman who would hesitate to (metaphorically) slit my throat and bail on a moment's notice if I did the same to her.

Empathy neurons at work. It is sadness. I really don't like to see people suffer. It hurts me.

Post: #107

For me, it's growing to hate women a tiny bit. They can always find a way to rationalize or blame someone else for their behavior. I've slept with a married woman and two girls with boyfriends in the past two months. I knew about one boyfriend, which makes me guilty as well, but I didn't know about one boyfriend and I certainly didn't know about that husband. But they all ended up saying something that put the blame on me or suggested they couldn't control themselves... I guess I just feel like men (in my experience anyway) are far better at owning up to their poor behavior.

Post: #108

(02-07-2013 02:32 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  I'm not understanding who was teaching you guys all this nice stuff about women. Who? When?

The fuzzy hat guy.

He says that women are these perfect allmighty beings that need to be brought down to low levels though the power of neg hits so you can actually have a chance with them.

Respect the cock!

Post: #109

If you're a romantic guy like I was back in my beta days, it's that women loose all of their mystique you thought they possess. You see them only as never grown-up little kids and the disillusion can be sometimes painful.

Post: #110

(07-06-2013 06:36 AM)MeshTryOut Wrote:  If you're a romantic guy like I was back in my beta days, it's that women loose all of their mystique you thought they possess. You see them only as never grown-up little kids and the disillusion can be sometimes painful.

That's true. There's still a part of me who wishes I could be that sappy, romantic, nice guy who does all of the nauseating things to show my appreciation for women. In other words, being the character in all of those rom com movies where being beta and worshipping women gets them the girl in the end.

But, all of that is simply a fabrication by hollywood and the media and not the way female attraction works. So, we either play by the laws of nature and treat then the way they really want or get used to

Post: #111

It sucks when you realize most of them are sluts.

It's almost a cold reality. The same one you realized when you die there is probably no salvation. You get used to it.

Post: #112

The cold lonely nights