Post: #26

I think the stereotype of American Black Women is a little off, at least in my experience on the West Coast. Out here we have some beautiful, feminine, intelligent but lady like black girls. The whole loud mouth ghetto chick is not so common out here. I have dated 15-20 "chocolate bunnies", and none of them were overly rude, materialistic, loud, masculine, or shady. (At least not anymore then the white/latin/asian girls i dated)

Out here, we know that the mainstream hip hop culture is a fake reality created by the record companies.

We don't try so hard to fit in to the mainstream ideas. If your Black and you wanna study yoga, become a chef, or a scientist, or a writer. We respect that. Trying to be a thug only makes you a "wanna-be". If your a real thug, people will see that and respect it.

I think the problem is that black women have had to deal with so much bullshit. Their confidence, creativity, and identity has suffered a bit.

Come to California, go to any major university, you will find plenty of Black Women that don't fit the stereotype.

I have even dated a few girls who were straight from Africa (Kenya, Ghana, Nigeria). These girls were sweet, soft, feminine, and charming. And they loved to please their man.

btw, I am not Black, I am Latino/White. I have been dating black girls since the 7th grade. I have swooped at least 10 and I have dated at least 20. I know this is a sensitive subject and i know we have alot of Black men on this forum. What I said is my personal opinion and it is based on my interactions with hundreds of Black women that i have met here in California.

Post: #27

(06-09-2010 02:51 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I think the stereotype of American Black Women is a little off, at least in my experience on the West Coast. Out here we have some beautiful, feminine, intelligent but lady like black girls. The whole loud mouth ghetto chick is not so common out here. I have dated 15-20 "chocolate bunnies", and none of them were overly rude, materialistic, loud, masculine, or shady. (At least not anymore then the white/latin/asian girls i dated)

Out here, we know that the mainstream hip hop culture is a fake reality created by the record companies.

We don't try so hard to fit in to the mainstream ideas. If your Black and you wanna study yoga, become a chef, or a scientist, or a writer. We respect that. Trying to be a thug only makes you a "wanna-be". If your a real thug, people will see that and respect it.

Black women have just as much capability as any other type of women. I think the problem is that black women have been treated so bad for the last 500 years that they are just "acting out" just like a kid who gets treated bad at home, acts out in school.

Come to California, go to any major university, you will find plenty of Black Women that don't fit the stereotype.

I have even dated a few girls who were straight from Africa (Kenya, Ghana, Nigeria). These girls were sweet, soft, feminine, and charming. And they loved to please their man.

btw, I am not Black, I am Latino/White. I have been dating black girls since the 7th grade. I have swooped at least 10 and I have dated at least 20. I know this is a sensitive subject and i know we have alot of Black men on this forum. What I said is my personal opinion and it is based on my interactions with hundreds of Black women that i have met here in California.

Right on Giovanny...The West Coast is a totally different animal... I was born in The Bay and raised in West LA and you had tons of Sistas that fit your description and I definitely miss that. When I'm not traveling or back in The West I'm usually in Atlanta and even though the sistas are fine here I'm just not as attracted to them any longer. I prefer sistas from the West Coast and Educated women who went to private HBCU'S lol (Howard, Spelman, Hampton, Clark Atlanta, FAMU) types who have a strong since of identity and sharp, fine and like Luda says..."lady in the streets & a freak in the bed" and usually have it going on and are cultured come from established two-parent households) and sistas from the African Diaspora (Mixed-Black girls from the Carribean/Canada/Central/South American/Etc) moreso.

Post: #28

^^^ I agree Giovanny. I think people go way overboard stereotyping them all as ghetto. Now I'm not going to lie, a sizable number of them are, if you are in Watts or Oakland you're going to see that a lot. But a lot of them them don't live in that environment either and are just like any other type of chic. Being ghetto is a mentality more than anything and I've seen white and Latin chics who act ghetto as well, or at least try to emulate what they see in hiphop videos.

Post: #29

(06-04-2010 05:11 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  I beg your pardon?

Its sexy when you beg...

Post: #30

(06-09-2010 03:33 PM)hydrogonian Wrote:  

(06-04-2010 05:11 PM)Mrs. Chocolate Wrote:  I beg your pardon?

Its sexy when you beg...

And way much better when YOU beg.