Post: #26

money and good looks get you looked at and give you attention

it is up to you to make something of that attention and that is where game comes in. game alone won't do the trick but ignoring it will leave you lonely. game is the fundamentals, it won't do everything for you but lack of knowledge of the fundamentals will mess you up too.

men need to use game for more than just seduction, they need to use to upgrade social status and upgrade their own value.

as for online dating, the population is a lot more shallow so if you don't have looks and money then you are starting way behind.

Post: #27

snakeeyes you can't just throw this shit out there and not elaborate on your method

what's your profile like? pictures? messages? etc.

Post: #28

Money works for you because you have the confidence to take advantage of it. Most betas who happen to drive expensive cars and wear high end clothes don't have that confidence. They can peacock with their loot all night long, but they'd never make a move on a girl, even if she were giving them crazy IOIs, and they would sooner hold hands with a dude than openly rub a girl's breasts in a crowd.

Sometimes the way you've acquired the money, and the fact that you have successfully done so, instills confidence, which is a big component of game. So, in that sense, money does contribute to game. There are a lot of guys, though, who have it all, and still don't have a clue when it comes to attracting women.

Post: #29

I just slept over at a certified 8/10 (maybe 9/10). I met her on an app. My pics were of me and y friend in my car [top down sunny day], sunglasses collection, and military shot in a tank.

She was very combative/gamey in her texts. It took me about 4-5 days from initial hello to getting at her place.

She's 5'11 and I'm 5'4. Use money to get in shape, buy cool shit, and live in desirable neighborhoods

Post: #30

(02-06-2013 01:05 PM)UrbanNerd Wrote:  I think folks are getting the term "provider" confused when it comes to this lifestyle.

Who is saying the using a provider approach means money/gifts/etc will be transferred?

You are using the IMAGE of being a POTENTIAL provider to reel the chick in.

Once those panties drop and you bang, who says you must stick around to actually provide?

The thing is, when you get pegged as a "provider," she generally doesn't put out as quickly. If a girl thinks you're relationship/husband material, she's more likely to hold back the sex in order to not appear like a slut.

Post: #31

Money and Sex are nothing more than results of similar skill-sets (health, salesmanship (ability to transfer/evoke happy thoughts & emotions), and hobbies etc.). So, instead of focusing on the results and their correlation, the focus must be on improving skills and building habits that lead to them. Results will come automatically.

How to build skills to improve sex life? Practice skills with girls you're attracted to. Also, practice skills that relate specifically to sex (fingering, massage etc.)

How to build skills to improve finances? Practice skills with both men & women. Also, practice skills that relate specifically to your work (coding, marketing etc.)