WARNING: Rambling
I have some thoughts on Denmark, this is more of a very unordered ramble about stuff Ive been thinking about, cant be bothered to start a thread
I dont post in here much so for some background, I'm a self employed mobile/web developer, from England and due to some of that work being remote, I currently split my time between London and Copenhagen, and have been doing so for about 16 months.
And as race/physical appearance is a factor in these things, I'm a 6 foot 5, 265 lb dark-skinned black guy , like Wesley Snipes black if you were wondering
To put it simply, Denmark is kinda turning me into a simp. The personalities here are fantastic, and the women are beautiful.
I think roosh discussed this in his Denmark book, but "game" in the traditonal sense isnt needed at all. Not being a game denialist, and Im aware that im probably subconciously doing game stuff, but stuff you wouldn't neccesarily get away with whilst running game in London/The angloshpere, goes down fine here.
They are a lot more forgiving of missteps essentialy.
I'm sending smiley faces.
At this point I'm a walking talking Take Care album.
Which has kinda changed my mindset about certain stuff, like for example
On this forum there's a tinder thread, about what line to use when you're chatting to them, as one wrong syllable or whatever will doom you to e-celibacy.
In real-life or on tinder, whether its in cph or London, I dont care about crafting the perfect message or any of that stuff, because I cant be bothered to deal with a woman that needs to be "wowed" with every sentence, typed or spoken.
For me the juice isnt worth the squeeze with that. And luckily sticking to this rule wont leave me voluntarily celibate here as so I'm not interested in dealing with someone who is going to moonwalk away if I put one foot wrong, which of course goes back to the "They are a lot more forgiving of missteps" part i mentioned before.
Something I realised (probablly obvious) , is that if I open with danish, no matter how terrible, I get much more warm responses than if I lead with english. When I make them laugh in danish, I cant get put as easily into the mental tourist box she has created. Plus i usually have a Danish friend or two with me, so I have more social proof with regards to that
Taxes are high. I'll live here full time but I'll make my income somewhere else. If I come here full time, I'll jus rent, as the prices are sane compared to london. I know a girl here that pays (a pre-brexit) £200 a month, for a room with a small single bed. Unheard of in London.
A relatively right ring group (as far as danish political organisations can be on the right), called Dansk Folkeparti (The Danish Peoples's part) is gaining serious traction prominence, they are the second biggest party in denmark, and they run on an anti-refugee resettlement, anti multiculuturalism. So theres supposedly some friction between native danes and The immigrants, but `I havent seen much of it myself.
If anything else pops to mind I'll make another post