Post: #26

I get rid of the trouble ones no matter what's happened between us. After looks the most important thing I look for is an agreeable personality. There are some cute girls who are very chill and not mean spirited. These are the ones I go after.

I also find that the more trouble she gives me at the beginning, the more trouble down the road. The best girls I've been with had all been very agreeable from the start. Sure there would be some type of shield and barrier to break through, but in a different way.

On the other hand the ones that gave me huge headaches in the beginning, I almost always regretted banging. Once the sex was over and the allure faded, I couldn't even be around them for more than a few minutes.

Post: #27

(01-14-2013 12:09 AM)UgSlayer Wrote:  I don't buy into the notion some guys here think that all girls are annoying.

Even on their best behavior? The ones that want to fuck? The ones that are looking for boyfriends? Maybe I'm just lucky.

I don't either.

I think this is because they are online gaming them and texting them too much.

I mean, is she really that "annoying" when she is giving you a blower?

Because at that point, I think girls are pretty damn cool.

Post: #28

Saying all girls are annoying is like saying all guys are cool. Fuck that. Most people are fucking annoying. That is why I roll solo and live alone. But when I do choose friends and women, I choose carefully.

Post: #29

I just had to cut off contact with a woman who was driving me insane -- as nice looking as she is, she's not worth it.

Every phone call and date with her was a gigantic barrage of her complaining about her life. When I'd give her advice, she'd go and do the opposite thing and continue to complain. She seemed to actually get off on problem with no real ambition to solve them. I wondered if all this was a "sh*t test," but just think it's a personality flaw. Some people thrive on drama. This was amusing when I was, like 18, but I have lost patience for such women.

The ironic thing is that she's one of those types of women who is always sending out emails with those idiotic "empowerment" slogans like "Our biggest fear is not that we are powerless, but that we are powerful beyond our wildest dreams." Whatever.

Anyway, I told her I was involved in a work project that's so big I need to fully concentrate on it and told her to stop calling. She actually bought this.

Here is what I wonder about all this. Women constantly complain that men cut off contact and don't want relationships. Can't they ever see that the reason we do this is because of THEM? Don't they ever think that the way they behave is the problem?

Post: #30

I don't like headaches. I like not having headaches. So, dropping it is, then.

Post: #31

There have been two girls that I dropped and completely eliminated from my life because they were too annoying in one way or another. But a girl has to be really bad for me to take this approach.

Post: #32

(01-13-2013 11:31 AM)Sonsowey Wrote:  Twice recently I have completely cut off contact with girls I would've otherwise liked to see again.

One I had boned once, and was probably the hottest chick I've ever been with. But communicating with her was one giant shit test, absolutely impossible to enjoy, and so in the end when she reached out to me I just cut her off so as not to deal with the craziness in my life.

Another I got the number of, but never even went out with. She was somehow causing me more stress through text message than any girl I was actually seeing. Although she was gorgeous and I wanted badly to bang her, I just completely cut her off as well.

I've been thinking a lot about the time I put into girls, and whether much of it is ultimately a waste. Spending time with a girl who I absolutely can't stand is becoming unacceptable to me.

Do you guys deal with the real psychos just to get it in, or do you abandon the atrocious ones?

Don't put yourself out for pussy. Never compromise your dignity or sacrifice finite time & energy running after hoes. Always remember that & you'll retain power over pussy.
A while back an 8 promised to meet in Nairobi. Unsurprisingly on the day,she went silent-(bitches here are natural born liars). Didn't text or answer her phone. I simply moved on. Fuck shit tests and time wasting! 2 months later she calls,sounding all happy and shit. I gave her some time to explain herself,(without asking)-none forthcoming.
"Why are you calling me?"
"Don't you wa-"
"No,I don't. Don't call/sms or flash me ever again."
I heard a gasp as I hung up. A little harsh but trust me,Nairobi hoes aren't like anything in your experience. Anyway,bitches must know men will keep their dignity and not let the mere thought of a fuck turn them into pussy beggars.

Post: #33

(01-15-2013 02:18 AM)bkamurray Wrote:  

(01-13-2013 11:31 AM)Sonsowey Wrote:  Twice recently I have completely cut off contact with girls I would've otherwise liked to see again.

One I had boned once, and was probably the hottest chick I've ever been with. But communicating with her was one giant shit test, absolutely impossible to enjoy, and so in the end when she reached out to me I just cut her off so as not to deal with the craziness in my life.

Another I got the number of, but never even went out with. She was somehow causing me more stress through text message than any girl I was actually seeing. Although she was gorgeous and I wanted badly to bang her, I just completely cut her off as well.

I've been thinking a lot about the time I put into girls, and whether much of it is ultimately a waste. Spending time with a girl who I absolutely can't stand is becoming unacceptable to me.

Do you guys deal with the real psychos just to get it in, or do you abandon the atrocious ones?

Don't put yourself out for pussy. Never compromise your dignity or sacrifice finite time & energy running after hoes. Always remember that & you'll retain power over pussy.
A while back an 8 promised to meet in Nairobi. Unsurprisingly on the day,she went silent-(bitches here are natural born liars). Didn't text or answer her phone. I simply moved on. Fuck shit tests and time wasting! 2 months later she calls,sounding all happy and shit. I gave her some time to explain herself,(without asking)-none forthcoming.
"Why are you calling me?"
"Don't you wa-"
"No,I don't. Don't call/sms or flash me ever again."
I heard a gasp as I hung up. A little harsh but trust me,Nairobi hoes aren't like anything in your experience. Anyway,bitches must know men will keep their dignity and not let the mere thought of a fuck turn them into pussy beggars.

This is why I can't stress enough, especially for the many of us that travel alone, that they should never have their trip revolve around one, or for that matter any, female. Have your own agenda, and fit females in wherever they might fit. I've had chicks do this to me also - when you tell them you're coming through, they'll talk all kinds of shit about wanting to see you, etc. Then when you're in town, they go dark. If you put all your eggs in that basket, you're assed-out. Then yes, predictably, once they know you're no longer in town, they get back in touch because they don't have to face you. At that point, no excuse or explanation is good enough, because there's nothing that prevented them from calling/texting/emailing you if they couldn't get together. We all love to travel around with the hopes of banging chicks, and I'm a major proponent of pipelining. I still make sure my backup plan is in place, so the minute a chick flakes I'm hitting the ground running and into something, or someone, else.

Post: #34

What I've noticed is that the amount of annoying shit tests and flaking directly correspond with her level of hotness. Show me a 9+ that's sweet and down to earth and doesn't play games in the beginning. I'm almost convinced they don't exist.

I'll deal with one or two flakes in the beginning just because I know its part of the game with the hotter ones. Someone on here once said thats why you should always try to double book. The only way to get really good and let the shit tests roll off you is one word: volume. Having options makes all the difference.

Post: #35

(01-13-2013 01:07 PM)MSW2007 Wrote:  I'll pass up a bang opportunity if I think the headache will be more intense than the pleasure of getting another notch. I'll also happily drop a girl I've been seeing the moment her behavior becomes unacceptable to me.

I don't have the time or inclination to deal with people that detract value from my life, instead of adding to it. This goes for relatives, friends, women, etc. Everybody.

this is a major step i've had to take in life. cutting people out that were toxic to me. old friends and all. but definitely a step in the right direction.

Post: #36

Going through this right now: This chick is staying with me until she finds her own place. Banged her on a daily basis until last week. She had to go to the doc and now she can't have sex, and won't give head either. I made my displeasure evident by acting like a total dick and ignoring her, leading to a breakdown last night. I just can't handle the cuddling if it doesn't lead anywhere. Despite the future outcome, I'm cutting this one loose the moment she moves into her own place (next week).