(12-13-2013 01:28 AM)NY Digital Wrote:  Having 0 success with this app.

Same here. It's frustrating because I do great on okc.
I've recently gotten a lot more matches than when I first started, but most of them fizzle out.

I've had the tag line "I'm telling people we met on Tinder."

Only had it for 24 hours but have had 10 matches....being 70 miles away from big colleges gives me a solid stream of young hunnies and terrrible logistics.

I guess I'll see how the two that are 3 miles away go.

(12-13-2013 04:52 AM)JNyCe Wrote:  Does this thing use your likes/interests?

Should I start liking twilight miley cyrus and adderall?

I would suggest all of you add "yoga" toy your facebook likes. Yoga women that do it seriously tend to be good and flexible.

I've been testing this out in Brooklyn the past week.

I get maybe 1/3 or 1/4 to match, +/-, and from there about the same for responses (i.e. only 1/3 or so of the matches respond).

Not sure about getting people to meet up, but so far the conversations have been with real people that seem interested, and the whole thing is pretty fun/not time consuming. I don't see any reason why you would give up anything to use it, but as an extra tool? Sure, why not.

Probably area dependent. Rocking Tinder but OKC was awful.

Slept with girls from Tinder, so.

(12-10-2013 04:23 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(12-09-2013 10:36 PM)delonge Wrote:  Trust me, from the texts I'm getting, this one is in the bag. She didnt flat out say "we'll bang next time" but I got the idea.

Delonge:

Hehehehe.... you seem to be getting yourself into a situation in which you are going to be obligated to report the results.

You gotta be the better judge of the situation, since you were the recipient of the texts and you met the girl... but I find it curious to know that a bang is going to be a sure thing.. until it happens.

It may be good to hear also a kind of description from you about words used or body behavior that would give you such a bang impression...

I've predicted quite a few bangs in my days that NEVER took place.. SHIT.... but anyhow, my luck and/or my game is likely NOT as good as it could be. And, frequently, I find girls to be quite fickle and moody.. until after sealing the deal by getting a bang out of them.. ..

Anyhow, you may be correct to suggest that sometimes a guy just has a feeling that the bang is gonna happen... Yet, would be curious about more details in how that conclusion was reached....

Alright so she came back here for the weekend, came to my apartment and I wanted to take a nap before my night shift, she joined me in bed. After a while she claimed it was too hot, got up and got naked and jumped on my dick. Good bang, + estonian flag.

Tinder trick:

My little text, I didn't know what to put. I'm a musician and use shots of me playing live. I randomly decided to write:

"Frank Ocean's Guitarist"

I have got some very cute girls messaging me asking me "Are you really Frank Ocean's guitarist?"

You guys may as well try something like this, see if it piques a little curiosity.

"Blake Griffin's Personal Trainer"

"Writer for Breaking Bad"

"Tom Cruise's Acting Coach"

I say I'm an ex-spy. When they ask me about it I say it's confidential.

mine has crashed over and over again lately even with multiple reinstalls.

anyone else have same prob?

Tinder is just a shit app

I can't believe such a huge app can't even get its shit together enough to make an effective running app

Here are my problems with tinder:

In NYC there are so many girls that even if a swipe a ton to the right, what's the random chance that on of them will match me? There are literally millions of women here.

The swipe function is too slow. Okcupid locals feature swipes twice as fast.

I was getting a lot of matches in the beginning of the summer and now I rarely get any at all. I just don't have the time to sift through thousands of mundane looking girls and not get any ROI.

The preferences settings are too limited. I'd like to have more control over setting my location.

Also, I really do hope they have some kind of matching algorithm that will make it easier for likely matches to find each other. Ther are soo many boring chicks on there.

(12-15-2013 12:27 PM)soup Wrote:  Also, I really do hope they have some kind of matching algorithm that will make it easier for likely matches to find each other. Ther are soo many boring chicks on there.

I think they do. I get on every few days to spend 5 minutes swiping right on everyone for later filtering, and I think they put everyone who's liked you first. When I start this I'll match like 10 girls in a row, then nothing for the rest. But then again I'm not in a major city, just a small college town.

There should be a function that filters out all the girls below a 7 in looks.

Figured I would try this app based on what Black Knight told me.

I just downloaded this app for my Android phone and tried to sign in using my Facebook username & password. It says "there was a problem accessing your info." Do you need to reconfigure your Facebook settings to use Tindr?

I've got my first Tinder date last Friday. Didn't bang, only got a make out. Will try to set up a second meet up this week, hoping to get the bang.

I know guys who are killing with this app... and others who are getting zero success. And also got second hand reports of girls who have "gone out" with 8 matches or so.

(12-15-2013 02:36 PM)OptimusPrime307 Wrote:  

(12-15-2013 12:27 PM)soup Wrote:  Also, I really do hope they have some kind of matching algorithm that will make it easier for likely matches to find each other. Ther are soo many boring chicks on there.

I think they do. I get on every few days to spend 5 minutes swiping right on everyone for later filtering, and I think they put everyone who's liked you first. When I start this I'll match like 10 girls in a row, then nothing for the rest. But then again I'm not in a major city, just a small college town.

Yeah, I get the same here. If I put the app down for a couple of days, when I log on and happen to swipe right some of the girls that first show up, I get a few consecutive matches. And then nothing for 10 minutes.

(12-15-2013 05:21 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  Figured I would try this app based on what Black Knight told me.

I just downloaded this app for my Android phone and tried to sign in using my Facebook username & password. It says "there was a problem accessing your info." Do you need to reconfigure your Facebook settings to use Tindr?

It is possible your privacy settings are too high. You can lower them a little and then crank them back up after your tinder account is set up? Or do you have fewer than 50 facebook friends?

Or just make a new facebook account, add 50(it may be as low as 10 or 11) friends by joining some user groups designed for adding facebook friends and have at it. If you are going to make a new facebook account and want to use it just for tinder, if you can pass for 25, then put your age as 25. If you can pass for 29, then do that. If you look old, this app probably isn't the right app for you.

I have my age set to 29, and am 37 and so far have not been called out on it when I meet up with the women. I imagine if I had my age listed at 25(and could pass for 25), I would be matching the younger women(early 20s) even more. most of my matches are with women in their mid to late 20s, which is OK but the main userbase is early 20s- at least for the women.

(12-15-2013 06:29 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  Or just make a new facebook account, add 50(it may be as low as 10 or 11) friends by joining some user groups designed for adding facebook friends and have at it.

I realize that my question is a bit of a tangent, yet I am wondering about this point that you made about the starting of a new Facebook account. I was considering creating a new FB account for travel.. and I suppose it can be used for all purposes of gaming - but that for obvious reasons, I do NOT want to have any connection with that new FB account to my regular FB account that has like 500 friends and like maybe 100 of those friends are relatives of some sort.

Accordingly, I had been worried about the actual practice of getting my first few friends on this anticipated new FB account - in that regard, how does a guy get like 50 friends - although maybe it would be better to have 100 friends or more? You are saying that there are user groups just for that that purpose of adding FB friends? Can you break it down a little bit about how one goes about adding FB friends through that method?

Yes this is easy enough to explain. There are numerous facebook apps that require having a lot of friends.

There are a few things to watch out for: if you start sending too many friend invites too quickly, facebook may think you are a spam bot and ban you.

Go to a site like this

https://forums.king.com/en/forum/candy-c...riends-ccs

that is a forum for adding friends on candy crush saga. People put their facebook Id. you send them an invite. Most apps have an "add me" section like this.

zynga apps
words with friends(I would suggest you add this one, it seems like mostly women play it)

If you are worried that about sending out a lot of friend requests(you need 50 people to accept your request), just add a popular app, go to http://www.appdata.com and check out the popular apps and go to the 'add me' section in their forum and put your new facebook id(the one that needs friends) and say "add me" and in a couple of days you will have enough friends.

I think you have to send out a lot of friend invites in a short amount of time to people you are not connected with to get your account flagged, but I could certainly see that happening if you really need 50 friends(try it with 10 or 11 friends and see if it works) and send out a couple hundred invites within a few hours.

my first tinder date last night, I hit the jackpot... the girl is 25 and damn near a CEO we went out to eat, her friend dropped her off so I took her home she said you want to come in... of course... I ended up staying but didn't tap it, next time its a given, she might just earn a starting spot on my roster

(12-15-2013 08:31 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  Yes this is easy enough to explain. There are numerous facebook apps that require having a lot of friends.

There are a few things to watch out for: if you start sending too many friend invites too quickly, facebook may think you are a spam bot and ban you.

Go to a site like this

https://forums.king.com/en/forum/candy-c...riends-ccs

that is a forum for adding friends on candy crush saga. People put their facebook Id. you send them an invite. Most apps have an "add me" section like this.

zynga apps
words with friends(I would suggest you add this one, it seems like mostly women play it)

If you are worried that about sending out a lot of friend requests(you need 50 people to accept your request), just add a popular app, go to http://www.appdata.com and check out the popular apps and go to the 'add me' section in their forum and put your new facebook id(the one that needs friends) and say "add me" and in a couple of days you will have enough friends.

I think you have to send out a lot of friend invites in a short amount of time to people you are not connected with to get your account flagged, but I could certainly see that happening if you really need 50 friends(try it with 10 or 11 friends and see if it works) and send out a couple hundred invites within a few hours.

I remember when I first created my regular FB account, in about mid 2010. I found several people that i knew, and I clicked on their list of friends, and I added maybe 150 friends within the first couple of weeks, and maybe about 100 of those requests accepted me as their "friend" he he he.. , but for the most part, these were people that I already knew in real life.

I would think that my pattern of behavior, as described above, would be similar for any normal person starting a new FB account, that in their first few weeks of having the account, they are likely going to add a whole bunch of friends from the accounts of people that they already know who have been on FB for a while. So, I am NOT sure how that kind of behavior could trigger a ban, unless the number of requests are like 5 or 10X higher than the frame that I outline above? Just a thought.

(12-15-2013 08:58 PM)Mabina Wrote:  my first tinder date last night, I hit the jackpot... the girl is 25 and damn near a CEO we went out to eat, her friend dropped her off so I took her home she said you want to come in... of course... I ended up staying but didn't tap it, next time its a given, she might just earn a starting spot on my roster

If she is nearly a CEO, then that means that she pays, right?

(12-15-2013 09:28 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  So, I am NOT sure how that kind of behavior could trigger a ban, unless the number of requests are like 5 or 10X higher than the frame that I outline above? Just a thought.

Simple. Try adding someone that you have absolutely no connection to. You get a warning saying "do you actually know this person? You should only send requests to people who know you". I usually get that warning when adding someone for a game if they lived in another country and had no connection to any of my facebook friends or likes. You sometimes get that warning after sending one invite. Try sending out a hundred random friend invites like that, or a thousand. You could easily end up with a ban.(the facebook bans are almost never the result of a live person hitting a ban button, but rather if you have a lot of activity that sets off enough algorithms, then that would turn the trick and you get an autoban.


If you both like the same app, that might be enough for the system to no longer consider you 'random'. I haven't tried building up an account like this in years, so they may have tweaked it.

(12-15-2013 09:45 PM)master_thespian Wrote:  

(12-15-2013 09:28 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  So, I am NOT sure how that kind of behavior could trigger a ban, unless the number of requests are like 5 or 10X higher than the frame that I outline above? Just a thought.

Simple. Try adding someone that you have absolutely no connection to. You get a warning saying "do you actually know this person? You should only send requests to people who know you". I usually get that warning when adding someone for a game if they lived in another country and had no connection to any of my facebook friends or likes. You sometimes get that warning after sending one invite. Try sending out a hundred random friend invites like that, or a thousand. You could easily end up with a ban.(the facebook bans are almost never the result of a live person hitting a ban button, but rather if you have a lot of activity that sets off enough algorithms, then that would turn the trick and you get an autoban.


If you both like the same app, that might be enough for the system to no longer consider you 'random'. I haven't tried building up an account like this in years, so they may have tweaked it.

Actually Master_T - what you are saying makes a lot of sense in that over the years, it is likely that FB has tweaked its various algorithms, to lessen the effectiveness of spam accounts.. so this is very good to be aware of such ban possibilities, in order that we can be careful. We would NOT want to spend an afternoon or longer setting up a FB account, and then all that effort is for naught.

(12-15-2013 09:29 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(12-15-2013 08:58 PM)Mabina Wrote:  my first tinder date last night, I hit the jackpot... the girl is 25 and damn near a CEO we went out to eat, her friend dropped her off so I took her home she said you want to come in... of course... I ended up staying but didn't tap it, next time its a given, she might just earn a starting spot on my roster

If she is nearly a CEO, then that means that she pays, right?

from now on I didn't find out how loaded she was until after I had already paid

Sunday evenings are definitely Tinder time for girls in and around London...
Last night i matched with sixteen 7's and 8's, and one 9. About half were girls that as soon as i went on the app and swiped yes we matched and half girls that must have swiped yes on me after i'd already swiped yes to them over the last week or so. Given since the summer when Tinder was new and you'd get a match back the same day now there's often a delay, i guess from the huge volume of guys swiping yes on girls and her working through the 'backlog'. It's definitely more effort to find the 7+'s now than it used to be..

Have 3 chatting on whatsapp now.. including the hottest girl i've ever got off Tinder onto Whatsapp since starting in the summer. All are coming to Winter Wonderland (a huge Christmas fair in Hyde park London, perfect place for getting drunk and 'romancing') with me on consecutive days this week. Good job i like Gluhwine...

A FB of mine who's a solid 9 showed me her Tinder this weekend too, she's started using it to hook up with phenomenally hot girls. I don't know where these girls are on my Tinder, gutting she has access to hotter girls than i do.. but apparently lesbian models are common in London. Who knew... good girl tho, she's working on bringing a few back for me.
I can tell you now, girl game is absolutely shocking... some of the messages were hilarious. But also.. so is the game of really good looking guys and male models. Some of the messages these guys send are vomit inducing. Highlights the fact that blue pillers are only as good with their brains as they need to be in life.. and in the end that will always catch up with you

All that said. I need to get out and approach more. I'm getting too comfortable getting laid via Tinder, OKc and POF...

(12-14-2013 12:38 AM)master_thespian Wrote:  I would suggest all of you add "yoga" toy your facebook likes. Yoga women that do it seriously tend to be good and flexible.

Kudos MT, this is an awesome shout.