Men out number women 2 to 1 on Tinder.

http://mic.com/articles/110774/two-third...here-s-why

^^^ I am pretty sure if you remove the fakes/scams/inactives it could be 4 to 1



Anyone run into this Sapiosexual trend on tinder recently? or is this some new bullshit LA thing. If so, anyone come up with any good openers or trolling?


ps. Sapiosexual: attracted to intelligence

(06-01-2015 01:38 PM)8ball Wrote:  ps. Sapiosexual: attracted to intelligence

No, it is not specific to LA. But, I have only seen trashy girls who wish they weren't trashy use it.

(06-01-2015 10:21 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  Here in OC California Tinder was amazing last year at this time. From about last fall to currently it's pretty much dried up. It seems like a lot of women have gone back to OKC and I'm having the best luck with OKC that I ever have in the three years I've been on and off of it.

Yeah, it seems okc girls are far more receptive now.

(06-01-2015 10:21 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  Here in OC California Tinder was amazing last year at this time. From about last fall to currently it's pretty much dried up. It seems like a lot of women have gone back to OKC and I'm having the best luck with OKC that I ever have in the three years I've been on and off of it.

Haha. just looked up my email for the okc password and find this.

Please kill me

   

So OKC is demanding you date a woman you're in no way inclined to want?

At this rate it will be men needing safe places away from such things.

(06-01-2015 01:38 PM)8ball Wrote:  ^^^ I am pretty sure if you remove the fakes/scams/inactives it could be 4 to 1



Anyone run into this Sapiosexual trend on tinder recently? or is this some new bullshit LA thing. If so, anyone come up with any good openers or trolling?


ps. Sapiosexual: attracted to intelligence

Sapiosexual is code for nerdy but attractive white men (white girls and Asian girls make up 99% of women who openly state those Sapio demands, its all bs). When women say they are "geeky" (aka socially awkward) they use puff words like that to screen out the dungeon and dragon heave bags who are smart but have zero swagger.

These girls just make up things to further isolate what they want. I trolled a Sapiosexual party and women weren't down for intelligent talk since most were weirdos. Many just used it to hunt for specific dudes they had in mind.

(06-01-2015 01:38 PM)8ball Wrote:  ^^^ I am pretty sure if you remove the fakes/scams/inactives it could be 4 to 1



Anyone run into this Sapiosexual trend on tinder recently? or is this some new bullshit LA thing. If so, anyone come up with any good openers or trolling?


ps. Sapiosexual: attracted to intelligence

I've seen it pop up a bit here in Australia. Usually from pierced and tattooed up hipster chicks with an arts degree and inflated sense of their own intelligence.

People claiming to be sapiosexual is like people claining they have high IQ.

It's a sure sign they are a bona fide idiot.

I have no idea where this sapiosexual shite has come from either. No doubt it was in some popular women's book or on the cover of Hello magazine as a sexy trend. I avoid any girl who has that in her profile, together with the word "feminism", living in another country, any girl with the height of a midget, anyone who is Japanese (I've had terrible experiences with them) and many other automatic disqualifiers to not waste my time.

Ha! What do you have against girls who have lived in another country, out of interest?

(06-03-2015 03:45 PM)lush1 Wrote:  Ha! What do you have against girls who have lived in another country, out of interest?

None, I mean living in another country now and just attention whoring.

My guess on the whole sapiosexual phenomenon is that these women have grown tired of the same old messages reading "sup", "yo" "DTF?" etc. and they're saying they want someone who can string a coherent sentence together to message them. Of course this is all said in the maddening, indirect way that women are known for...

Haha my entire bio talks about this problem with thirsty creepy guys with no balls and don't know what they want.

It's classic ! You'll also see more girls post about "no fuck boys"

This is a huge noob question:

Let's say you are messaging a chick on Sunday and you set up a date for Thursday. What do you guys usually do during the lull between Sunday and Thurs to avoid the chick forgetting about you and losing momentum? I don't want to be texting her daily but I'm guessing you should be sending some sort of message on Tues or something just to keep things rolling.

Would using an old picture and lying about your age work or would that be a too hard of a 'bait and switch' for the girl to take? Or could it work if you tell her before meetup that the picture is a little old?

(06-04-2015 02:26 PM)TrentV Wrote:  This is a huge noob question:

Let's say you are messaging a chick on Sunday and you set up a date for Thursday. What do you guys usually do during the lull between Sunday and Thurs to avoid the chick forgetting about you and losing momentum? I don't want to be texting her daily but I'm guessing you should be sending some sort of message on Tues or something just to keep things rolling.

go read "Zero Date Bangs: Reduce Your Variables, Bang More Girls" and "New Recipe for Securing First-Date Bangs"

(06-04-2015 02:26 PM)TrentV Wrote:  This is a huge noob question:

Let's say you are messaging a chick on Sunday and you set up a date for Thursday. What do you guys usually do during the lull between Sunday and Thurs to avoid the chick forgetting about you and losing momentum? I don't want to be texting her daily but I'm guessing you should be sending some sort of message on Tues or something just to keep things rolling.

I've been in that very situation many times. Unfortunately there's no guaranteed way of keeping them on the line until you meet since there's a constant barrage of dudes hitting them up. With that being said your best bet would be to text them on tuesday mid day and say something funny like "Happy Taco Tuesday!" What girl doesn't like tacos? They'll usually reply positively to that and maybe even ask you where you like to get tacos. Go back and forth a few times and end with "looking forward to seeing you/going on our adventure/ on Thurs" but keep the exchange fun and brief. Then Thurs in the late morning mid day I would send another soft confirmation text like "looking forward to blah blah" or the classic "can we meet 30 mins later?" text.

(06-04-2015 03:44 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  Would using an old picture and lying about your age work or would that be a too hard of a 'bait and switch' for the girl to take? Or could it work if you tell her before meetup that the picture is a little old?

I wouldn't do it. My BIGGEST complaint are women who do that very thing. You're much better off paying a pro photographer or a photography student/enthusiast a small fee to have professional photos taken as you are right now. There's a really good thread about that very subject on here, I forget the exact title though.

(06-04-2015 02:26 PM)TrentV Wrote:  This is a huge noob question:

Let's say you are messaging a chick on Sunday and you set up a date for Thursday. What do you guys usually do during the lull between Sunday and Thurs to avoid the chick forgetting about you and losing momentum? I don't want to be texting her daily but I'm guessing you should be sending some sort of message on Tues or something just to keep things rolling.

Book 3 dates for Thursday, on the day of at least one of them will cancel, if not then sexually escalate via text. Go out with the one that is mostly likely to bang, reschedule with the likely tease.

Refresh tinder...repeat process.

(06-04-2015 03:56 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(06-04-2015 03:44 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  Would using an old picture and lying about your age work or would that be a too hard of a 'bait and switch' for the girl to take? Or could it work if you tell her before meetup that the picture is a little old?

I wouldn't do it. My BIGGEST complaint are women who do that very thing. You're much better off paying a pro photographer or a photography student/enthusiast a small fee to have professional photos taken as you are right now. There's a really good thread about that very subject on here, I forget the exact title though.

Did you walk out of the date or refuse to bang her purely based on the old pictures? A 30 year old man isn't normally less attractive than a 20 year old man, it's more about what the girl has in her mind what she is initially looking for.

Getting good pictures is never a bad idea.

(06-04-2015 04:04 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  

(06-04-2015 03:56 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(06-04-2015 03:44 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  Would using an old picture and lying about your age work or would that be a too hard of a 'bait and switch' for the girl to take? Or could it work if you tell her before meetup that the picture is a little old?

I wouldn't do it. My BIGGEST complaint are women who do that very thing. You're much better off paying a pro photographer or a photography student/enthusiast a small fee to have professional photos taken as you are right now. There's a really good thread about that very subject on here, I forget the exact title though.

Did you walk out of the date or refuse to bang her purely based on the old pictures? A 30 year old man isn't normally less attractive than a 20 year old man, it's more about what the girl has in her mind what she is initially looking for.

Getting good pictures is never a bad idea.

Yeah, most of the women who had older photos had put on considerable weight and were not as attractive as their photos show. We men age much better and you're right 30 year old man can and often is much more attractive than he was at 20. Even if you look roughly the same, spring for the professional photos since it gives you the moral high ground online and can tell potential dates "all of my photos were taken in the last week/month etc."

Quote:Yeah, most of the women who had older photos had put on considerable weight and were not as attractive as their photos show. We men age much better and you're right 30 year old man can and often is much more attractive than he was at 20. Even if you look roughly the same, spring for the professional photos since it gives you the moral high ground online and can tell potential dates "all of my photos were taken in the last week/month etc."

You mean that an incredibly high and superior moral would facilitate getting the bang?!

Best restart text for Tinder:

"Let me paint your ass green and slap it like a naughty avocado"

I had premium subscription for $3/month since March. Don't know why they set the rate so low.

Anyway, opened tinder today and noticed that I've run out of matches. They cancelled my subscription and now want me to pay $20 per month, which of course I'm not going to do. No messages or notifications about the cancellation, just saw in Google wallet that the small monthly payment which was due yesterday was cancelled, not by me.

Has anybody experienced anything similar? I was kind of hoping I'd be grandfathered in at least for awhile.

Early 30s, used the autoliker quite a lot to take advantage of premium membership.