Tinder App

This app is really taking it too far now.

If you have 10 likes in your queue, but swipe left on those girls, it still says 10 likes in your queue.

If you have 10 likes in your queue, but swipe right and match some of them, the number decreases.

Basically the app tries to fool you into thinking you have more likes than you actually do.

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this is my first virgin ever.

what do you guys think I should reply?

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Side note: I got annoyed at women taking hours and days to reply to texts, so I started sending them really asshole messages and they reply within seconds. Just in case anyone doubted that girls are intentionally ignoring your texts.

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(Yesterday 08:10 AM)Cavorite Wrote:  Side note: I got annoyed at women taking hours and days to reply to texts, so I started sending them really asshole messages and they reply within seconds. Just in case anyone doubted that girls are intentionally ignoring your texts.

I just unmatch. I only want them for sex anyway, if they don't respond it's their loss.

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(Yesterday 08:10 AM)Cavorite Wrote:  Side note: I got annoyed at women taking hours and days to reply to texts, so I started sending them really asshole messages and they reply within seconds. Just in case anyone doubted that girls are intentionally ignoring your texts.

And have you been able to get any of those girls out? Then subsequently, were you able to notch any of them? If not, you wasted your time being salty.

Never doubted women purposely ignore texts. Years of them going silent at particular moments.

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Quote:And have you been able to get any of those girls out? Then subsequently, were you able to notch any of them? If not, you wasted your time being salty.

Never doubted women purposely ignore texts. Years of them going silent at particular moments.

I can afford to waste five seconds. I halfway thought that girls were busy doing something else and maybe didn't check their phone constantly. Nope.

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So then this tactic has not increased your match turnout or garnered you any additional notches.

Cool.

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(Yesterday 11:36 AM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  So then this tactic has not increased your match turnout or garnered you any additional notches.

Cool.

lol

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Currently in the process of setting up a new dating profile for all of the major apps -- new phone, new line, new pictures, new description. If I don't see an increase in worthwhile activity after going through all this I'm giving up on online game entirely.

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Do text game rules apply to Tinder messaging? ie response times etc

Most (not all) of the girls I'm messaging on Tinder take several hours to respond, even after a conversation has been established.

If I match their response times, it's going to take days or weeks to set up a date. But if I reply to quickly, as bad text game dictates, she'll think I'm overly eager.

What to do?

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You definitely shouldn't be playing response games on tinder. The girls are bombarded with so many messages that one day might as well be a year to them.

After their initial response to your opener you are on a race against time to create an emotional spike and hopefully hook her into a continuous short conversation where you ask them out or at least get their number to talk off the app.

For anyone else who does not reply to you immediately assume nothing will come out of it (I'm talking about girls who keep replying to your messages but never seem to stay for a conversation no matter how fast you reply).

I think the sooner you answer the better, I usually just answer as soon as I see the message which usually takes me anywhere from 5 to 10 minutes depending on what I'm doing. Just try to go all in a single conversation to get the number.

Honestly I find that with some girls replying right away (Literally 5-10 seconds later) if you are witty or have good game, since they know that you didn't ponder over that response and that you are naturally funny/clever/etc.

I would say the older the match/message the least likely it is to get the girl, while most of us think that by having so many options they are just going to keep talking to more and more people, the truth is that for a lot of girls it gets overwhelming and they usually only talk to the few men that got her contact before she deleted her profile. There is definitely a first come, first serve in some scenarios.

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Quote:[quote='MaceTyrell' pid='1982818' dateline='1558542997']
So then this tactic has not increased your match turnout or garnered you any additional notches.

Cool.

It's not a tactic, dumbfuck. And you've wasted much more than five seconds pointlessly writing snarky comments to me.

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(Yesterday 08:10 AM)Cavorite Wrote:  Side note: I got annoyed at women taking hours and days to reply to texts, so I started sending them really asshole messages and they reply within seconds. Just in case anyone doubted that girls are intentionally ignoring your texts.

(Today 04:59 AM)Cavorite Wrote:  

Quote:[quote='MaceTyrell' pid='1982818' dateline='1558542997']
So then this tactic has not increased your match turnout or garnered you any additional notches.

Cool.

It's not a tactic, dumbfuck. And you've wasted much more than five seconds pointlessly writing snarky comments to me.

I think he is making fun of you because instead of:

a)Moving on from women who don't reply to you (abundance mentality)
b)Improving your text game so they won't ignore you (Probably because of boring texts)

You decided to act like the stereotypical "nice guy" and lash out at women who ignore you akin to the beta who triple messages them and ends it with a classy "fuck you, you are ugly anyways".

If a girl not replying to you causes you anger or any type of negative feeling you are going to have a bad time with any type of online dating. If you walk up to a girl in real life and say hi to her it would be extremely rude for her not to say anything back. This is not the case with online gaming.

Until you meet a girl in real life, she is just some pixels on your screen so just chill out.

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(Today 05:47 AM)Shifty Wrote:  

(Yesterday 08:10 AM)Cavorite Wrote:  Side note: I got annoyed at women taking hours and days to reply to texts, so I started sending them really asshole messages and they reply within seconds. Just in case anyone doubted that girls are intentionally ignoring your texts.

(Today 04:59 AM)Cavorite Wrote:  

Quote:[quote='MaceTyrell' pid='1982818' dateline='1558542997']
So then this tactic has not increased your match turnout or garnered you any additional notches.

Cool.

It's not a tactic, dumbfuck. And you've wasted much more than five seconds pointlessly writing snarky comments to me.

I think he is making fun of you because instead of:

a)Moving on from women who don't reply to you (abundance mentality)
b)Improving your text game so they won't ignore you (Probably because of boring texts)

You decided to act like the stereotypical "nice guy" and lash out at women who ignore you akin to the beta who triple messages them and ends it with a classy "fuck you, you are ugly anyways".

If a girl not replying to you causes you anger or any type of negative feeling you are going to have a bad time with any type of online dating. If you walk up to a girl in real life and say hi to her it would be extremely rude for her not to say anything back. This is not the case with online gaming.

Until you meet a girl in real life, she is just some pixels on your screen so just chill out.

This.

Anyway, I've been trying to minimize women going quiet by rushing to IG as quickly as possible. Looking at how many trickles from match-to-notch though, it hasn't been many.

Unfortunately, there seems to be no replacement for making that "emotional spike." Or catching a girl at a moment of odd boredom or have her just react "super positively" to your photos.

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How much height inflation goes on on Tinder? I'm 6'3" should I put that or 6'4" (I'd rather put my real height unless I'm actually losing an inch or 2 from other people lying?)

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(Today 07:33 AM)godfather dust Wrote:  How much height inflation goes on on Tinder? I'm 6'3" should I put that or 6'4" (I'd rather put my real height unless I'm actually losing an inch or 2 from other people lying?)

you're absolutely losing an inch from dudes lying

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It seems lot of guys here do profile reset with the new facebook account and it works for them (The King is first who comes to my mind). But you still need phone number. Do you get shadowbanned that way? I know I definitely get when using just phone number option to setup a new profile.

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Ok, since we're playing by new rules here...

How do you maximize your chances to find a LTR here?

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(Today 03:09 PM)No More Mr. Soy Boy Wrote:  Ok, since we're playing by new rules here...

How do you maximize your chances to find a LTR here?

Same rules apply, fuck them first. Worry about the LTR later.

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(Today 03:30 PM)Shifty Wrote:  Same rules apply, fuck them first. Worry about the LTR later.

I think you're breaking the new rules.

(Today 11:15 AM)Roosh Wrote:  Things you can no longer discuss:

-Meeting women with the intention of fornicating with them

-Physical intimacy with women you're not married to beyond the act of kissing

-Refrain from using terms like "I fucked her" or "I want to fuck her." Do not describe sexual encounters or situations that are beyond the act of kissing unless you are married.

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(Yesterday 04:49 AM)dreadcom Wrote:  this is my first virgin ever.

what do you guys think I should reply?

Question for you: where do you intend to go with this introduction? You are basically trying her to qualify to be a good girl. Are you looking for LTR?

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(Today 04:52 PM)No More Mr. Soy Boy Wrote:  

(Today 03:30 PM)Shifty Wrote:  Same rules apply, fuck them first. Worry about the LTR later.

I think you're breaking the new rules.

(Today 11:15 AM)Roosh Wrote:  Things you can no longer discuss:

-Meeting women with the intention of fornicating with them

-Physical intimacy with women you're not married to beyond the act of kissing

-Refrain from using terms like "I fucked her" or "I want to fuck her." Do not describe sexual encounters or situations that are beyond the act of kissing unless you are married.

"I am implementing two new rules on the forum that are effective on June 1, 2019."

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(Today 07:33 AM)godfather dust Wrote:  How much height inflation goes on on Tinder? I'm 6'3" should I put that or 6'4" (I'd rather put my real height unless I'm actually losing an inch or 2 from other people lying?)

I think in your case, you should just state your real height. I am 6'0 and I write 6'1 because of the height inflation.

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