Post: #26

(12-21-2012 08:02 AM)east and west Wrote:  How many months it takes to learn salsa well?

This is really hard to say. It largely depends on the individual : how well he feels the rhythm and music, how comfortable he moves his body. Also it depends on the instructor a lot : many instructors would only teach you this combo, that combo, but not so much on how to execute the basic steps right and make it look nice and natural along with the music. In another word they teach you dancing mechanically, but not naturally.
If you got a good feel of the music and the instructor is good, and you take class and practice every week, I'd say 3 months you can be become decent.

The first thing is to find what is the most popular style in your city. There are many styles : NY style which is dance on 2 ( contra-tempo), as for on 1, LA style which is mostly for flashy performance and took a lot of elements from West Coast Swing and ballroom dancing, not my cup of tea for sure. Cuban Style can be danced on 1, actually most Cuban dancers I know dance on 1, also Puerto Rican style, Colombia style, mostly on one.
In different cities or even in different venues of the same city the popular styles can be different. E.g., pretty much nobody would dance LA style in Colombia or in Cuba, but in North America it's very popular. Before you go to a venue to dance make sure you know what style people dance there. Here in Toronto Cuban dancers rarely mix with LA style dancers and vice-versa. I myself don't mind either although I strongly perfer Cuban style and Afro-cuban Rumba simply because it's more fun and more playful.

My suggestion : find a good school or instructors, I personally prefer Latino instructors simply because they're more fun and it's much more enjoyable to learn dancing with them because they're more natural unlike many trained dancers. My current teachers are Cubano and a girl from Angola. They're infinitely better than those boring-ass Canadian instructors. Fuck, some of them are so dull to watch : I saw instructors move like a fucking truck, no body movement what-soever and they even teach?

Besides Salsa, other popular dancing you can learn : Bachata, Kizomba ( popular in Europe, not so much yet in Toronto. I'm gonna learn it after I move to Europe), Zouk ( it started getting popular in Toronto), reggaeton ( mostly solo dancing , body movement etc)

Dancing is fun regardless of the bonus of meeting women. I started it only because a female friend asked me to be her partner but now I truly enjoy it. It makes me happy to move with the music and I don't need a partner to enjoy it. The thing is that once you become good at it, you attract women easily. ( of course dress nice and having a fun personality won't hurt either). Nine out of 10 times when I go clubbing (not Salsa), I stand out from the crowds because average guys can't dance to save their lives. And women see it. Many times girls would come up to me, dancing with/grinding me without me approaching them.

Post: #27

seems like alot of people here are recommending europe. I havent lived in north america, so dont know how bad it is.

But what do you guys think of latin america? someone on this forum said he went to argentina, peru, and it didnt wow him. I can kind of relate to this. In argentina, the culture is more like spanish and italian, quite difficult for outsiders (unlike brazil). Peru I got alot of stares from mainly young girls who thought i was K pop and wanted to take pictures with me.

But other areas of Latin america? i am thinking, ecuador is abit like peru, panama and venezuela are abit like colombia, brazil is unique, bolivia wouldnt bother (too ugly girls), mexico (good but girls abit short although they do like chinos)

And how about the rest of the world?
Africa? I banged a Zambian girl in London, but she was like more british, born and grew up there. What do you guys think of black girls, my parents would allow me, but i prefer morena or EE better.

Post: #28

I'm Filipino-Am in Bogota, Colombia. 5'11 155 (like that matters)

I think Asian looking dudes will do really well here. I mean Asian like Korean features or somewhat chinky eyes and tall as they deviate from the norm.

I look Colombian. Lol. Brown skin type. I wasn't expecting it but I can walk down the street and no1 will have the slightest clue.

I don't think looking like a Latino has any distinct advantages. But my Spanish is very sharp so it helps me.

I think what makes Colombian a good place to game is

1.) Target rich -- an average girl here is above average in the states
2.) Open culture -- they are quite friendlier than in the US

Asians are seen as rich, especially Japanese and Koreans. High Status.

Post: #29

east and west,

If you are able to travel with an another Asian guy this will increase DHV. I usually see the typical Asian guy in packs of white guys and they seem like having the lowest value.

But two young Asian guys in blazers surrounded with Latinas will attract attention.

Post: #30

(12-22-2012 10:18 AM)manilaguy Wrote:  east and west,

If you are able to travel with an another Asian guy this will increase DHV. I usually see the typical Asian guy in packs of white guys and they seem like having the lowest value.

But two young Asian guys in blazers surrounded with Latinas will attract attention.

An Asian guy going to the bars with other Asian or white guys isn't a real advantageous or disadvantageous thing. Just make sure you spend some time gaming with the pack but then remembering to separate yourself from the pack "accidentally" running into other girls and approaching independently too.

Post: #31

I do somewhat agree in Latin america, as the girls who are interested in Asians are different to those who are interested in gringos.


But sometimes I don't have choice if I am staying in a hostel and everyone is gringo to go out with.

Sometimes couch surfing is good but depend on the person. But they will know right away if you are Asian.

Isn't bogota cold? I was frozen there compared to Cali. But as it has a larger population, might be better for social and night game.

Post: #32

But in Colombia I think everyone likes Asians so its not that bad. It's in countries like maybe Argentina, I haven't been, just seems like, that some girls might prefer white gringos, especially gringo bars

Post: #33

(12-22-2012 01:51 PM)east and west Wrote:  But in Colombia I think everyone likes Asians so its not that bad. It's in countries like maybe Argentina, I haven't been, just seems like, that some girls might prefer white gringos, especially gringo bars

I haven't been to Argentina either, but I have a really good friend from Sri Lanka who did an architecture project in Buenos Aires for 5-6 months. He said he did quite well as the women there are very receptive towards Asians. My friend however has more of a Latin tone to him despite being from Sri Lanka yet said I'd maybe do well there. My game is slightly above his.

He collected a few flags there but mainly stuck around this one chick who was his unofficial girlfriend in BA. Rosario was cool, but Cordoba was the best city according to him. I think he did well with the chase bc he was so happy to just be around all those gorgeous women that he found himself working harder unknowingly while having fun. I might be at a disadvantage with more of an Eastern Asian look but my Spanish, Rioplatense Spanish, Portunhol, and Portuguese is sufficient enough.

That's the key though. Have fun with the pursuit using good strategy as the results will come.

Post: #34

sri lanka is more latin and darker look.

depend on how much spanish and spanish culture he understand i think

Post: #35

(12-21-2012 03:53 AM)calihunter Wrote:  Born a Russian in US for half my life and I have yet to meet a Russian/Ukrainian/Polish/Latvilituestonian / EE girl that dated an asian man of any origin kazakh / kirghyz or any other minority and would actually keep eye contact with anyone when they would be out. Eyes cast downward because of judging looks. These unions did not last. Granted I've met total of 3-5 couples of such configurations out of a hundred or so acquaintance but this is just not done. I know precisely one russian girl that exclusively dates latino and black men but that is about it. Most Russians I've met will consider any other race as sub standard and not an adequate choice as far as their social circle would be concerned. Turks/arabs/armenians/persians are considered slimy and dirty. Asiatics, well, mongoloid and african origin with the skin color to prove it are not an adequate choice anyhow. I have gotten into heaps of derision for dating a girl from the bahamas briefly and almost got disowned for dating an asian girl. Even white american men are considered rather uncouth. Anyhow. Take it as you wish.

This sounds way off to me. From the small amount of time I've spent in FSU places girls there are very interested in (East) Asian men (primarily Japanese, because of wealth, but Chinese/[South] Korean are catching up) and others (in Kyiv my friend's girlfriend, blond ethnic Russian on both sides but raised in Ukraine, said Turkish men were her favorite)

Also talked one time in Philly to a blond Russian stripper from Tomsk, she had studied Chinese in college, when I asked her why she replied nonchalantly because it was the most powerful country in the world. (Other friend's wife who is Japanese and studied in Russia said Russian women like Central Asian men because they have a reputation for lasting longer sexually than Russian men.)

Post: #36

(12-20-2012 06:47 PM)HollowEarth Wrote:  

(12-20-2012 06:09 PM)_Samo_ Wrote:  

(12-20-2012 06:03 PM)HollowEarth Wrote:  

(12-20-2012 05:04 PM)yb13 Wrote:  Already a thread: /thread-2750.html

But good stuff.

Coming from an Asian guy, GO TO POLAND. It's a fact Polish chicks in the UK aren't good looking, but go to Warsaw, Poznan, Wroclaw, and I hear Katowice is good too for very attractive women that dig Asian dudes. Unsure about Krakow, but avoid Lodz unless you have university friends there who will introduce you to more females. Met some very nice people in Lodz as I was visiting a girl from my past there, but a lot of strangers in suburbs can be depressed racist poor ppl.

Avoid Hungary/Serbia however..though Serbia is still very fun as people are overly friendly nevertheless

Spain is also good if you're an Asian guy that speaks Spanish.

Brazil - As for the south, Portuguese is a must for any race really. The only chicks in the south who go for foreigners are ones who speak English while relocating to North America or any other country. My Brazilian flag was in Porto Alegre in Dec 2011 as there's even a Confucious School for people to learn more about Chinese culture. The locals in POA really get involved in that too.

This sounds like bullshit, I have heard the exact opposite about Polish girls liking Asian men, every account I have heard of Polish girls indicate that they are racist and generally don't want foreigners as much. Either you got left-overs that you thought were top-caliber girls or you are exaggerating. I REALLY have a hard time believing Polish girls would ever show interest in Asian guys; real guys have told me they are racist and don't really find anyone else besides other Euro's or Blacks, they especially don't like Asians because they just don't fit their preconceived likes of a guy they would find attractive.

I don't know where you heard that they don't like foreign guys from, but that's completely wrong. I'd say a foreign guy has a much better chance in Poland compared to any other central/east European country.

The racism is not that bad in Poland at all and if you do get some racism it will 99% be from other guys rather than women, I'm pretty sure any guy can score with Polish women regardless of race, there is no excuse, its nothing like Russia/FSU in regards to racism.

Again bullshit, Poland was part of the Warsaw pact and is heavily Soviet influenced, why would the GUYS be racist towards and not girls? That makes no sense AT ALL. There is nothing exotic about being Asian at all to European girls, this is some sort big fantastical lie. Why would a Polish girl go for an Asian, let alone any decent attractive one, when they aren't at all the ideal men in any Polish girl's mind. Taking into account that Polish men are not horrible looking at all, sometimes fit into the Nordic phenotype, are on average MUCH better built and taller then Asians? Why would a country where girls prefer men with rough masculine faces, proven through studies, EVER go out with men that are stereotypically the least masculine race of men? Why would a country known historically to have all sorts of racial inferiority complexes pertaining to how they got dominated by Russians, Germans, other European countries suddenly show interest in foreigners and other races, and especially a race of men without any representation in the western media and are physically lesser without fitting any preconceived molds of a Polish girls mind? This is considering a country that is not underdeveloped at all and women have the choice of having enough to live and the options to choose the men that they like?

This all sounds like a bunch of poppy cock horse crap to me.

You're asking a bunch of superficially hyperrational questions and your follow-up posts are even worse.

The previous poster's observations were accurate, it just is what it is.

Post: #37

Mmh

Post: #38

I'm personally looking forward to my first real trip back to China since I became redpill/game aware. My Tinder which gets me a match a week gets me about 10 matches a day on Tantan, the Chinese Tinder ripoff when I spoof there. I'm curious to see how much my upgraded physique, style, and game will fare. Interesting experiment, if nothing else.

Post: #39

Bumping up for my asian brothers

Post: #40

Bump.

Post: #41

Asian guys will do better in certain places, but it would be very difficult for them to "kill it" anywhere in the way an advanced white player could.

It's an uncomfortable fact, but Asian guys are very few girls' first choice.

On Polish girls, they are rather mediocre in appearance, both in London and in their home country. There are very few stunners there, but it's true that they are likely the easiest and most racially open women in Europe.

Post: #42

(07-31-2016 10:32 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  Asian guys will do better in certain places, but it would be very difficult for them to "kill it" anywhere in the way an advanced white player could.

It's an uncomfortable fact, but Asian guys are very few girls' first choice.

On Polish girls, they are rather mediocre in appearance, both in London and in their home country. There are very few stunners there, but it's true that they are likely the easiest and most racially open women in Europe.

Guys think they're being insightful when they say things like this but they're really doing a disservice to guys when they make these kinds of unsubstantiated claims.

Also (disregarding Asian girls) Asian guys are very few girls first choice? How can you even quantify that?

Post: #43

(07-31-2016 10:56 AM)the high Wrote:  Guys think they're being insightful when they say things like this but they're really doing a disservice to guys when they make these kinds of unsubstantiated claims.

And (disregarding Asian girls) Asian guys are very few girls first choice? How can you even quantify that?

There are plenty of great Asian players with notch counts of 100 plus, just that there really is no "Asian god factor" anywhere. This means that for an Asian guy to do well, he needs to compensate heavily in other areas. He can't just show up like a beta white guy could in the Philippines and get laid.

Post: #44

Philippines is an Asian country. Where do you think Filipino girls come from? The stork brings them? You really think White guys are outpulling Asian guys in Asia? You picked the worst example.

Post: #45

(07-31-2016 11:15 AM)the high Wrote:  Philippines is an Asian country. Where do you think Filipino girls come from? The stork brings them? You really think White guys are outpulling Asian guys in Asia? You picked the worst example.

Filipino guys are not fucking a different girl every day.

Post: #46

Thread gets bumped only for a troll to take over...carry on troll

Post: #47

My point is that there is no pussy paradise where Asians can go and do extremely well just for the sake of being Asian. If there is disagreement, please post where such a place is, it will be of great satisfaction to our Asian brothers.

Post: #48

(07-31-2016 01:26 PM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  My point is that there is no pussy paradise where Asians can go and do extremely well just for the sake of being Asian. If there is disagreement, please post where such a place is, it will be of great satisfaction to our Asian brothers.

Have you been to Asia or have you live in Asia or abroad?

I'm leaning towards negative.

Are you talking from actually experience?

Everything you read online, you have to read with a grain of salt. Its not always true.

Post: #49

(07-31-2016 11:06 AM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  

(07-31-2016 10:56 AM)the high Wrote:  Guys think they're being insightful when they say things like this but they're really doing a disservice to guys when they make these kinds of unsubstantiated claims.

And (disregarding Asian girls) Asian guys are very few girls first choice? How can you even quantify that?

There are plenty of great Asian players with notch counts of 100 plus, just that there really is no "Asian god factor" anywhere. This means that for an Asian guy to do well, he needs to compensate heavily in other areas. He can't just show up like a beta white guy could in the Philippines and get laid.

I think you can show up to the Phils and bang, have you been to the Phils?

I've, seen beta white guys get nothen in Asia also, it ain't that easy. It does happen.


Once again, have you been to Asia?

I'm leaning towards no. So your just making up stories and spreading rumors.

Post: #50

(07-31-2016 01:26 PM)Lindsey Graham Wrote:  My point is that there is no pussy paradise where Asians can go and do extremely well just for the sake of being Asian. If there is disagreement, please post where such a place is, it will be of great satisfaction to our Asian brothers.

I have lived in asia for over a decade now. I'm a fairly average looking asian guy. I dress well. I don't throw money around. I have a social circle. I pull way better than the vast majority of foreign and whatever expats/tourists in asia. I know this because I have eyeballs and am plugged into the social network here.

Unlike you, faggot.

Just sayin'.