Post: #1

OK, I am new here and have a question..

I live in Phoenix , AZ and the women here are all stuck up and have major bitch shields, plus the girl to guy ratio is horrible, so I am planning to move somewhere with friendly women , like approachable in the sense where they are nice and easy going with a good number of more women than men. I am thinking the midwest or the south but cannot decide.

What are the best cities in the U.S. for meeting friendly , sexy women ?

Thanks

Post: #2

a lot of this hinges on who the guy is. If you've got your shit together, all of a sudden girls in every city become more receptive. That being said, hotness and friendliness my vote goes to Austin TX

Post: #3

Yeah I lived in Austin before and its pretty cool , I have thought of Nashville too , heard good things.

I don't think Phoenix women are very receptive no matter who the guy is , cause I got mad game and hotness and the women here suck , and not in a good way.

Post: #4

^ What about Scottsdale? Heard it was a major party destination.

Post: #5

I'd love to take up residence in Austin for a few weeks. I've heard lots of good things.

Post: #6

(12-01-2012 05:15 AM)Baze_Backinthegame Wrote:  OK, I am new here and have a question..

I live in Phoenix , AZ and the women here are all stuck up and have major bitch shields, plus the girl to guy ratio is horrible, so I am planning to move somewhere with friendly women , like approachable in the sense where they are nice and easy going with a good number of more women than men. I am thinking the midwest or the south but cannot decide.

What are the best cities in the U.S. for meeting friendly , sexy women ?

Thanks

From my experience women have been friendly in Philadelphia but whatever you do don't move to Washington, DC. Women here are very unfriendly and have high standards. A 5 here thinks she is a 9. DC is called by many the graveyard of PUA's

Post: #7

Scottsdale is a party place but the chicks there are not very friendly , well maybe if you show them your fat roll of cash ..

Philly .. I would not have thought .. What about Pittsburgh ?

Post: #8

^ I wrote up a post recently about this "showing cash" stuff. Get out of that mindset bro. The only thing you should "show" them is your charm. Do that and they will spend cash on you as opposed to you on them. Change that paradigm immediately.

Chicks buy me drinks, weed (even phone cases and make me breakfast). I haven't bought a chick a drink in months and even then I basically got back a free drink as a rebate lol.

Post: #9

I spent some time in Scottsdale. In terms of pure per capita hotness, I would rank it as number 1 of all cities I've been to in the USA (SF, LA, San Diego, Austin, NYC). The thing is that most other big cities have nightlife that is spread out, whereas Old Town Scottsdale (a 5-block radius) is the only place hot girls will go. I'd put Austin number 2. I actually thought girls in Scottsdale were pretty friendly, since it was a safe, suburban area. Not the easiest to open and you'll need good game, but still easier to talk to than big cities like LA. The only problem was every other girl was a pornstar, single mom, dropout, etc--not too much on the intellect front.

Here's a potential hidden gem--try a SEC college town in the South. I spent a weekend in Auburn, Alabama last year it is was truly unbelievable. I'd say the average girl was a 7.5, plus sweet-natured. There's this one place called SkyBar on downtown Magnolia Ave, that was the easiest place to open sets ever. Girls were way hotter than the guys. I noticed that girls in the South, though, go for a different kind of "look" than elsewhere (for instance, Auburn girls seem to prefer a skinny, clean-cut white frat dude, whereas a Scottsdale girl would prefer a roided-up tattood MMA fighter).

Post: #10

(12-01-2012 05:15 AM)Baze_Backinthegame Wrote:  OK, I am new here and have a question..

I live in Phoenix , AZ and the women here are all stuck up and have major bitch shields, plus the girl to guy ratio is horrible, so I am planning to move somewhere with friendly women , like approachable in the sense where they are nice and easy going with a good number of more women than men. I am thinking the midwest or the south but cannot decide.

What are the best cities in the U.S. for meeting friendly , sexy women ?

Thanks

Each person is different and you need to find a city that works best for you. Make some trips to cities you are thinking about living in. Decide which city that you like the girls the best. Make it your goal and move there! I have done this several times in my life. Take a test drive first.

Post: #11

Yeah I have been to Scottsdale and done some approaches and they are more friendly than Phoenix for sure ..

Lots of cougars over there which I like .. Walking around the main mall in Scottsdale (Fashion square) is amazing .. hotness everywhere .. I like the food court there for direct approaches. I may go tomorrow actually lol. SEC college town ... I will research that .. thanks ..

Anyone else have any input ?

Post: #12

I just left Philly after a three year stint and wouldn't recommend it to anyone that is not forced to live there or there for family reasons. The only good thing about living there is it is a quick and cheap (~$25) roundtrip to NYC.

I think you're on the right track with Nashville, which does contain an SEC school (Vanderbilt). Since you're already used to the heat of Phoenix, and it doesn't bother you, you'll do well with Texas cities like Dallas, Austin, or Houston. If you're OK with going some place colder, Chicago & Minneapolis would be good. Go visit some places to figure out what you like.

Also, take into account that your stage in life will definitely impact how much you enjoy a city. Are you in your mid 20s? Mid 30s? How important is cost of living to you? Are there a lot of job opportunities in your field in the cities you're considering? Are you looking to try out a place for just a year or will you be there 5+ years?

Post: #13

Quote:Scottsdale is a party place but the chicks there are not very friendly , well maybe if you show them your fat roll of cash ..

Are you fit? If so, go up to Piestewa Peak and Camelback Mountain and day game there. If you're not, then go there and day game while you're getting into shape by climbing to the top every day. If you want to pull girls next door, go to Piestewa (a good opener on the trail is "hey, do you know if they still sell Heineken (or insert your favorite beer or tailor it if she looks like a microbrewery type or whatever) at the beer tent up at the top?" If they're local, they'll laugh and say there's no beer tent at the top and you've broken the ice. If they say "there's a beer tent up at the top?" you know they're from out of town, so ask where from and start a conversation from there. Then you just have to decide when to tell them there's no beer tent, which you can have a lot of fun with); if you want to pull high quality outdoorsy athletic types, go to Camelback and bring your A-game with you because a lot of those girls are pretty hard to crack. That season of the year is in full swing now too. If you aren't up there pulling spring-break ass come march, then you should give up gaming altogether because that is easy pickings with those out of town girls if you've got your logistics down. Think fun tour guide game...

Also, the Scottsdale Public Library steps is a great place to day game, because all the smart girls go there, and it's right there in Old Town, so you have unlimited opportunities for insta-dates (suggest stopping by a couple of the local art galleries and then a margarita at the Salty Senorita, which is two blocks away, for example). Just post up there about 10:30am during the week (or anytime between about 10 and 3 on the weekends) with a copy of the New York Times, Wall Street Journal or Investors Business Daily and say hello when they walk by you, and when they walk out, ask them if they found anything good. If they want to talk to you, they will, if they don't, there will be another one in about a minute and a half. Scottsdale is one of the best places I've ever been in the world for pure hotness, but the hypergamy bitch shields are really high on the club scene. But there are a lot of gems there that you won't ever meet in the clubs. Try the library if you can carry on a conversation, then venue change...

One other place is the Coffee Plantation at the Biltmore. It's great for both night and day to apply Roosh's Coffee Shop Game, and for venue-changing insta-dates coming from the mountains (either one, it's almost right in between the two). This is how it might look: meet girl hiking on mountain, invite for coffee, then venue change to nearby bar (change clothes if you need to) or set up a yoga/dinner date for later in the week. The rest is up to you...

Post: #14

Oh, also regarding Scottsdale, the art galleries there stay open late on Thursday nights (I believe it's still Thursday, but I haven't lived there for awhile, check the New Times or ask a local to confirm). It's a great place to pull, with numerous opportunities for venue changes...coffee shops, ice cream shops, bars, etc. are all right there. I don't know why most people bother with night game in Snottsdale when the day gaming logistics are so good there...

Post: #15

In terms of demographics some east coast cities have a favorable ratio. NYC for example has in excess of 300k more girls than guys... There is a really interesting scientific study published in "the logic of life" by Tim Harford explaining how huge an advantage this is to guys if -big if- they are high status or at least presentable. Same guy who wrote "the undercover economist". Both books have changed my outlook on dating and made my approach more rational... Highly recommend reading them!

Post: #16

Dallas, TX was friendliest. New York, NY was the meanest (30% of approaches were completely ignored). Miami, Atl, and Washington DC were somewhere in between.

Post: #17

Thanks Rouge , I am leaning towards Fort Worth as I posted CL ads and was on POF and DH and the responses there from hot girls were most and most friendly. Plus I may get hired for American Airlines which is based in Dallas/Fort Worth.

@ Cap Peligroso

Thanks for advice man , thinking of trying Scottsdale public library and also the Mountain for hiking, might be better than night game in old town or Fashion Square mall. I am pretty fit , swimmers build, could stand to gain some muscles though.

Spring break is good plan .. thinking of trying South Padre for SB .. I hope to be out of AZ by then, its not just the women but AZ as a whole sucks imo lol.

Post: #18

The girls in Philadelphia are def friendly surprisingly. NYC...only real place they were friendly was starbucks. DC...not as unfriendly as NYC but still not friendly. Boston is similar to DC. Tampa, the girls were friendly.

Post: #19

I would say anywhere in the South. Whenever I meet Southern girls abroad they are very sweet and I often get invited to come over and stay at their place when I visit their home state.

Post: #20

Minneapolis and Kansas City. Both underrated, both full of nice women.

Post: #21

The suburbs of Detroit like Sterling Heights, Ferndale and Royal Oak have very high quality, easy going women. Some of the friendliest in the US (especially for the midwestern look).

Post: #22

Philly girls, friendly? This is news to me... I think where guys think women are friendly (receptive) will differ greatly based on their own style and where they are from. For example, I know most people here shit on Toronto, but when I was there a few years ago I found the girls to be friendly. In the U.S. i've found chicks from the midwest and San diego to be friendlier than the U.S. norm.

Post: #23

I sorta disagree. Folks in these towns are pretty cliquey and tend to hang out with the people they went to high school with. Metro Detroiters really aren't all that friendly IMO. They're about on par with Chicago area folk (a lot of the 20 somethings from Metro Detroit visit or move to Chicago to get their big city fix). Metro Detroit has a harsh history of segregation that it needs to get over (and so does my hometown Chicago for that matter).

(12-06-2012 10:32 PM)VonAwesome Wrote:  The suburbs of Detroit like Sterling Heights, Ferndale and Royal Oak have very high quality, easy going women. Some of the friendliest in the US (especially for the midwestern look).

Post: #24

Here's what I've noticed...girls in their early 20s seem to be the friendliest in most places because most of them are in or fresh out of college and still in the mood to meet new people. Women in their mid 20s to late 20s (sometimes early 30s) can be pretty bitchy because most have an established circle of friends and dare not risk dealing with a guy who will bring disapproval from the group. Women over 30 are generally more open to meeting new people and nicer. Many of them have lost that core group of friends from their 20s because some got married, some moved away...and most of them seem far less concerned with group think.

All that said, I would not say one city has friendlier women than another because there are bitches everywhere. What I will say is that in my experience women with southern backgrounds seem less likely to completely blow you out than women from some northern cities.