RE: Do girls really like older men?
Good posts here, this subject has been on my mind since turning 30 recently. Over the summer I had 2 pickups with a large age gap where the girls though I was much younger and found out the truth later, one of which went well and the other not so well. Here's a quick rundown:
The first one I met on the night of her 21st birthday. We had fast chemistry and were dancing and making out about 15 minutes after meeting, and when she asked my age I didn't want to derail the vibe so I just said 25 and kept going.
I got her back to my hotel room later that night, and after hooking up while we were laying in bed she asked me if I said I was 24 or 25. On a whim I decided to be truthful, and smirked faintly while motioning my finger up towards the ceiling.
"Oh, you're 26?" I continued pointing up.
"27?" More pointing.
"28??"
At this point I figured I'd played it enough, and told her 30. She insisted on seeing my driver's license, then gave me some mock outrage. I laughed it off and changed subjects. A couple minutes later, she asked me if it was weird that she was more attracted finding out I was older.
I ended up seeing her a couple more times, and while she sometimes teased me about the age difference it was never an issue.
The second one, though...I met her towards last call, on what was more a party with friends night than focused on game, so I was pretty hammered. She was up there too. Early on she told me she was 21, and I conveniently forgot to volunteer my age while we kept talking. We did a round of shots there, moved to another bar and did more shots, and then ended up at my place.
We were both pretty sloppy, and I ended up with a fun but blurry hookup. We woke up early the next morning, and I heard words no man wants the day after: "I don't remember anything after leaving [the bar we met at], did we have sex?"
I had just read Roosh's post on false allegations and some of the forum posts on it as well so I was on guard, and handled it as smoothly as I could. I ended up offering to help her run down her lost friend, and suggested grabbing some breakfast and coffee (to be seen in public).
As we were getting ready to go, she asked me how old I was. I asked her what she thought, and she said 24. With the red flag of possible accusations and an intuition I had that she'd be upset over a big gap, I split the difference and told her 28.
This was still higher than I should have gone--she acted shocked, and was saying how she'd never dated a guy more than two years older. I was able to get her calm--focusing on finding her friend helped--but lesson learned, if I'm ever in a possibly dangerous situation like that I'm taking the safer way out and going with her guess.
Long story short, we had a misadventure tracking down her friend, when we found her she also claimed no memory after leaving the bar. The girls ended up talking and decided that they'd never get drunk and forget the night so they were clearly roofied (yeah right!), and I had a fun time of it playing defense. I did end up sliding any blame off me and later on saved a txt message where she outright says she doesn't believe I did anything.
Funny thing is, later on that day her and I ended up making out again before going our separate ways. With the possible accusation and roofie issue I didn't see her again, but the age difference ultimately had little to nothing to do with it.
|