Post: #76

Could someone here ask Dalrock if he would ever start a proper bulletin board forum?

Christian, nominally Christian and Churchianity exiles (such as me) who are at the junction of wife-seeking or bachelorhood need somewhere to interact and share notes of due-diligence.

it has come down to finding a wife in the churches or in a foreign country where nominal Christianity is still ingrained in the culture so that women are brought up to be wives and mothers.

The danger with Church game* however is navigating between the rocks of the Madonna - Whore complex and the White Knight Cuckservative "Ned Flanders" complex so masculine Christian fellowship is important.

*Genesis 3:16 Wrote:To the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your labor pains; with pain you will give birth to children. You will want to control your husband, but he will dominate you."

It appears that the source of hypergamy is that a man must prove himself worthy of a woman's birth pangs by conquering her.

Post: #77

(11-11-2017 02:21 AM)N°6 Wrote:  Could someone here ask Dalrock if he would ever start a proper bulletin board forum?

Christian, nominally Christian and Churchianity exiles (such as me) who are at the junction of wife-seeking or bachelorhood need somewhere to interact and share notes of due-diligence.

it has come down to finding a wife in the churches or in a foreign country where nominal Christianity is still ingrained in the culture so that women are brought up to be wives and mothers.

The danger with Church game* however is navigating between the rocks of the Madonna - Whore complex and the White Knight Cuckservative "Ned Flanders" complex so masculine Christian fellowship is important.

*Genesis 3:16 Wrote:To the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your labor pains; with pain you will give birth to children. You will want to control your husband, but he will dominate you."

It appears that the source of hypergamy is that a man must prove himself worthy of a woman's birth pangs by conquering her.

Why not ask Roosh if you can start a "(Wayward) Christian Men's Subforum" here or something of the sort. And if so, invite the Dalrock crowd over. Why reinvent the wheel?

The RVF and ROK has a lot of knowledge and resources that would benefit the Dalrock people.

Post: #78

I can cosign on former carousel riders suddenly finding religion when no one wants to sleep with them anymore. You want to find out who is who? Ask them for their personal Christian testimony. Listen to how they long for the old days, and listen to how completely absent any sense of real responsibility or guilt they feel. A man's testimony often has regret about decisions made and time wasted.

Listen to these girls talk, and you would think their only sin was to love fathers and boyfriends and bosses who where bad. When they talk, they are only specific about the things that were done to them.

When it comes time to talk about what they did, everything gets really hazy, they ended up using again, found themselves in a bar hoping for a connection.

Even the ones who have figured out the tropes of redemption can still give themselves away on some level. Trust your gut. She can talk about deliverance all she wants, but if all you are thinking about is railing her, and there is no spiritual feeling overtaking your baser instincts, you can bet she has learned how to invoke that reaction and is not what she seems.

I am not against redemption, and do believe that people can change. At the same time though, these sneaky little fakers are in every church, and their pride and self righteousness and lack of true humility give them away.