Post: #1

So I'm in Omaha tonight on business and i went to the boiler room for dinner. It's an excellent French restaurant. I had an amazing dinner and the bartender recommended I go to the waiting room for a live band.

I saw Cherub and that band has the funkiest electronic guitar music ever! The whole crowd danced all night and I ended up meeting some cool guys who I'll remain friends with. I danced my ass off all night and life just feels awesome.

If you aren't going out solo because you don't know anyone you are missing out on having a shit load of fun.

My coworkers sat in their hotel rooms all night saving their per diem hating their life and I just had the most amazing night.

Solo is where it's at to truly let free and enjoy life

Post: #2

I've just started doing the solo dolo thing. It's fun...feels like your living two lives. I usually just tell people I stayed home if they ask the next day.

Have yet to run into someone I know though...

Post: #3

I've always preferred going solo, no matter where I am.

Post: #4

i've gone out solo 2-3 times and man i fucking hated it. i'm a lower energy guy and as you can imagine that problem is compounded when i'm out by myself. i need a cool bro with me to pump up my state.

however uncle roosh has said that it takes about 10 nights of going out solo dolo cholo to get comfortable with it, so i will defer to his advice and follow it

Post: #5

I never spent my per diem, stayed in and pocketed every penny.
In retrospect, I was always in different cities, why not take that money and hit the town. I could never distinguish it as 'free money' to have 'fun' with. Not even a portion of it. The real problem was not wanting to go out alone, not knowing how. I think a wing rarely does you favours, I've never had one who understands game, I'm sure one who does is a great help in gaming 2+ sets, in most cases going out with someone only serves for you to feel better about being out alone, self comfort. It's fear of criticism, fear of what people think about you alone. You cannot care, it cannot be part of your reality. I love rolling dolo now, I feel like I'm setting out on an adventure every time I go out, and I'm prepared as such... I keep thinking what's going to happen, what's around the corner. The difference came to me in realizing how life/reality can be manipulated/bent by you, if you don't realize that, you're moving with the world, it's about having it move around you. I know a pickup is going right when it feels like we are still and everything is passing around us, even if we are moving.

Post: #6

the first 5 or so times you go out feels really awkward but you then get used to it, now i almost always go out solo. the freedom you get is worth it alone but you also feel great because you are doing what all other guys especially guys my age (21) are afraid to do. You can just focus on your game and improve it, everything you achieve is because of you and you alone.

Post: #7

I'm a big fan of going out solo. Actually, I just got even more motivation since my Halloween in 2012 was rough. Things started out great at a house party, but then we ended up having to meet this other chick and her boyfriend while doing all the shit they wanted to do despite them peacing out early anyways.

From that point on, I made it a goal of mine's to A) Not hang around stupid chicks and B) Go out alone when I can bc compromising with idiots sucks ass...life is too short for that either. Good for ya!

Post: #8

(09-13-2012 03:46 PM)tjuan Wrote:  I never spent my per diem, stayed in and pocketed every penny.

When I heard how much companies give people for "per diem", I started calling it:

Per Hourem