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    Hi fellow persuers of ultimate happiness,

I've been at this stuff for quite some time now, and tbh progress has been slow to moderately slow, mostly cos i'm slow on the uptake generally, and also cos i have so many issues in different areas of my life to get a handle on.

I just wanna share my thoughts and hope there's something contributory to your own development from my findings in my self-experimentation for you.

I've been from introverted to very flirtatious and identify my main issue to be in the risk taking arena, I am finding it a bitch to know when and how to go for the moment, most of all cos I have no reference point, experentially, to call on, even though I've bedded about 30+ women, I still find the whole women as easy fascinating, and can verify that they're all sluts, no problems there, I know it, and am seeing it so clearly when chattin with em, and it's a brilliant thing, and romance is always very high on their agenda.

When I was married, I still had women offering me dates n stuff, but my main thing is the first kiss, getting that to were I am daring enough to make it happen, I feel I can be doing much better to initiate it, and need to re-anchor myself so I can make them fast escalations to the point were the woman is just having her breath taken away, literally, and sweeping her off her feet by being one who is committed to bringing much more joy to a womans mundane world...any tips are greatly appreciated, thanks men!

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Write right.

   

Post: #3

Try to get away from your "Disney" mindset of looking at things. I am going to defer to the guys with more experience to answer your question, but what I have to say here is context is everything. To be blunt, stop thinking like a bitch: leave it to the female to romanticize events. As a man it is your job to stay rooted, and to lead the interaction where you want it to go. She will clue you in that she is open to your desires (IOIs) but you need to be the one that makes it happen.

Post: #4

Okay, Tuthmosis, sorry about that, just to clarify tbh = to be honest.

Cheers PJ, I take on board what you say, and see what you mean, I look forward to further comments, much appreciated!