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RE: John Mayer ends things with Katy Perry... quickly
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RE: John Mayer ends things with Katy Perry... quickly
(08-28-2012 04:50 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote: Kitsune, you can't be serious. This is the woman who flaunted still being in love with her old Alpha high-school crush in front of a concert crowd, while engaged. Her extreme sluttiness is out there for all to see.
I'm perfectly serious. At no point in history before the last fifty years or so would an attractive young girl with massive financial wealth have such a hard time keeping a guy.
Quote:I don't think she is "successful" at all.
In comparison to what? Massive networth, access to sections of society that most girls can't even dream of. Has the potential to date all but the very top of men; all whilst still being young enough to leverage it. If you look at the boxes for a girl's evolutionary imperitive, she fulfills damn near all of them at a cursory glance.
Quote:All that her beauty does is to provide a warm hole to a random horny man. It would be much more of a surprise if she weren't abandoned (by any man with an ounce with self-respect) when the proof of her sluttiness is so easily available.
All anyone's beauty does is make them more attractive to the opposite sex, but seeing as that is the raison-d'etre for a girls existence, I don't really see what the problem is. And if you think being bitter about a first love makes someone slutty, I'm afraid I have some bad news: Every single girl is a slut, by that reckoning. They all want to get back at the first guy who hooked-up with them and left, just the same as every guy who has ever been burned by a girl never forgets it.
As far as general sluttiness goes, the 'average girl' is going to be far less selective than a pop-starlet, because of the differing environment and the risk/reward ratio.
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RE: John Mayer ends things with Katy Perry... quickly
Sorry, I have worded that about success poorly. I meant to say that men don't get particularly excited by fame and status, unlike the opposite. Fame can even be a negative, like Severina, that Croatian pop singer famous for her porn video. Maybe money, but being a provider isn't nearly as important an attribute in a woman as it is for the opposite. For a gold-digging guy, perhaps, but cases of men being awarded half of a woman's wealth in today's legal system are comparatively rare.
What I'm asking is: what makes her such a great catch for a successful man? (as opposed to, say, any random hot student girl) Everyone would bang (see porescheguy), but why stay, commit, wife her up?
I definitely agree that it would have been different a century ago, but the dowry is long gone.
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RE: John Mayer ends things with Katy Perry... quickly
(08-28-2012 06:06 AM)Kitsune Wrote: And if you think being bitter about a first love makes someone slutty, I'm afraid I have some bad news: Every single girl is a slut, by that reckoning. They all want to get back at the first guy who hooked-up with them and left, just the same as every guy who has ever been burned by a girl never forgets it.
Yes, they are. Western girls have been through the ringer so many times that romance will forever remain in the realm of fantasy for them. It may only take one or two failed (i.e. Ended) relationships with men to do it. French novelist Michel Houellebecq had an amazing passage about this:
- From the amorous point of view, Veronique belonged, as we all do, to a sacrificed generation. She had certainly been capable of love; she wished to still be capable it, I’ll say that for her; but it was no longer possible. A scarce, artificial and belated phenomenon, love can only blossom under certain mental conditions, rarely conjoined, and totally opposed to the freedom of morals which characterizes the modern era. Veronique had known too many discotheques, too many lovers; such a way of life impoverishes a human being, inflicting sometimes serious and always irreversible damage. Love as a kind of innocence and as a capacity for other sex in a single loved being rarely, resists a year of sexual immorality, and never two. In reality the successive sexual experiences accumulated during adolescence undermine and rapidly destroy all possibility of projection of an emotional and romantic sort; progressively, and in fact extremely quickly, one becomes as capable of love as an old slag. And so one leads, obviously, a slag’s life; in ageing one becomes less seductive, and on that account, bitter. One is jealous of the younger, and so one hates them. Condemned to remain unvowable, this hatred festers and becomes increasingly fervent; then it dies down and fades away, just as everything fades away. All that remains is resentment and disgust, sickness and the anticipation of death.
A related post: whytherearenogirls.blogspot.com/2010/04/35-great-white-buffalo.html?m=1
(This post was last modified: 08-28-2012 08:47 AM by Basil Ransom.)
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RE: John Mayer ends things with Katy Perry... quickly
(08-28-2012 08:08 AM)porscheguy Wrote: Katy Perry has awesome tits and ass. Would definitely bang. Would lick her asshole. Would wife up (only in the community property state of California.)
John Mayer has a rather impressive notch count.
1. Jennifer Love Hewitt
2. Jessica Simpson
3. Minka Kelly
4. Jennifer Aniston
5. Taylor Swift (meh)
6. Katy Perry
The guy is living proof that you can sing all the beta bullshit you want, but as long as you know it's just an act, pussy will rain down from the heavens on you.
When John Mayer raved publicly about how good Simpson was in bed, you knew he was a player. (I actually found that amazing in that I think Mayer was at most her second or third guy, seeing as how she claimed she was a virgin when she married Nick Lachey. Maybe Nick taught her well).
And why shouldn't Mayer go around poking these hotties? He's talented, good looking, and has dough. Of course, he's smart about it. being in the public eye, he can't go for the ONS. He has to serially date with "girlfriends."
But he has zero reason to marry, zero reason to commit at this stage in his life. The next piece of hot strange pussy is just a few months away.
More evidence, if any were needed, how the culture has dramatically changed.
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RE: John Mayer ends things with Katy Perry... quickly
(08-28-2012 08:42 AM)basilransom Wrote: Yes, they are. Western girls have been through the ringer so many times that romance will forever remain in the realm of fantasy for them. It may only take one or two failed (i.e. Ended) relationships with men to do it. French novelist Michel Houellebecq had an amazing passage about this:
- From the amorous point of view, Veronique belonged, as we all do, to a sacrificed generation. She had certainly been capable of love; she wished to still be capable it, I’ll say that for her; but it was no longer possible. A scarce, artificial and belated phenomenon, love can only blossom under certain mental conditions, rarely conjoined, and totally opposed to the freedom of morals which characterizes the modern era. Veronique had known too many discotheques, too many lovers; such a way of life impoverishes a human being, inflicting sometimes serious and always irreversible damage. Love as a kind of innocence and as a capacity for other sex in a single loved being rarely, resists a year of sexual immorality, and never two. In reality the successive sexual experiences accumulated during adolescence undermine and rapidly destroy all possibility of projection of an emotional and romantic sort; progressively, and in fact extremely quickly, one becomes as capable of love as an old slag. And so one leads, obviously, a slag’s life; in ageing one becomes less seductive, and on that account, bitter. One is jealous of the younger, and so one hates them. Condemned to remain unvowable, this hatred festers and becomes increasingly fervent; then it dies down and fades away, just as everything fades away. All that remains is resentment and disgust, sickness and the anticipation of death.
A related post: whytherearenogirls.blogspot.com/2010/04/35-great-white-buffalo.html?m=1
Great great GREAT quote. What novel is that from?
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RE: John Mayer ends things with Katy Perry... quickly
(08-28-2012 08:51 AM)tenderman100 Wrote: (08-28-2012 08:42 AM)basilransom Wrote: Yes, they are. Western girls have been through the ringer so many times that romance will forever remain in the realm of fantasy for them. It may only take one or two failed (i.e. Ended) relationships with men to do it. French novelist Michel Houellebecq had an amazing passage about this:
- From the amorous point of view, Veronique belonged, as we all do, to a sacrificed generation. She had certainly been capable of love; she wished to still be capable it, I’ll say that for her; but it was no longer possible. A scarce, artificial and belated phenomenon, love can only blossom under certain mental conditions, rarely conjoined, and totally opposed to the freedom of morals which characterizes the modern era. Veronique had known too many discotheques, too many lovers; such a way of life impoverishes a human being, inflicting sometimes serious and always irreversible damage. Love as a kind of innocence and as a capacity for other sex in a single loved being rarely, resists a year of sexual immorality, and never two. In reality the successive sexual experiences accumulated during adolescence undermine and rapidly destroy all possibility of projection of an emotional and romantic sort; progressively, and in fact extremely quickly, one becomes as capable of love as an old slag. And so one leads, obviously, a slag’s life; in ageing one becomes less seductive, and on that account, bitter. One is jealous of the younger, and so one hates them. Condemned to remain unvowable, this hatred festers and becomes increasingly fervent; then it dies down and fades away, just as everything fades away. All that remains is resentment and disgust, sickness and the anticipation of death.
A related post: whytherearenogirls.blogspot.com/2010/04/35-great-white-buffalo.html?m=1
Great great GREAT quote. What novel is that from?
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It's kind of funny. He got a lot of fans from that book, nihilists, hipsters, counterculture types. In a later book, the elementary particles, he fleshed out his criticism of the sexual revolution, and all his former fans got mad at him. But it's all right there in that passage.
When I first read that excerpt, I was like 'Yes! This is exactly how I feel about every sexual encounter, whether I bang her or not.'
Mayer must have done this just for kicks. 'Biggest pop star in the world, too good for her man? Let me show this trick what's up.' :thumbsup:
(This post was last modified: 08-28-2012 09:18 AM by Basil Ransom.)
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