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is a facebook message a bad idea?
Last Friday i had a friends 21st, met a girl who i had good conversation with and she showed interest... Well, stupidly I didn't get the number. I kept putting it off and before I knew it 6 of us were on a train home at 7am and she got off with her friends a couple stops before me.

Anyway, we were both tagged together in a couple photos on FB. im not going to add her as a friend, would a random FB message, something along the lines of "Hey ____, was good meeting you on Saturday. Would you like to go for drinks sometime?"

be a bad idea?

On one hand im thinking she has lost interest because I didnt go in for a number. On the other hand, she did seem pretty in to me.

She's friends of a friend so not sure if I will run into her any time soon.. But figuring I don't have much to lose right?

Thoughts?
08-06-2012 09:23 AM
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RE: is a facebook message a bad idea?
Crap! Was supposed to post this in newbie section. sorry guys
08-06-2012 09:33 AM
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RE: is a facebook message a bad idea?
Try it and see what happens. If she doesn't go for it, just move on.

Disclamer: I am not the Sargon of Akkad from Youtube and I have no relation whatsoever to that person...also, I don't give a shit about videogames.
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08-06-2012 10:38 PM
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RE: is a facebook message a bad idea?
(08-06-2012 10:38 PM)Nineteen84 Wrote:  sure but bear in mind this: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/02/14/soulkill/

lol, I've actually read that post before - I sent her a FB message a few hours ago, "Hey, was good meeting you on friday. would you wanna go for drinks sometime"

no reply yet and chicks check their facebook every 13 seconds so I'm not holding out much hope. oh well
08-07-2012 06:15 AM
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RE: is a facebook message a bad idea?
Facebook sells all informations u put online.

Everyone can BUY the information with what girls to you have slept (for example if you look for a new job).

Everyone can simply BUY the knowledge of your desires. That makes you predictable, vulnerable and susceptible to blackmail (5th rule Shaolin).

Now to the Game. Roosh wrote several times that the cell phone gives girls power... well Facebook i think is even worse.

so in EVERY possible way Facebook should be avoided.
08-07-2012 07:57 AM
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RE: is a facebook message a bad idea?
I agree with what you are saying. I don't use facebook much, I only have a few pics of myself on it and never like or really comment on any people's pages.. the only thing i use it for is the occassional private chat with friends.

Lesson learned - dont be a bitch and get the number!! although this is already pretty obvious.
08-07-2012 08:13 AM
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(08-07-2012 06:15 AM)big poppa Wrote:  I sent her a FB message a few hours ago, "Hey, was good meeting you on friday. would you wanna go for drinks sometime"

Which she probably interpreted as 'Hi, wanna fuck?'. Such is the nature of Facebook.


Leave it for a while and see if you bump into her again with friends but don't mention the FB message. Just act like you forgot about it. And hunt new girls in the meantime.

And don't forget the Jumbotron test...
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08-07-2012 04:27 PM
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RE: is a facebook message a bad idea?
surprisingly i got a reply, about 12 hours after my initial message.

she said that it was great meeting me and gave up her number, haven't texted her yet but it's looking pretty good.

for once, thank you facebook!
08-08-2012 01:41 AM
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(08-08-2012 01:41 AM)big poppa Wrote:  surprisingly i got a reply, about 12 hours after my initial message.

she said that it was great meeting me and gave up her number, haven't texted her yet but it's looking pretty good.

for once, thank you facebook!

nice! Banana let us know how it goes
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