Post: #1

So a few days ago I went to a party and ended up hooking up with this girl who I have been talking to for a couple weeks. She's foreign, has a bf, is all over me and wants to fuck. All night I pretty much had a chub from her turning me on.

So we end up going into my car and hooking up. I eat her out and finger her for a good 30+ mins... still not hard. She starts jerking me off... still not moving. WTF? This has never happened to me before. I haven't wacked off in about 2 weeks, I've been taking Horny Goat Weed and Maca pills everyday, also fish oils, multi vitamin, protein, etc. I am horny, not like I'm flatlining or anything.

So wtf happened and how do I avoid this? Or how do I fix it if it happens again? I'm seeing her again tomorrow and I'm worried it'll happen again. Has this happened to anyone? How do you avoid/fix it on the spot?

Thanks.

P.S. she has a BF and he's fucked up (thuggish) but I wasn't thinking about it while we were hooking up. Maybe because it was in the back of my mind or something?

Post: #2

The only thing I can think of is maybe you drank too much. How much alcohol did you have? If you had a chub during the night, I can't imagine why you couldn't achieve liftoff when you really needed to.

Post: #3

Smoking cigarettes also kills my wood sometimes.

But who knows, you were probably just too up in your head. Don't worry about it. If you woke up with a boner this morning, then it's not a physical problem.

Although not beating the meat for two weeks is pretty intense-- maybe popping one off once in a while would help your dick know when it's showtime, you know?

EDIT: Possibly stupid question, but just to be thorough: did you do any drugs? Coke will make you horny as a demon but turn your dick into an acorn head.

Post: #4

This happened to me twice when I was in high school. Both had to have been linked to drugs.

Dont worry about it, if it only happened once then you have nothing to worry about

Post: #5

Man it happens to the best of us!!

Just don`t stress or dwell upon as it can make matters worse.

Laugh it off and bang like a demon next time round!

Post: #6

Weed and lots of alcohol make your dick a limp boy.

Post: #7

Maybe all those pills are fucking with your psyche. My last bang I wacked off 3 times in the AM then met some OKCupid girl for drinks at 8-10PM and was ready to go by the time I got her home. My LTR I bang relentlessly for about 16 hours a month all in one sitting, the rest of the time I send stupid shitty texts to hold her off.

Was this girl hot or frumpy? I think our shlongs get hard for the more feminine, cute, baby momma types than(like you said her BF is thuggish IE she is dirty stinky ho) some female slot to dump a disgusting small load in. Some of the bitches I see on NYC streets I hope some thug will rape so she realizes how worthless her life has become.

Post: #8

Fuck it's probably the weed then. We were stoned.

Had some white wine before as well.

Post: #9

And she's a hottie. Wherever I take her guys try to get her attention. With a sexy spanish accent.

Post: #10

The penis is cruel, and its love of irony is great. So often in life you will have a glasscutting boner when it could embarrass you. Sitting down for 45 minutes on a Southwest flight gives you wood like you were getting a tandem BJ from underwear models. Then the person in the window seat makes you get up so they can take a piss. Days later, when you've finally had that perfect streak of luck and are about to get the SNL with a hot piece of ass-- no boner. It’s like if Batman kept walking in on you while you were taking a shit, but when you were getting the crap kicked out of you by thugs he was nowhere to be found.

You either gotta tell the girl to suck off your flaccid member, or accept defeat for the moment, knowing that after a night of half-sleep naked and entwined your cock will rise anew with the dawn to slay the pussy without mercy.

Post: #11

I make all my girls blow me before sex. Usually they do it out of habit or instinct, but there's nothing to be ashamed of. Tell her it's not going to suck itself in a matter of fact tone.

That aside, why are you taking supplements? Do you have a history of boner issues? If not, stop taking them? 9 times out of 10 this shit is all in your head.

Post: #12

I've had this happen to me. If it happens again, 2 options. Either have her blow you, or find another place you are sensitive (such has licking your nipples or biting your ears) and have her focus on that. This will help you relax and you can completely ignore your dick, then after she's been going at it for a little bit, the relaxation will have helped you get hard.

I would almost guarantee this is all mental. Do you have this problem getting hard with porn? If not, its mental.

Post: #13

(08-04-2012 01:22 AM)1bliss Wrote:  Fuck it's probably the weed then. We were stoned.

Had some white wine before as well.

The only time I couldn't get stiff enough to fuck was after I had wine. It was with a long-time lover too, and I NEVER failed to get rock hard for her. She was giving me oral and everything, and it only got semi-hard. I would say that the wine/weed combo is what did you in...

Post: #14

(08-03-2012 10:58 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  Weed and lots of alcohol make your dick a limp boy.

I second this. It happened to me twice already, when I drink and smoke heavy there is just no way my d wil wake up

(08-04-2012 01:22 AM)1bliss Wrote:  Fuck it's probably the weed then. We were stoned.

Had some white wine before as well.

Post: #15

Too much alcohol can definitely do it but in my experience weed just makes u crazy horny and receptive to any sexual act or females in general. I experimented with supplements before and I'd say get off them, it's probably all in your head. When I was taking stuff I had to fuck or jerk it that night or I literally wouldn't be able to cum, not even jerking it sometimes. I had a very awkward and frustrating night with some chick one night due to the supplements I was taking.

Post: #16

I always tell guys on here to drink and smoke if they don't want to pop Viagra/are nervous around a girl BUT you have to know your limits. I've been doing this shit for about 8 years so I know how to get a nice buzz and just chill. Don't try to impress anyone and start taking shot after shot while rolling up an oz. I had no idea when to stop when I was younger and missed a lot of nuts that could of been busted. You're going to run into problems if you're getting to fucked up. I've had to tell girls no because I hopped on the rollercoaster and started spinning when we're messing around. I've been so fucked up where a girl sucks my dick and it just ain't happening . You're playing in the big leagues when you mix those 2 things so be careful.

Reminded me of this song