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Date Lab

She is an overweight white 35-year-old personal trainer. WTF? Luckily for her, he is also overweight, black, 38-years-old, and "doesn't really dig skinny girls."

The date went well.

the [conversational] floodgates ... exploded. ... We ordered a bottle of wine. We ordered another bottle of wine. We were having a good, good time.

But he is cringe-worthy indecisive.

The next girl that I date I plan on marrying, ... I definitely want to hang out with her. [But] I don’t want to mislead her. ... We left around 9:30, which is pretty late for me.

If he can tell his future bride on the first date, then congratulations to him. But he completely lost her at the end. Women do not like indecisiveness and the insult of lukewarm attraction. All he had to do was send her a flattering sexually charged text at the end. I'm exasperated that he threw her away.