Post: #1

My stages are probably like this:

* No game. Very few options. Not very confident; did not know about approaching girls, did not know about dressing well, keeping in shape, nothing. Would stay in non-ideal relationships due to not being aware of better options. Spent life up until end of college like this.
* Starting to learn game.
Regular sex with OK girls. Learning to approach girls, go out alone, get first date sex, get one night stands, fuck girls while traveling. Not confident or able enough to get with super pretty girls. Probably spent 1.5 years in this stage.
* Semi-advanced game. Easy sex with normal/pretty girls. Take sex with pretty girls for granted. Most of my sex is on the first date or first night. So many options that it is impossible to have a monogamous relationship. Put up with no crap from girls because there are others around the corner. Maybe overly concerned with quantity and am fucking multiple new girls every month. However, settle for dating 7s or one night stands with 6's. Sometimes get myself in uncomfortable situations of girls wanting to see me again that I'm not that interested in fucking more than once. Not cold-hearted enough to pump and dump girls really. Spent a year in this stage and now feel like I want to transition right away to my next stage:

Next step:
* Only fuck super hot girls - quality over quantity. Quit giving my contact info to 6's and 7's so I am not tempted to go for an easy lay with a begging 7 or guilted into hanging out with a 7 again instead of shooting for 8's and 9's. Figure out how to get the elite girls that literally turn guys' heads, can be the hottest girl in most settings. I am a young, pretty good-looking guy (not 6'6" with a six pack, but good-looking) and feel like I am not fucking girls that are prettier than I am hot. Need to get in elite shape at the gym (currently not chubby but no abs either), start dressing really sharply, get my money right, mastering more game tips, tricks, routines, etc. I have gotten phone numbers from 9's but not fucked any.

With every stage, I look back on the girls from the previous stage and don't find them that attractive. Looking forward to fucking only hot girls in this next stage but I have a suspicion it is going to be hell to deal with these girls attitudes and personalities.... We'll see!

What are your stages/levels? Can you define them better or more systematically than I did?

Post: #2

Where are you? Colombia? Must be nice to be in an environment in which 7+ are abundant.

Post: #3

I like that breakdown. Makes me appreciate the male mind, no homo.

Post: #4

I like these threads. One of these days I'm going to go through and bump more of these self-developent homages.

For me it was like this:

0-11: Naturally extroverted, exuberant and confident but also a total nerd. Was chasing and kissing girls when I was 7. I'd grab 'em cave-man style and they'd squeal. Or hit me.

11-17: Acne blast. Ended in a prep-school for upper class kids, and man was I out of place. It was diabolical being extroverted and wanting to lead but not having the social skills for that environment. And my acne and haircut was a disaster.

17-20: got my good looks - lost the acne (with pills) braces and started lifting weights. still no social skills. Discovered David D. Didn't make a damn difference in the end, but he did open my eyes.

20-25: went on vacation with a friend who introduced me to Mystery method. Eye-opener. Started doing ok with the girls, but it was pretty random.

Now... eventually experience, maturity and more self-confidence make my nights more "efficient", I'm more fearless than saavy in my interactions, so that needs work. Whether I not I bag a hottie is still pretty random. I also still get trucked and wake at some fat bitch's place. Luckily that hasn't happened in a year, though.

I have prioritized other things in my life - I don't see myself spending time on meeting new girls right now. I want to focus on building a worthy lifestyle. That means saving money, getting in shape, and studying. Girls, night-life is just detrimental to those goals at this point. The sooner I pull through this stage of my life, the better and the stronger I'll be when I come out the other side. In more ways than one.