Post: #1

Hey guys this is a weird situation I've got, I've been getting into game for maybe a year or so. Within my social circle I've hooked up with a few hot girls in university in the 7-9 range, but I always choke in the closing. I'm still a virgin so I don't have that much experience with sex so when I screw up the hot girls end up getting pissed, leave, and/or mindfuck the shit out of me. The dilemma is that I've lost all motivation to try and game girls who are on the lower end of scale to cut my teeth. Whats a good way to get motivation to game and bang uglier girls to get more experience so I can move onto the hotter ones?

Thanks for all the replies.

Post: #2

Just bang the hotter ones. The sex is better and you'll get more confidence out of it. What part of the close are you having troubles with? Is there a certain sticking point? When I started out it was going for the makeout. I guess it was a fear of that initial rejection, if she kisses you it doesn't matter if she bangs you she still has interest (my rationalization for that fear). I would also rationalize that it wasn't the right time or I was on "the wrong side" (for you Seinfeld fans). I eventually got over this by just making myself do it. Ask yourself "why not" and unless you can come up with something like "she has a gross cold sore that is oozing all over the place" or "i think shes actually a dude" there is no reason why you shouldn't just try. I also went for the makeout in a private place. Many of the girls I've been with aren't into PDA, one girl was all over me on the dance floor but would shy away every time I went in to kiss her. As soon as we got back to her place she was all over me.

Post: #3

1) buy viagra, 2) hire a hooker, 3) jerk off before u fuck the hooker and pop the viagra 1 hr before.

no longer will u have that virgin mentality and you can go out and game later that night with the full confidence that you just fucked a hottie. girls will flock to u like bees to honey.

Post: #4

(07-04-2012 10:21 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  Just bang the hotter ones. The sex is better and you'll get more confidence out of it. What part of the close are you having troubles with? Is there a certain sticking point? When I started out it was going for the makeout. I guess it was a fear of that initial rejection, if she kisses you it doesn't matter if she bangs you she still has interest (my rationalization for that fear). I would also rationalize that it wasn't the right time or I was on "the wrong side" (for you Seinfeld fans). I eventually got over this by just making myself do it. Ask yourself "why not" and unless you can come up with something like "she has a gross cold sore that is oozing all over the place" or "i think shes actually a dude" there is no reason why you shouldn't just try. I also went for the makeout in a private place. Many of the girls I've been with aren't into PDA, one girl was all over me on the dance floor but would shy away every time I went in to kiss her. As soon as we got back to her place she was all over me.

yea its around the making out part, I'd get the makeout. but then I'd be super nervous escalating. Especially since I went to start really touching her, then she pulled a away and left me after giving me the fuck me eyes. This kinda freaked me out, so the next girl I tried to be more aggressive. I pulled her in, made out and quickly stuck my tongue down her throat. I think she got freaked out and left but would come up to me in parties that we both would goto. But it felt weird cuz I felt like she rejected me at the time and pretty much ignored her. Realize that these are the first times I had experiences like that so I was extremely nervous and it was hard keeping my nerves under control.

I guess I gotta approach more girls and keep trying.

Thanks for the help guys

Post: #5

Alcohol

Post: #6

Losing your virginity through instant makeout hookup sex could be a tall order. First time is the hardest for most guys.

I'd say you should get a regular girl, date her for a couple of weeks and then try to go at it. You gotta have someone who's patient and understanding, otherwise if you don't get it right the first time(happens to a lot of guys) and the girl leaves pissed it might further hurt your confidence.