During nightgame on the weekend I got myself 2 numbers preemptively.
The first girl had to join her friends at a different venue and I am in touch with and hope to get her out later in the week. Only approached because she was rolling solo and she was actually a good looking Pakistani girl.
The second girl is some young plain Finnish girl who basically got fought over by incredibly thirsty dudes, you'd need at least 10 cans of Solo lemonade to quench the down under desert dry thirst of these dudes it was unbelievable, and it's not worth potentially getting into a fight for just one girl that is not in the top 25%.
I'm not bothering to message her yet.

Today after work I wasn't in a rush like yesterday to go play sports but needed to get a feed and the chance to buy what I needed.

Approach #1
I indirectly opened a French girl about hostels nearby.
Enquired about how Australia is nice and warm.
Brings up her boyfriend saving me the time.
The old boyfriend line? What is this, Poland all over again? But I appreciate the time saved not having to find out later.
I enquired a little bit further and found out they met at a farm.
In order for Europeans to extend their visa in Australia they must do farm work out in woop woop. No wonder we don't get more foreign girls than we should.
I bid her good day.

Approach #2
I approached a group of 4 young girls.
Just like Roosh himself except the girls were standing at the 1:49 mark:



Low and behold they were German!
Low and behold I guessed right they were touring Australia and they were in the city until tomorrow.
They spoke good English but they had to go on their way.
Oh well next time.

Approach #3
Saw a butterface girl with big tits because I am a tits man.
Opened her and what do you know. German!
Oh well she walked off shortly and didn't feel like giving me the time of day.
Next.

Intermission. Had to get a feed.

Approach #4
Saw a redhead at the mall.
Made for the approach to try and guess if she was a student or a working professional.
An Aussie who works for the government.
Then uses the train excuse to dismiss me.
Moving on.

Approach #5
Saw a Mia Khalifa look a like girl at the train station.
She said she was waiting for friends.
Chatted up her for a bit and found out she was a student at a nearby university.
Eventually she insisted she really needed to see her friends and she bid me good day.
Bah home time.

Fin for today.
Next time approach even more aggressively if need be.

(04-15-2018 05:57 AM)Trent W. Wrote:  Got her number and texted a couple of hours later when everything else was closed in case I could get her to meet me out front. No reply.

I realised numbers are a hit or miss and should be the next option if a same day/night lay or at least an instadate is not feasible.
I don't regret it.

I've been trying to get back into the swing of actual approaching lately, struggling to wean myself off of online, the overall quality of such, having all ready been thoroughly discussed throughout several avenues of the Forum.

Simply amazing how virtually every time I simply go walk the streets or go shopping, the opportunities present themselves, leaving it up to me to respond . . .

All I aimed on doing was to get some stamps from the post office, and after doing so, as I hit the corner of the intersection, I turned to look around, and like magic, a cute & petite, light-skinned hispanic of some sort appears a mere few feet away, approaching right behind me to cross the same street. I probably showed a visible look of surprise. After a momentary scanning along the features of her body with my eyes, I blurt out an opener, simply saying 'hi', and asking her how she was doing. I then asked her name, to which she replied, 'Carla', rolling out the 'r' with a heavy accent. She wasn't wearing a bra under her polo, so the very large nipples of her small, but perky breasts pointed fiercely through the fabric.

We crossed the street as I struggled to conjure up a discussion. Seeing as how she didn't bother to ask of my name in return, and coupled with how she was trying to outpace my relaxed walking speed, I took it all as a cue that she was having none of it.

Still, one of my most enduring problems with my approaches is bailing out on it too easily. Sure, if it's apparent she's not into it, ending it could seem justified, but fuck it, keep talking until she walks on. So, in this case, as we went down the same direction for a block, she'd consistently try to walk ahead, so it was all messed up. At least I was able to really scope out her ass - perfectly showcased in her yoga-ish type pants. She looked like she could've been a dancer or something of that sort. Award-winning pantylines. God, I wanted her.

"Street game" has an interesting aspect. As you try to gauge where and when you & the woman are gonna cross streets, you gamble as to whether or not you can buy more time for the approach, or break it off, the two of you going in separate directions.

In this case, I opted to stop at the light in order to wait for the cross, hoping that she'd be going the same way, and I could try to revamp the chat as we waited, but no, she turned the corner and went on down the street on the same side.

Struggling to come up with something, I merely called out to her as she walked on, asking her to meet later today, and if I could call her. She turned just then and quickly uttered an acknowledgement, but she had long since been done with the interaction, spinning back around so that she could continue up the road, unabated.

I crossed the street, watching after her as she strutted on for a block or two. Damn, I wanted her.

(04-17-2018 06:57 PM)Mess O. Wrote:  I've been trying to get back into the swing of actual approaching lately, struggling to wean myself off of online, the overall quality of such, having all ready been thoroughly discussed throughout several avenues of the Forum.

Simply amazing how virtually every time I simply go walk the streets or go shopping, the opportunities present themselves, leaving it up to me to respond . . .

All I aimed on doing was to get some stamps from the post office, and after doing so, as I hit the corner of the intersection, I turned to look around, and like magic, a cute & petite, light-skinned hispanic of some sort appears a mere few feet away, approaching right behind me to cross the same street. I probably showed a visible look of surprise. After a momentary scanning along the features of her body with my eyes, I blurt out an opener, simply saying 'hi', and asking her how she was doing. I then asked her name, to which she replied, 'Carla', rolling out the 'r' with a heavy accent. She wasn't wearing a bra under her polo, so the very large nipples of her small, but perky breasts pointed fiercely through the fabric.

We crossed the street as I struggled to conjure up a discussion. Seeing as how she didn't bother to ask of my name in return, and coupled with how she was trying to outpace my relaxed walking speed, I took it all as a cue that she was having none of it.

Still, one of my most enduring problems with my approaches is bailing out on it too easily. Sure, if it's apparent she's not into it, ending it could seem justified, but fuck it, keep talking until she walks on. So, in this case, as we went down the same direction for a block, she'd consistently try to walk ahead, so it was all messed up. At least I was able to really scope out her ass - perfectly showcased in her yoga-ish type pants. She looked like she could've been a dancer or something of that sort. Award-winning pantylines. God, I wanted her.

"Street game" has an interesting aspect. As you try to gauge where and when you & the woman are gonna cross streets, you gamble as to whether or not you can buy more time for the approach, or break it off, the two of you going in separate directions.

In this case, I opted to stop at the light in order to wait for the cross, hoping that she'd be going the same way, and I could try to revamp the chat as we waited, but no, she turned the corner and went on down the street on the same side.

Struggling to come up with something, I merely called out to her as she walked on, asking her to meet later today, and if I could call her. She turned just then and quickly uttered an acknowledgement, but she had long since been done with the interaction, spinning back around so that she could continue up the road, unabated.

I crossed the street, watching after her as she strutted on for a block or two. Damn, I wanted her.

I think you were just not warmed up enough. First approach or two are usually a bit sluggish. Try teasing her about something next time, like "You're walking so fast, did you steal something?". Anything that will spike things up.

Damn right. You know it. What a climb to get back into this shit.

I left work today talking with a cute girl from the UK on my way home. We have been working together for the past few months, but rarely do I have the opportunity to talk with her one on one. During the walk back I bring up a class we share and I am working my way into suggesting the ol' lets study sometime bit, however just when im about to spit, some dude comes up and starts walking with us.

He saddles up next to the chick and talks about seeing her at some bar the other day. Finally after he leaves she says how much of a creeper he is and proceeds to talk about him being a stalker for the next block. I couldnt have cared less. The whole time I am trying to gain leverage in the conversation to steer it in a productive direction. When low and behold another guy comes up. This time its a coworker of ours. Hes a nice guy, but clueless.

Next thing I know the chick is saying bye and proceeds to walk away. Normally I wouldn't even write about this 'approach', but the absurdity that we had the chance to talk alone for 5 minutes and within that 5 minutes two guys pulled up to us is quite comical.

Getting close to depopulating the gym with all of my approaches. Did two tonight:

#1, chubby blonde 6 with big ass
She was lifting in the free weight section next to me so I opened her asking if her bluetooth ear phones were any good. We had a good chat, she smiled and giggled once when I mentioned how I didn't want to wear Beats headphones because they look silly and are such a fad right now. Asked her about battery life, comfort, if they work during CF workouts/running etc. She was cool and helpful, good eye contact too. I completely dropped the ball by not dropping any interesting bait during the convo aside from just BSing about headphones with her. She maintained good, flirtatious eye contact and after the convo wrapped up we maintained eye contact for a few seconds before going back to our workouts. I think she was interested.

#2, young, cute powerlifter brunette 7 with bigger, nicer ass.
I've seen this girl a couple of times before, lifting in booty shorts and canvas shoes. She looked like she is taking lifting seriously but her body isn't super muscular or developed. She walked over to where I was doing tri pushdowns, right next to this huge jacked dude. She asked the jacked dude if he was using the assisted pullup machine, and he grunted a "no". I thought, damn dude you could have chatted her up. The jacked dude kept lifting next to me and her, and I felt very intimidated to approach her with him around. It's funny because when I'm with a guy friend of mine I approach way more ballsy because I want to show off. But this guy was huuuge and I looked like such a shrimp next to him! Eventually he picked up his stuff and walked away and I made my move.
I motioned for her to take off her headphones and asked her, "are those shoes any good for lifting" (she was wearing chucks). She said "chucks? they are the best." and we chatted about the pros and cons of different shoes for squatting and lifting. She was very extroverted and talkative. She was very helpful with telling me lots of things she knows about lifting shoes. I segued into how I feel my strength training doesn't feel like it helps me in my sport very well. She asked me "what is your sport?" and I told her BJJ. She then went into good detail about how I should train for endurance so I don't burn out when grappling. She didn't ask any follow up questions so I asked her if she competed in powerlifting. She said "not yet" and didn't follow up with much.

At this point, I ran out of things to say so just went into GALNUC. I asked if she was part German and she sort of laughed and said no, not that I am aware of. I said that where I come from, there are lots of people with German ancestry and she reminded me of them. but that out here, there are very few people with that ancestry compared to back where I'm from. She did not ask any questions or take the small bait here, so I lost my confidence and, as we maintained eye contact, the convo died out. I thanked her for her advice and went back to my workout.

So this is a common theme with my approaches. Save for one spectacular approach in the gym where the girl basically threw herself at me, all of these gym approaches follow a common pattern: open, they engage, chat, I try dropping some bait, and they barely bite it or simply don't ask me any questions. I'm trying to run textbook Roosh Day Game but maybe I need to switch gears and get personal with the convo even if they haven't asked 2 personal questions to me. For example, with the 7, after I asked if she was german I could have simply guessed her actual ethnicity. But what if she doesn't get involved in the convo and ask about my own background? I feel like it would be interviewy.

Any feedback would be great to hear!

Unfortunately yesterday I was late to the gym and therefore and didn't make my approaches.
Today I had to make some quality approaches.
Gotta keep approaching to reduce the risk of Alzheimer's in the future.

Approach #1
Saw a girl standing by a bus stop.
She smiled and I smiled as I approach. What a nice first start.
"I'm gonna guess you're from Sweden!"
"Noope!"
It took me more than 10 guesses to figure out she was from Germany. Figures.
Decided to have a banter on how tourists come to Germany to drink, drink and drink and I was guilty of being one.
With these foreigners I try and suss out if she is staying here for long.
"I'm guess you will be here for a week?"
"No I will be leaving for (another city)"
Well shit she had to catch a coach in a few hours.
Oh well had to bid her good day.

Approach #2
A busy area with a loud street performance was on.
Opened a girl sitting by herself on a seat.
I successfully guessed she was French on my first go.
Of course I talked about my French tour back then.
"I am guessing you like Australia because of the warmer weather right? And dangerous animals."
and other further enquiries on why she was in Australia.
She was staying for more than a few months. Thank goodness.
"I live close to the city (in a suburb that's far away from the CBD)"
(Well look darling that's not even close to the CBD)
She was living with her friend and works Fridays and Saturdays and I figured out correctly as a waitress.
(Did the old Krauser's "I'll tell you what, you're a nice girl and (insert intention to take her out somewhere)")
She gave me her number and we went over my Western European tour which I've always wanted to go when I was younger and I did before my now love tours in the planning.
Then we parted ways.

Approach #3
Went to a variety store and opened a girl looking at some items.
Opened about how there's another variety store than seems to be similar to the one we were in.
Apparently she "didn't understand English" despite my attempts at sustaining the conversation.
I guessed "French?"
"Brazilian?"
"Yeah"
"Oh so Portugese?"
"Yeah"
And I broke it off. Not a quality interaction here.

Intermission. Feed. Offtopic: I really need to revise my daily meal plan. I also had to buy off the shelf Paracetamol to suppress my headache and started recovering.

Approach #4
Saw a nice looking girl with big tits. Alright face but nice outfit for those nice tits.
Alright looked at her with a wave because she was wearing earphones.
"I'm guessing you are studying?"
I forgot what she said in between because of those tits man.
"I thought you were cute and I just wanted to talk to you"
"It's my outfit isn't it"
"Yeah"
Well shit. Quickly changed topic within a few seconds before awkwardness could set in.
She said she was a salesperson and I talked about how I wish I went into sales and how no experience was required.
She was apparently from a small city up in Queensland. I joked how Ipswich is a shithole based on the account from dudes I met in the ADF.
Eventually after some small talk I suggested getting her number.
She was hesitant then I had to get her name
"What's your name?"
"My name's (her name)"
"My name's (JekyllAndHyde) nice to meet ya"
"Oh so your name's (JekyllAndHyde)? That's easy to remember. It's a simple as (her husband's name), my husband's name! You share the same first letter"
(Wait what? She has a husband? No wonder. She's not even that old too.)
I ran my routine to grill her a little to see if she did have a husband.
"So you're living by yourself?"
"No I work full time and my husband studies full time"
I had to go anyway and so I bid her good evening.

There goes my evening.

(04-19-2018 01:08 AM)Checkmat Wrote:  At this point, I ran out of things to say so just went into GALNUC. I asked if she was part German and she sort of laughed and said no, not that I am aware of. I said that where I come from, there are lots of people with German ancestry and she reminded me of them. but that out here, there are very few people with that ancestry compared to back where I'm from. She did not ask any questions or take the small bait here, so I lost my confidence and, as we maintained eye contact, the convo died out. I thanked her for her advice and went back to my workout.

Even after reading Bang and Day Bang as a refresher I don't recall what GANLUC stands for.
Not even Google helped unless I had not Googled hard enough.

100 Approaches on American Girls (mostly white girls) continued:

Again, I'm supplementing this with online game as it's much easier to get laid there. In the meantime, I'm searching for best quality doing daygame.

I've done a few more since my last post two pages back. I'm starting to get a little more success in terms of actually getting numbers and decent return texts. I'll be asking some of these girls out soon. I've also been lifting more and it's helping my look and, I believe, confidence as well. Here's the latest (copy pasted from my log):

16. Blonde lady in whole foods. You saw your buying coffee earlier. Then a while later you saw her by the microwave. You asked her about yoga and she gave a fake smile and her eyes flitted back and forth. She talked for a second and answered the question. She didn’t seem to want to talk so you walked off.
17. Regan – was looking at protein shakes at grocery. You asked her about them and engaged in a conversation. Chatted for 5 or so minutes. You told her she seemed cool and was cute and let’s get a drink. She said she has a boyfriend but would still be down for coffee one day. Texted her a few hours later and she texted back. I'll hit her up when I'm back in town.
18. Girl in parking lot at WFs in Austin. She was probably early 30ish. White with long blonde hair and tats on her arm. Cute. Decent conversation and she asked a few questions. She had a boyfriend. No number. She said she “liked your approach”
19. Meghan- white girl with muscular legs and shorts in WFs in Jan. Short blonde hair and from Chicago. Good convo with deep eye contact and she asked you a few questions. She was engaged. You opened her about where is there a good gym around here.
20. Hannah – cute blonde at CUPS . opened her about her laptop. Chatted and asked her places to go for fun and she mentioned a few things. At the end you said you thought she was cool and cute and asked her out. She said she had a boyfriend for a while and you said ‘sounds serious’. She asked your name when you said nice to meet you. You swapped IG’s and did see lots of pics with her and BF on her IG. She apparently blocked you right after.
21. Starbucks in Rdland- 4.17.18. Asha – only other people in there were 4 other guys aged late 20s to early 40s. She walks in and orders and waits for coffee. I watched a few of those stiffs turn their heads sneaking glances at her. She’s 5’3, slim athletic type girl with pony tail, wearing a Vandy varsity sweater. You got up to leave and pretended to check out some coffee stuff at the front. When you turned around she was noticing you. You walked past pretending to leave and glanced at her; “Hey, do you happen to know a good gym around here?” She mentioned a few and you told her you just relocated to the area and were looking around. You mentioned her accent. She asked a few questions. Good chat. While you were suggesting to meet out sometime, she was nodding her head before you even finished the sentence. You texted her and she texted back within an hour. I’ll try to set something up later today.
22. 4.18.18…. at CUPs…saw a mid 20s girl with athletic (thick) legs. She was a little thick but solid and sexy. She came to sit at a table two over from you. You made eye contact before she sat and she looked twice then away. After 30 minutes you started to leave and opened asking her if her laptop was an Air. She said yes and you asked a few questions about it. You asked about her accent and she said she was from this area. School Teacher. She flipped her hair a few times and after that was scratching her neck a little (nervous perhaps) You were feeling a little off and felt like she wasn’t feeling it so you bailed. You could have ploughed more.
23. Bridget at Barnes and Noble Jksn. 4.19.18. Shorter cute blonde girl with athletic body. She was sitting near the exit door. As you walked out you pretended to notice her laptop and said “excuse me, is that an air?” It was. You chatted about that a few minutes. She seemed pretty open. You asked her what she likes to do for fun around here and she said she studies mostly(grad student) She started looking on and off at her computer screen. You were still standing over her. You asked her name and told her it was nice to meet her. Since she didn’t ask your name, you said goodbye and started to walk off. As you did, she asked your name. So you told her and continued talking. You said you thought she was cool and cute and you’d like to grab a coffee or drink sometime. She laughed when you told her she was cute. She said okay. You sat down and entered her information. At the end, she seemed to get more serious and avoided eye contact. She was looking at her computer so I wasn’t sure if she was uninterested or shy. I texted her an hour ago and as I’m typing this she texted back a pretty enthusiastic text.
*** Thoughts – I need to build more comfort (chit chat) with these girls. Tell them a little more about me. I think some are attracted or beginning to attract but I do interactions too short ( 2 -3 minutes) Instead of a good solid 5+ minutes to give them a better idea of who I am so they’re “comfortable” returning my text and meeting me.
23 approaches - 4 numbers. 1 linkedin. 1 IG swap (she blocked you right after) 0 dates, 0 bangs. Will be trying to line up dates with Asha and Bridget in next few days. 3 solid return texts so far.

I've had better days.

Approach #1
I overheard two French girls and started chatting them up with how long they are staying and why people like going to France only to Paris.
Conversation went well until they dismissed me to get across the crossing.
Next.

Approach #2
A lone girl who revealed she spoke French.
Not long after she dropped the boyfriend line who she met in "school" and moved to Australia.
Next.

Approach #3
Tried to open a girl with "Are you Swedish?" at a shopping centre outlet.
"No" in her unknown European accent.
A quick blowout indeed.
Next.

Approach #4
I forgot how I opened this one but she had an Aussie accent at a shopping centre outlet.
"No".
A quick blowout indeed.
Next.

Approach #5
I forgot how I opened this one but she had an unknown European accent.
"No".
A quick blowout indeed.
Definitely not my day.
Next.

To night game:

Don't do this:
Approach Zulu
Random plain woman of South East Asian appearance at a bar
Me: (American accent) "I don't know if you're from the States but are you looking for a man tonight?"
Her: (Kind of stunned) "No!"



Made a few legitimate approaches and conversations with a couple of women at a bar in a social setting.
One snuck off before I could get her number.
Also a reminder why 'nightgame' can hide imperfections and reveal the advantages of 'daygame'.

(04-19-2018 04:31 PM)robreke Wrote:  1 linkedin.

Not often does it happen but a good choice.

(04-19-2018 04:31 PM)robreke Wrote:  100 Approaches on American Girls (mostly white girls) continued:

Again, I'm supplementing this with online game as it's much easier to get laid there. In the meantime, I'm searching for best quality doing daygame.

I've done a few more since my last post two pages back. I'm starting to get a little more success in terms of actually getting numbers and decent return texts. I'll be asking some of these girls out soon. I've also been lifting more and it's helping my look and, I believe, confidence as well. Here's the latest (copy pasted from my log):

16. Blonde lady in whole foods. You saw your buying coffee earlier. Then a while later you saw her by the microwave. You asked her about yoga and she gave a fake smile and her eyes flitted back and forth. She talked for a second and answered the question. She didn’t seem to want to talk so you walked off.
17. Regan – was looking at protein shakes at grocery. You asked her about them and engaged in a conversation. Chatted for 5 or so minutes. You told her she seemed cool and was cute and let’s get a drink. She said she has a boyfriend but would still be down for coffee one day. Texted her a few hours later and she texted back. I'll hit her up when I'm back in town.
18. Girl in parking lot at WFs in Austin. She was probably early 30ish. White with long blonde hair and tats on her arm. Cute. Decent conversation and she asked a few questions. She had a boyfriend. No number. She said she “liked your approach”
19. Meghan- white girl with muscular legs and shorts in WFs in Jan. Short blonde hair and from Chicago. Good convo with deep eye contact and she asked you a few questions. She was engaged. You opened her about where is there a good gym around here.
20. Hannah – cute blonde at CUPS . opened her about her laptop. Chatted and asked her places to go for fun and she mentioned a few things. At the end you said you thought she was cool and cute and asked her out. She said she had a boyfriend for a while and you said ‘sounds serious’. She asked your name when you said nice to meet you. You swapped IG’s and did see lots of pics with her and BF on her IG. She apparently blocked you right after.
21. Starbucks in Rdland- 4.17.18. Asha – only other people in there were 4 other guys aged late 20s to early 40s. She walks in and orders and waits for coffee. I watched a few of those stiffs turn their heads sneaking glances at her. She’s 5’3, slim athletic type girl with pony tail, wearing a Vandy varsity sweater. You got up to leave and pretended to check out some coffee stuff at the front. When you turned around she was noticing you. You walked past pretending to leave and glanced at her; “Hey, do you happen to know a good gym around here?” She mentioned a few and you told her you just relocated to the area and were looking around. You mentioned her accent. She asked a few questions. Good chat. While you were suggesting to meet out sometime, she was nodding her head before you even finished the sentence. You texted her and she texted back within an hour. I’ll try to set something up later today.
22. 4.18.18…. at CUPs…saw a mid 20s girl with athletic (thick) legs. She was a little thick but solid and sexy. She came to sit at a table two over from you. You made eye contact before she sat and she looked twice then away. After 30 minutes you started to leave and opened asking her if her laptop was an Air. She said yes and you asked a few questions about it. You asked about her accent and she said she was from this area. School Teacher. She flipped her hair a few times and after that was scratching her neck a little (nervous perhaps) You were feeling a little off and felt like she wasn’t feeling it so you bailed. You could have ploughed more.
23. Bridget at Barnes and Noble Jksn. 4.19.18. Shorter cute blonde girl with athletic body. She was sitting near the exit door. As you walked out you pretended to notice her laptop and said “excuse me, is that an air?” It was. You chatted about that a few minutes. She seemed pretty open. You asked her what she likes to do for fun around here and she said she studies mostly(grad student) She started looking on and off at her computer screen. You were still standing over her. You asked her name and told her it was nice to meet her. Since she didn’t ask your name, you said goodbye and started to walk off. As you did, she asked your name. So you told her and continued talking. You said you thought she was cool and cute and you’d like to grab a coffee or drink sometime. She laughed when you told her she was cute. She said okay. You sat down and entered her information. At the end, she seemed to get more serious and avoided eye contact. She was looking at her computer so I wasn’t sure if she was uninterested or shy. I texted her an hour ago and as I’m typing this she texted back a pretty enthusiastic text.
*** Thoughts – I need to build more comfort (chit chat) with these girls. Tell them a little more about me. I think some are attracted or beginning to attract but I do interactions too short ( 2 -3 minutes) Instead of a good solid 5+ minutes to give them a better idea of who I am so they’re “comfortable” returning my text and meeting me.
23 approaches - 4 numbers. 1 linkedin. 1 IG swap (she blocked you right after) 0 dates, 0 bangs. Will be trying to line up dates with Asha and Bridget in next few days. 3 solid return texts so far.

What is all with "you did that and that"?. Are you talking here in second person?

Rejection yesterday that I'm proud I went for.

Super hot girl in the gym, Colombian with massive natural tits, plump ass, and cute face. I approached her on the second floor after one of her sets on the leg press.

Me (real convo in spanish): I wanted to say hey on the first floor, but I was out of breath. You look pretty happy in the gym, with your giant headphones and singing songs to yourself.

Big Tits: Thanks.

Me: I imagine you're a student here, you look pretty young.

Big Tits: Yes, I've been living here 7 years....

Small talk continues, she's not really giving anything back, I can tell she's being polite, so I go for the flaky number close.

Me: I'm heading out, but I want to talk some more. Do you have Whatsapp?

Big Tits: No, I don't have Whatsapp.

Me: I see. But you have a cell phone, I presume.

Big Tits: No, I don't use one here, for privacy.

To game newbs: Whenever a girl "doesn't have a cell phone", or doesn't have a popular phone app, she's letting you down very nicely. The country I'm currently in EVERYONE uses Whatsapp, it's impossible that a hot girl wouldn't have that or a phone. Recognizing she wasn't having it, I threw in the towel:

Me: Ok, I understand.

I walked off, since I did all I could to game her.

I'm proud I made the approach, physically she's the exact type of girl I like, and I had the balls to make a move. It didn't work out, but that's the game, you aren't going to attract every girl in the world. Gotta get out there and find the ones who do like you!

(04-20-2018 09:10 AM)sterling_archer Wrote:  

(04-19-2018 04:31 PM)robreke Wrote:  100 Approaches on American Girls (mostly white girls) continued:

Again, I'm supplementing this with online game as it's much easier to get laid there. In the meantime, I'm searching for best quality doing daygame.

I've done a few more since my last post two pages back. I'm starting to get a little more success in terms of actually getting numbers and decent return texts. I'll be asking some of these girls out soon. I've also been lifting more and it's helping my look and, I believe, confidence as well. Here's the latest (copy pasted from my log):

16. Blonde lady in whole foods. You saw your buying coffee earlier. Then a while later you saw her by the microwave. You asked her about yoga and she gave a fake smile and her eyes flitted back and forth. She talked for a second and answered the question. She didn’t seem to want to talk so you walked off.
17. Regan – was looking at protein shakes at grocery. You asked her about them and engaged in a conversation. Chatted for 5 or so minutes. You told her she seemed cool and was cute and let’s get a drink. She said she has a boyfriend but would still be down for coffee one day. Texted her a few hours later and she texted back. I'll hit her up when I'm back in town.
18. Girl in parking lot at WFs in Austin. She was probably early 30ish. White with long blonde hair and tats on her arm. Cute. Decent conversation and she asked a few questions. She had a boyfriend. No number. She said she “liked your approach”
19. Meghan- white girl with muscular legs and shorts in WFs in Jan. Short blonde hair and from Chicago. Good convo with deep eye contact and she asked you a few questions. She was engaged. You opened her about where is there a good gym around here.
20. Hannah – cute blonde at CUPS . opened her about her laptop. Chatted and asked her places to go for fun and she mentioned a few things. At the end you said you thought she was cool and cute and asked her out. She said she had a boyfriend for a while and you said ‘sounds serious’. She asked your name when you said nice to meet you. You swapped IG’s and did see lots of pics with her and BF on her IG. She apparently blocked you right after.
21. Starbucks in Rdland- 4.17.18. Asha – only other people in there were 4 other guys aged late 20s to early 40s. She walks in and orders and waits for coffee. I watched a few of those stiffs turn their heads sneaking glances at her. She’s 5’3, slim athletic type girl with pony tail, wearing a Vandy varsity sweater. You got up to leave and pretended to check out some coffee stuff at the front. When you turned around she was noticing you. You walked past pretending to leave and glanced at her; “Hey, do you happen to know a good gym around here?” She mentioned a few and you told her you just relocated to the area and were looking around. You mentioned her accent. She asked a few questions. Good chat. While you were suggesting to meet out sometime, she was nodding her head before you even finished the sentence. You texted her and she texted back within an hour. I’ll try to set something up later today.
22. 4.18.18…. at CUPs…saw a mid 20s girl with athletic (thick) legs. She was a little thick but solid and sexy. She came to sit at a table two over from you. You made eye contact before she sat and she looked twice then away. After 30 minutes you started to leave and opened asking her if her laptop was an Air. She said yes and you asked a few questions about it. You asked about her accent and she said she was from this area. School Teacher. She flipped her hair a few times and after that was scratching her neck a little (nervous perhaps) You were feeling a little off and felt like she wasn’t feeling it so you bailed. You could have ploughed more.
23. Bridget at Barnes and Noble Jksn. 4.19.18. Shorter cute blonde girl with athletic body. She was sitting near the exit door. As you walked out you pretended to notice her laptop and said “excuse me, is that an air?” It was. You chatted about that a few minutes. She seemed pretty open. You asked her what she likes to do for fun around here and she said she studies mostly(grad student) She started looking on and off at her computer screen. You were still standing over her. You asked her name and told her it was nice to meet her. Since she didn’t ask your name, you said goodbye and started to walk off. As you did, she asked your name. So you told her and continued talking. You said you thought she was cool and cute and you’d like to grab a coffee or drink sometime. She laughed when you told her she was cute. She said okay. You sat down and entered her information. At the end, she seemed to get more serious and avoided eye contact. She was looking at her computer so I wasn’t sure if she was uninterested or shy. I texted her an hour ago and as I’m typing this she texted back a pretty enthusiastic text.
*** Thoughts – I need to build more comfort (chit chat) with these girls. Tell them a little more about me. I think some are attracted or beginning to attract but I do interactions too short ( 2 -3 minutes) Instead of a good solid 5+ minutes to give them a better idea of who I am so they’re “comfortable” returning my text and meeting me.
23 approaches - 4 numbers. 1 linkedin. 1 IG swap (she blocked you right after) 0 dates, 0 bangs. Will be trying to line up dates with Asha and Bridget in next few days. 3 solid return texts so far.

What is all with "you did that and that"?. Are you talking here in second person?

Yes, I copied this from my personal log. So when I say "you walked by her and asked about her laptop" it means me, the author. In other words it means:

"robreke walked by her and asked about her laptop"

(04-20-2018 08:53 AM)JekyllAndHyde Wrote:  I've had better days.

Approach #1
I overheard two French girls and started chatting them up with how long they are staying and why people like going to France only to Paris.
Conversation went well until they dismissed me to get across the crossing.
Next.

Approach #2
A lone girl who revealed she spoke French.
Not long after she dropped the boyfriend line who she met in "school" and moved to Australia.
Next.

Approach #3
Tried to open a girl with "Are you Swedish?" at a shopping centre outlet.
"No" in her unknown European accent.
A quick blowout indeed.
Next.

Approach #4
I forgot how I opened this one but she had an Aussie accent at a shopping centre outlet.
"No".
A quick blowout indeed.
Next.

Approach #5
I forgot how I opened this one but she had an unknown European accent.
"No".
A quick blowout indeed.
Definitely not my day.
Next.

To night game:

Don't do this:
Approach Zulu
Random plain woman of South East Asian appearance at a bar
Me: (American accent) "I don't know if you're from the States but are you looking for a man tonight?"
Her: (Kind of stunned) "No!"



Made a few legitimate approaches and conversations with a couple of women at a bar in a social setting.
One snuck off before I could get her number.
Also a reminder why 'nightgame' can hide imperfections and reveal the advantages of 'daygame'.

(04-19-2018 04:31 PM)robreke Wrote:  1 linkedin.

Not often does it happen but a good choice.

Hey mate, you might want to have a look through bizet's daygame log in the newbie section. He's been out there in Melbourne doing pretty well, might get some inspiration for you.

It’s Saturday and I was able to game around the clock.

First started at a suburban shopping centre where I needed to buy groceries.

Approach #1
A heavily tanned dirty blonde.
I conveniently ended up at the escalators after her and opened with “you look like you just went to the beach”. She said “yeah just this morning too” in an Aussie accent and went off 90 degrees and it died there.

Approach #2
I saw a cute girl of Balkan appearance. Opened here and had a pleasant interaction and she was a local. Discussed how the local infamous nightclub isn’t as big as it used to be 10 years ago. Went on my clichéd routine on what she is studying. Eventually she decided that it was time to go and meet her mum. I let her go there.
I really should have pushed harder.

I wouldn’t be surprised if experienced players on and off RVF would joke I should commit seppuku for such shithouse attempts at not pushing for contact details.

Intermission as dinner and pre-drinks then transit into the city centre to start early evening street game.

Approach #3
Saw a cute girl approaching my way with shopping bags. I opened with “Hi”. I got completely ignored. I moved on very quickly.

Approach #4
I started talking to a girl who was using a notepad to write. If I recall correctly I joked how she is on a break just outside the store we were in front of and not going somewhere else. Not long after she said she was going to go get dinner soon and off she went.

Approach #5
Saw two French girls who got a bit wet from a car driving near a kerb with a puddle of water. I used that as a conversation starter and queried why they were in Australia and how they are liking it. Not long after I suggested getting their contact details but they occasionally spoke to each other in French. I pushed a little to try and get contact details of some sort and they made excuses. Then I bid them good evening.

Approach #6
I saw a cute blond girl sitting by herself at a retail complex. I ran my clichéd routine on where she is from and once again she was German. I was pleased to hear she has been to more parts of China than I have and continued part of the conversation on the presence of Asian dudes here and there and what she thinks of Australia. It was a pleasant interaction and I wanted to find out what she was doing later but she had to meet a friend for dinner so no insta-date opportunity. I went direct and thought she was cute and we should hang out. She was hesitant to give me her contact details but I pushed a little and got her Facebook.

Pub crawl begins. I tend not to count night game as I make far more approaches there for various reasons but Approach #7 was worth it.

Approach #7
She was very pleasant. She told me she was an American from North Carolina. Talked about travels and how she is American and she must have a Californian Driver’s Licence as it’s a meme here on RVF to indicate you are an American (I make no mention of RVF to her so don’t worry) the way I see it. I like how she has travelled across South-East Asia and is looking forward to East Asia. By the end of the night I got her WhatsApp details. I should have escalated but wasn’t in the mood.

Pub crawl finished and it’s the dead of the night. Midnight street evening or gutter game as you call it begins.

Approach #8
Saw a thin woman who is in bad shape.
Me: “You right there?”
Her: “Yeah waiting for a taxi”.
The interaction ceased there.

I pretended to be fairly intoxicated when I am actually on full alert like I had during the day. Please don’t do this. Meanwhile at one drink per hour and with the last drink being my fourth one at 1AM in the morning I'm not surprised I am still sober.

Approach #9
I went indirect and asked two girls where the night buses are. They pointed in a particular direction and in an Aussie accent mentioned and I commented how it is a shame it’s that way. They made some sarcastic remarks. No point continuing the interaction.

Approach #10
I also went indirect and asked two girls “Do yous know where the toilet is?”. They don’t know where either and just kept walking ahead across the intersection and the interaction ceased there.

Approach #11
Approached a group of three girls and a dude also where the toilet is. One suggested a MacDonalds and they continued to talk with each other.
I should not use the toilet opener ever again.

Approach #12
Saw a blonde girl sitting on a bench with toothpaste. Went indirect and asked for which bus goes to the suburb I live in. She pointed in a particular direction. I then steered the conversation into her talking about herself as soon as I heard a foreign accent and low and behold she was German.
A Middle-Eastern white knight dickhead came in to intervene. Asked what was going on and I played the façade of wondering which bus I need to catch and he put it into Google Maps. As you normally do to verify if he is the boyfriend I asked the girl if she knew him and white knight claimed they were best friends since school. I knew right away it was absolutely bullshit as he had a local Aussie accent and she had a German accent. I walked off to the direction they suggested. She commented I will never find the way as I still played the act of being somewhat intoxicated as I left. The white knight left on his own shortly after. I learnt my lesson that next time I will properly deal with or at least ignore white knights.

I dropped all my acts completely and behaved normally.

Approach #13
I saw a blonde petite girl sitting by herself at a bus stop. I asked her if there are any buses going in a particular direction and she complied. Then out of nowhere a random moron came up to her and asked for her phone because he apparently lost his phone. This delayed my interaction with her. He made three calls from her phone to his phone and on the last call someone picked up and he uttered “The police have my phone”. He then gave the phone back to her and he pissed off not to return. Thank goodness and I could resume my interaction with her. I joked how there are so many Germans in Australia and she was wondering why as well. Just as I was about to ask for her contact details a bus came and she wanted to double check it was hers. She went to ask the bus driver if it went to her direction. It did and asked me to come on board the bus. I obliged as I was persistent in getting her contact details to finish the night. Eventually she gave me her Facebook and accepted my request right away. Lots of bikini pictures at beaches and near coastlines with hashtags and so this is what I will be up for. I then got off at the next bus stop which is where my actual bus stops before it goes in a completely different direction to where I need to go and bid her good night. I got on the right bus home.

No approaches today as I did sports for a fair chunk of the day.

(04-21-2018 03:24 AM)Bluey Wrote:  Hey mate, you might want to have a look through bizet's daygame log in the newbie section. He's been out there in Melbourne doing pretty well, might get some inspiration for you.

I thought it was in the Game sub-forum but didn't realise it is actually in the Newbie sub-forum. He seems to be doing pretty well from a quick glance. It will make for a great read for daygame adventures in Australia.

Opened 2 stunning blonde girls with my friend near the dancefloor. 8.5's

They were Lithuanian, but their reaction was just how you imagine some stereotypical 10/10 in LA might be, Utter contempt lol! Sort of like they were Royalty.

Opened with a quick observation about her. She Looked at me like a scientist looking at a new cell under a microscope. Quickly decided to flip tactics and paid her a compliment. Same reaction. Teased her about being so serious. Same reaction. My friend was getting the exact same stuff from the other girl which actually made me laugh inside and made this painful exchange much less painful! lol (Nice to be getting killed in battle with your fellow soldiers than my yourself!)

I remembered a JulienRSD vid where some hot LA girl was doing this exact thing to him, and I decided to steal his lines that he used in the video, so I said ''Stop trying so hard! Be normal!'' It actually 'kind of' worked in that it got her to talk back (a tiny bit), but she still wasn't giving me anything. I used another of his lines and said something like ''Imagine it's Christmas morning and you just got the toy you've been wating all year for!!'' and she smiled and told her friend (who was still ignoring my friend) what i'd said. I asked her some questions about herself which she answered in the shortest possible way each time, whilst simultaneously scanning the room. We both gave up after about a few minutes (which felt like about an hour!)

Had a house viewing for next year, it was me, one guy and two girls who arrived to see this accomodation. One of the girls was a 9/10 (I would say 10 but I would get grilled by the forum) I hear her name sounds Italian, she's wearing knee socks and a tight skirt so you can see her legs and ass, had blonde highlights and green eyes with a model face. I could not believe my eyes, approach anxiety started to come in. I take pictures of the rooms and after the tour ends I approach her and say you must be Italian? She says yes she's from Torino (where I will study this year) and I walk her to her lecture. She mentioned her boyfriend twice, I got her IG.

I need to get around this boyfriend roadblock because he is in Italy, I need a way to meet her again. I was also tired and my game was sloppier than usual but this is a reminder that you may see a 9 at the most unexpected times so always be on your game.

Approach A1 to A2 were from my approaches yesterday as I went through a shopping centre on my way to sports training.

Approach A1
Spotted a local office worker walking at a fairly brisk pace, face is meh but had massive tits. I opened her with what is over in the other direction. She explained there were cafes and other shops. Not long after she was pretty hesitant to continue and told me she had a meeting to go to. It was almost end of office hours and she went on her way.

Approach A2
I saw a girl wearing a Nike long sleeve top, leggings and Nike sneakers. Definitely the eshays girl look.
“Are you a representative for Nike?” I asked.
“No” in an Aussie accent.
Then she went on about justifying her choice of clothing by saying she needs to do a bit of fair bit of moving around. I think the interaction went for under a minute when she told me her bus came.
I had to think fast and thought I should ask for her Instagram.
She gave me her Instagram username and it was much easier to get her Instagram username which consisted of her first name and last name which is quicker than 10 digits from a mobile number so she got on the bus on time.


Approaches B1 to B5 were from my approaches today on my way to and then and after gym and dinner.

Approach B1
I spotted a medium blonde girl with glasses.
“Is it busy around (this area)?”
“Yes”
A bit of rambling later I asked where she was from and said Yorkshire (UK).
Made claims I’d like to visit the UK again which is only partially true because I hear English girls are kind of easy but the quality is questionable and if I moved there for full time work I have Europe on my doorstep for weekend jaunts.
Her body language wasn’t great, she was looking at me but her body was facing the other way.
“I have to go home” then she went on her way.

Approach B2
I saw two girls coming my way.
“Hey girls! Are yous both French?”
“No. Spanish.” Said one of them.
They went on about how they are in Australia for studying for 5 months and not long after they mentioned it is their last day here.
I guessed they were from Barcelona and I was right.
“Yeah I like drinking” I said along with other clichéd topics alongside travel and education as my usual ramblers.
I convinced them both to give me their Instagrams to play the long game when I go to Europe again.
Then we both went on our ways.

Approach B3
I was vaulting over a low stone wall from a park to a bus stop when a girl who was pretty average, wearing typical bogan clothing gave me weird looks.
“What?” I looked at her with a sarcastic smile. “It’s all good” I tried to reassure her.
“I don’t want to talk to you. Sorry” she replied.

Off I went.

Approach B4
A tanned girl was walking by and I simply just tried to say “Hi”.
After a quick glance she kept on walking so nothing there.

Finally made it to the gym. Then after gym and dinner:

Approach B5
I saw two girls in workout clothing at a food court.
“Are yous workout partners?” I said.
“Yes” then they walked the other way and ordered food.

End of the day.

Writing style is similar to 30 Bangs which I have finished reading and Poosy Paradise which I am almost finished by Roosh.

Excuse my vernacular “yous”. It’s how I sometimes talk in informal everyday situations.
6:56 mark for an example but without the nervousness.

(04-19-2018 04:31 PM)robreke Wrote:  100 Approaches on American Girls (mostly white girls) continued:

Good stuff, like to read the specific dialogue. Getting back into it for spring and it's helpful to see what other people are coming up with in everyday situations to train the brain to react more quickly. Are you travelling for a lot of these and thus the gym question?

(04-19-2018 01:08 AM)Checkmat Wrote:  She asked me "what is your sport?" and I told her BJJ. She then went into good detail about how I should train for endurance so I don't burn out when grappling. She didn't ask any follow up questions so I asked her if she competed in powerlifting. She said "not yet" and didn't follow up with much.

At this point, I ran out of things to say so just went into GALNUC. I asked if she was part German and she sort of laughed and said no, not that I am aware of. I said that where I come from, there are lots of people with German ancestry and she reminded me of them. but that out here, there are very few people with that ancestry compared to back where I'm from. She did not ask any questions or take the small bait here, so I lost my confidence and, as we maintained eye contact, the convo died out. I thanked her for her advice and went back to my workout.
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Any feedback would be great to hear!

Props on the gym approaches, those are tough, for me at least. On the convo, at least how it's written it seems like she was more leading and you were chasing. For example giving detailed training advice to you instead of you demonstrating value to her, followed by back to back questions. Could've followed with something like "Yea I've won more bouts than I've lost recently for sure but the last loss was because I got winded. But you should've seen the other guy!" with a smile and upnod. Or something else to lighten it up and make her smile. The bait at the end was a bit too transparent and unnatural seeming. The goal should be more to have conversational threads, not inducing her to ask specific GALNUC questions back. "You kinda remind me of my friend's younger sister. Are you German?" No "Damn still looking for someone who can cook me a decent weinershnitzel out here". Or whatever. Transferring it to personal topics on your own with statements rather than questions, and who doesn't like to talk about food. That's my take anyway.

First approach in a while yesterday, trying to break off the rust. At a mall, walking through the food court and saw a thin hottie with a great ass wearing heels, in line at a counter. Walked by, got a coffee and saw her at a table eating, sat nearby and sent a quick email then opened with "How's lunch here?" or something like that. She liked it, I said I was tempted but trying to hold off for something healthier. Talked about what we were each doing there, winter sports, things around town. I thought she might be on lunch break but didn't work there. Closed with something like "Want to trade some more area knowledge sometime?" Got a number, texted a few hours later when I got home. No text back, was a little nervous at the close, probably came across but I'll try a restart in a few days and try to get some more in, in the meantime.

(04-20-2018 09:55 AM)KeepMovingForward Wrote:  Rejection yesterday that I'm proud I went for.

Super hot girl in the gym, Colombian with massive natural tits, plump ass, and cute face. I approached her on the second floor after one of her sets on the leg press.

Me (real convo in spanish): I wanted to say hey on the first floor, but I was out of breath. You look pretty happy in the gym, with your giant headphones and singing songs to yourself.

Big Tits: Thanks.

Me: I imagine you're a student here, you look pretty young.

Big Tits: Yes, I've been living here 7 years....

Small talk continues, she's not really giving anything back, I can tell she's being polite, so I go for the flaky number close.

Me: I'm heading out, but I want to talk some more. Do you have Whatsapp?

Big Tits: No, I don't have Whatsapp.

Me: I see. But you have a cell phone, I presume.

Big Tits: No, I don't use one here, for privacy.

To game newbs: Whenever a girl "doesn't have a cell phone", or doesn't have a popular phone app, she's letting you down very nicely. The country I'm currently in EVERYONE uses Whatsapp, it's impossible that a hot girl wouldn't have that or a phone. Recognizing she wasn't having it, I threw in the towel:

Me: Ok, I understand.

I walked off, since I did all I could to game her.

I'm proud I made the approach, physically she's the exact type of girl I like, and I had the balls to make a move. It didn't work out, but that's the game, you aren't going to attract every girl in the world. Gotta get out there and find the ones who do like you!

I would have probably left out the fact you were watching her (more like stalking in a hot girl's mind) on the first floor. Aside from being too direct it struck me as unnatural to mention so many extraneous details. It's general consensus that it's much better to start out very indirect in the gym, especially in Latin America to avoid the immediate shield. Latino guys can be so aggro that even the gym can feel a bit like a nightclub for hot girls, hence the reason they wear prop sized headphones. An Argentine girlfriend once told me she and her friends avoid the free weight section because they get shamelessly harassed.

If a girl is giving stone cold nothing I'd just pull back and settle for a cordial parting and maybe her first name, especially if she is in the gym a lot. The guys that know all of the hot girls almost always run elderly game with everyone and slowly build friendships and acquaintances. Leveraging some comfort and a bit of social status if possible certainly can't hurt and probably creates a lot more leads than a super thinly veiled direct approach.

Approach #1:

Night out but lost my friends. See a girl standing alone at a table who also lost her friends. Approach and ask whether she has any friends or if she likes it to go out alone. We fool around a little a bit and a few minutes later I go for the kiss. After we make out for a couple of minutes she suddenly sees her friends and runs to them enthousiastically. We lost each other in the crowd since there were probably 1500 people there that night

Approach #2:

Order cheese croquettes at the uni canteen. Staff woman says it will take a minute before they're ready. Turn sideways and open up the two girls waiting behind me, telling them we'll have to wait. They say it's okay, so I reply the croquettes will be extra tasty because we had to wait for them. The conversation ended there but made intense eye contact with one of the girls.

Just finished reading Poosy Paradise and without spoiling it, it gives me another reason to continue gaming for a long time.
Time to make some approaches.

Approach #1:
Tried to open a girl just about to walk past. She looks momentarily and continues walking on.

Approach #2:
Waited around a bus stop and spotted a woman with nice tits. I waited a little moment to see if she got off the phone quick enough and soon enough she did. I made my approach.
I found out she is a local Aussie who works retail. Unfortunately the interaction ended prematurely as she told me her bus arrived right there and then and said “See ya” and went for it quite quickly. Unlike a few days ago I didn’t have enough time to get anything.

Approach #3:
Tried to open a girl just about to walk past. She looks and continues walking on.
(What a waste of an approach, I should have ignored her and instead approached the other 2 girls ahead who were about 10 metres ahead and one of them was a black girl with large tits. They are rare but I don’t spam approach despite the temptation)

Approach #4:
I saw a redhead waiting at an intersection.
Had my suspicions that girls waiting at a spot would have a boyfriend but I wouldn’t know unless I made the approach and so I did.
I found out she was studying music at some conservatorium and told her briefly where I work.
Not long after she said that her boyfriend is waiting and pointed in the general direction where he is.
“No worries have a good one”.
Then I went off.
Still worth the approach.

Approach #5
I went into a store and overhead two girls who weren’t locals. I approached one of them who was straying away. I found out she was from Adelaide.
I commented how Adelaide girls were the prettiest around the country.
Things weren’t looking good she started walking away slowly.
She said she’s biased and reckons the best girls are from Queensland.
Then she walked away completely ending the interaction right there.

Approach #6
I went into a bookstore and there were average to below average looking girls waiting near a table that looks like a major book signing event.
I wandered around a bit. I was about to open a blonde girl but a Latina looking girl got in the way.
That’s OK I opened the Latina looking one instead.
She moved to Australia from Venezuela and has gained Permanent Residency. I told her I liked to travel around the world and she said don’t go to Latin America.
(I think a player operating there may beg to differ)
The author for the event came and there was silence.
I lowered my voice a lot and told her I was about to go.
She said it would take an hour and it’s not worthwhile hanging around.
I asked for her number and made a a bit more small talk before going on my way.

Approach #7:
I went to a train station and found a girl sitting by a bench.
I began talking about the beach one of the train lines go to.
I found out she was Dutch and talked about the tourists who go there to smoke weed and how she is spending time in Australia amongst other things.
I tried to ask for her number and she declined and so I moved on home.

Was out with a university friend for lunch in the morning and I see two girls, one looking Spanish one looking Indian, both smoking cigarrettes. I pass them and walk on and I tell my friend im going to approach them and he starts to think I am crazy and how can you do that.

I ask them where the best food is and where they are from, they said from Czech, I say dobry den (good morning in Czech) and they start laughing. This approach caught them off guard especially so early in the day. They stop speaking english to me so I just say bye. I really need to start approaching in my city more, no one is doing it.

Gotta make approaches despite lesser quality and quantity today.
Really there needs to be warning signs about bushpigs in abundance at any international Australian airport arrivals.
On the other hand my biggest gripe is while I appreciate some older women do try to keep thin and healthy they’re kinda too old for my liking. Really deceptive when I am about to approach and see sultana heads with wigs.
It’s smartphone Fridays.

Approach #1:
Started chatting up two girls sitting on a park bench.
Opened her on the standard “you look better than the average chick here”
She keeps rolling eyes.
“Thanks”
She keeps rolling her eyes and if you read her body language she was not interested in interacting any further.
I stopped talking and moved on.

Approach #2:
Found a girl playing with her phone outside a store window.
I kept guessing where she was from Western Europe and Northern Europe and told me she was Swedish.
While I kept talking she could not stop playing with her phone.
All I remember was she was in my city for only 2 more days.
I suggested we go get a drink, then I tried to talk her into giving her number or Instagram.
Failing all that I moved on.

Approach #3:
I rested on a large couch within a shopping centre.
Two girls were talking to each other in Spanish and playing with their smartphones.
I guessed if they were from Latin America but both were actually from Spain.
They worked at the store nearby and are on a break.
They kept playing with their smartphones for a while.
I asked what their typical Fridays involved.
“Just sleeping. Tired”
I suggested why not get some drinks.
“Sometimes we do but not today.”
Back to their smartphones and I got up and left.

Approach #4:
I saw a different redhead.
I told her she looked like someone I know.
I asked if she did cosplay.
“I did once…”
A bit more taking to get the ball rolling then:
“What was the point of this conversation?”

I told her have a good day and I moved on.


A while later


Approach #5
I went and approached a girl sitting at a bus stop.
Leggings. Tattoos. Lip gloss.
I went with the indirect on whether she was heading off to a certain direction.
I noticed she has an American accent.
The old lady next to her tried to help and it’s very nice of her but I’d wish she would shut the fuck up even though she doesn’t realise I’m going indirect on this girl.
The American girl actually looked up a bus route and the old lady still would not shut the fuck up about the bus route in the same direction.
Then I went on to ask if she was actually American and she revealed she was from the southern part of USA and lived in Australia for 6 years. The old lady stopped talking and moved on for whatever reason.
The bus I needed came and she told me.
I completely switched from indirect to direct and went “I’d like to get to know you sometime”.
Then she went “It’s very brave of you to chat me up like that thank you but I’m seeing someone right now”
(Yep thanks I’ve made hundreds of approaches in my lifetime)
“Well that’s a shame”
(Is it just me or American girls have been very polite? They get a lot of bad rep here weight issues aside)
“Nice to meet you, see ya.”
“See ya”
That’s it for today.

(04-26-2018 01:36 PM)Mikestar Wrote:  I really need to start approaching in my city more, no one is doing it.

Takes real balls or cojones.
I'm not always in the mood to compete amongst hundreds and thousands of cocks on Tinder or fight over the scraps in nightclubs with shit ratios.
I thought my city would be flooded with PUAs like the numerous reports I receive about Kiev in Ukraine but it's not the case. Low competition on the streets where I am but generally low quality.
But I must keep approaching any nice looking girl or make a little allowance for women with massive jugs.

(04-27-2018 08:20 AM)JekyllAndHyde Wrote:  [...]

Takes real balls or cojones.
I'm not always in the mood to compete amongst hundreds and thousands of cocks on Tinder or fight over the scraps in nightclubs with shit ratios.
I thought my city would be flooded with PUAs like the numerous reports I receive about Kiev in Ukraine but it's not the case. Low competition on the streets where I am but generally low quality.
But I must keep approaching any nice looking girl or make a little allowance for women with massive jugs.

100% agree on that it takes balls. Approaching during the day is something most men will never do, much less do it consistently (I don't think I am the only one that is working towards being more consistent). Kudos for that.

One question though, are you getting better at approaching? Do you analyze your approaches and take the "feedback" that's given to you in order to improve? Are you closing? It seems that you are doing fine in regard to volume of approaches so I think you should focus on making some of them count.

(04-27-2018 08:20 AM)JekyllAndHyde Wrote:  Is it just me or American girls have been very polite? They get a lot of bad rep here weight issues aside

My experience with American girls is that they are like about 50 times friendlier and easier to 'hook' than UK girls. I'm so very jealous of Americans in that regard!
Little things like walking up too an American girl and being like ''Hi, I'm Jack'' and extending your hand. She'll always shake it and give her name. She might even ask you a question.

With a UK girl if you walk up to her and say ''Hi, I'm Jack'' she will look at you like you are nuts! lol. Just wide eyed confusion. And she will definitely NOT just volunteer her own name. I struggle BIG TIME to hook UK girls, even with Night Game.

It's just the whole culture of talking to strangers that seems prevalent in the US, I guess