Post: #1

Roosh used this Seinfeld term to describe women who can endure extended celibacy. One of the sluttier twenty-somethings I knew in grad school once shocked herself by having a six-month sexual dry spell. I think it this common in middle-aged women.

I asked two middle-aged dates "When did you last have a boyfriend?" followed by Roosh's classic "When was your last intimate date?". One answered three years ago, and one answered eight months ago. I tend to believe them, although they may have been easier in their youth. Even if they lied a little, they still had long dry patches.

A demanding school or career is a good excuse for temporary celibacy. A weird work schedule, a relocation, or remote locale also makes it difficult to find mates. This is especially true if the woman lacks flirting skills. But save me from picky, undersexed dinner whores. I don't want delusional middle-aged women who believe they deserve dinner, flowers, and exclusivity for ten dates before sex.

Roosh's line is great. Does anybody else use screening tricks to eliminate time-wasters?

Post: #2

screening/qualification is the true name of my game. it's sooo huge. to me easily the most underestimated key to the kingdom in PU. i have no idea why so many guys totally ignore it and stick to gaming/chasing/trying to get chicks they shouldn't even acknowledge.

to me the whole purpose of an approach itself is to find out if we (me and her) go along together and that's it. there's no trying hook the set. no sign of chasing whatsoever. only exploring options to see who's who and what's what. complete buyer's frame baby

and it's not even technique or tactic as it may sound. i simply know my taste, i know what kind of chicks i like (and don't like) the most, looks & personality wise, so i just want to see what is she like. the second you see the deal breaker trait you stop focusing on the girl. ask Distant Light, he got the same attitude

to me there's no other way actually. i can't follow up with chicks i don't click with and in fact why would i need to? there's no point since i know girls who already like me. this way i can surround myelf with people i like and find attractive instead of trying to make them like me. it's like shopping.. i see what's on the market and pick things i like the most.

my pickup blueprint can be defined as "who the fuck are you?" and it looks like that:
expressing interest > screening > focusing on receptive girls > not fucking it up

Post: #3

I screen girls by asking them their masturbation habits. If they get offended, they are not DTF. If they say they don't do it, then they are not DTF. If they at least admit to doing it by saying stuff like "everybody does it" or "not that often", then they are DTF. Gotta build comfort first, though.
Hasn't failed me yet.

Post: #4

(06-29-2012 05:10 AM)anewtypedude Wrote:  I screen girls by asking them their masturbation habits.

In my experience, sexual camels aren't celibate. They're just doing the girl equivalent of becoming addicted to video games and masturbating a lot.

You ask them how they've been spending their time during their supposedly celibate period and it's lots of "watching videos", "reading books" or other solitary activity. They've morphed into Good Vibration shut-ins who are addicted to crappy third-rate replacements for sex that never fulfill.

The hard part is just getting physically proximity, all sorts of resistance to getting physically close. Because kissing, touching is forgotten by them. But once you start stroking their crotch through their jeans, you're doing something familiar and they melt after that.

The really inept ones will try to have sex in the exact same position they masturbate in. Like the girls who yiff off face down sliding their clit across the edge of the bed mattress, one leg on the headboard, one leg on the floor, rocking up and down until they rub themselves off. There is no physical way for you to connect with her in this. You need to take control and direct them into positions more... participatory. You will have to teach them how to have sex instead of just masturbate.

It's a PITA that distracts you from enjoying it much yourself. The things we do as public service.

You should also feel comfortable demanding they abstain from masturbating before seeing you. When they show up acting put-upon, uninterested, or other bad attitude, ask her flat out, "Did you jill off today?" She'll say blah-blah-blah, and regardless, tell her "Don't. I want you to save that energy for me."

Post: #5

I don't ask anything. I just see how far I can get on the first date, meet up or whatever. I don't even bother with 2nd or 3rd dates unless I really want that ass bad or didn't push hard enough the first time.

Post: #6

(07-03-2012 03:00 AM)houston Wrote:  I don't ask anything. I just see how far I can get on the first date, meet up or whatever. I don't even bother with 2nd or 3rd dates unless I really want that ass bad or didn't push hard enough the first time.

This is exactly how I go about it. I do very little screening. If a girl passes the boner test and is down to hang out, I hang out with her and go for the bang. If I'm genuinely attracted to her and she's not too much trouble, I'll try maybe a second time.

I wonder if things would be better if I started incorporating some kind of screening. Of course in DC, screening just seems like a luxury.

Post: #7

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