Post: #1

So, I went out with this chick (8). We both just graudated high school. And she's going to college for the summer tomorrow. Today was litterally the only day since we graduated we could go out. So I figured I could easily score a going away bang. Took her to a local nature reserve, and showed her some rapids. All in all in good conversations, and no akward moments. So I took her to her home, and closed with a kiss. Didn't even ask to go in because he parents were home. Pulled back and she asks me to come inside, naturally I agreed. Maybe her parents just didn't care. So I walk in and her mom, dad, and older brother are all in the living room watching tv. And she introduces me to them. I make a few jokes and talk to the mom a bit, asked if she could show me her room, since she's packing it's litterally trashed and there was no way I was getting in. Whatever. We walked back outside. Kissed again, and I went home shaking my head. I get home, and an hour later she starts texting me agian, about how she's so glad we hung out today, and she can't wait till she comes back home to see me again (she comes back in town in three weeks). Ok cool. Then she starts texting me about irrelevant shit, like how her mom is mad at her because she lost something or another. And that we should skype tonight. I said I was tired and I'll hit her up later. But unless you can get head via skype I'm kinda feeling like I'm in the weird and I think rare early boyfriend zone to her.

What do you think? What would you have done to get the bang and/or what you do post date. Note: she is a party girl. And I mean party hard, which is why this kind of unexpected. I don't want to completely stiff arm her for three weeks, but at the same time... wtf do you think this is?
Also boyfriend zoned stories welcomed.

Post: #2

well isn't it obvious because you did outdoor stuff with her?
I can't imagine going hiking with a chick and go to her house for a bang.

I would try to meet her at the bar or house party next time.....

Post: #3

House party ok, but we're 18.

Post: #4

Yeah, the nature thing probably got her thinking you're a quality guy, and if that's the case, so what? Let her think what she wants. Go for the bang. If she wants to BF zone you, just be honest and tell her you're just looking for fun, unless she's GF material.

Most guys probably get her drunk and treat her like shit. You took her out for a nice nature hike, so you're probably in a different category. This is not necessarily a bad thing.

If she's texting you, just stay aloof and keep her attraction high. You'll get the bang in no time and then the ball will really be in your court. At that point you should ask yourself, what do you want?