Post: #1

I come across women everyday for work in which interact with them anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour even more at times. Everytime I mention I have a girlfriend I feel that women either get jelous or there interest level goes up I'd say this seems to happen 9/10 times I mention I have a girlfreind, I just dont know where to take it aftet that since most women get akward, how do I position it and where do I take it after that, I know there has to be advantages with this, anyone the expert with this?

Post: #2

There's a chance that you might be imagining this. Guys who mention they have girlfriends tend to sound real excited about having a girlfriend, which implies a certain neediness. I've yet to witness a smooth instance of a guy dropping the fact that he has a girlfriend. Being seen with a good-looking woman is another story.

Post: #3

For instance, I just had a woman who was being super flirtatious and yapping away but would keep mentioning her husband from time to time, then calling him an asshole, I had to mention the g.f. She changed her attitude completely said that I wad hard to make crack a smile. This seems to akways change the interaction.

Post: #4

I can see how having a GF increases your value but at the same time it is disqualifying you totally in most cases I would think...and thus leave you with a "net loss". If having a mate really helps you then men would go to bars with a wedding ring.

I'm in a similar situation where I have a HB7.5 "pivot" girl and I'm not even sure how to use her. I just wonder what other people's experiences here are when you bring a girl to a party?

I know in most PUA books that this thing is called preselection but I'm sure it means that you convey the message that girls like you but it should NOT signal that you are "taken" or off limits.