Post: #1

SO I have been on 2 dates with an EE chick but not banged, first time was close back at hers but some unbelievable last minute resistance, second time was a lunch date so bad logistics. The thing is, I usually expect an EE girl to be obsessed with me by now and she is fairly non committal and a touch cold during any facebook/sms intereaction. She knows I have a wife and kids etc but usually this only makes them want it more. I am starting to get the impression that she is trying to play me a little bit.
I am not sure how to play this, ignore her for a week or 2 then restart or arrange another date and try to get a day time bang.

Post: #2

Keep plowing until you get through their wall. The fact that she's not in 'love with you' after 2 dates is rather a good thing, lol.

Post: #3

I cringed reading this headline. Why on earth is it your goal to make her fall in love with you when you have no intention to respond in kind. That creates stalkers.

Post: #4

I was joking about the love part, what I mean is her level of interest in me is well below the level I expect at this point after I feel I pulled out my A-game. I expect texts about how much she misses me and when can we meet up again etc and there has not really been any response at all. I need her to get to this so I can move her to the next level.

Post: #5

(06-12-2012 08:40 AM)billy Wrote:  I expect texts about how much he misses me and when can we meet up again etc and there has not really been any response at all. I need him to get to this so I can move him to the next level.

I changed a few words in what you wrote.

Think about it.

Post: #6

Did you mean "2 dates and she still didn't bang?"......love is a fuckin Western/Hollywood mental illness, why would you want that?

You face last minute resistance, stop whatever you're doing, go grab yourself and her a drink, change/turn on some music tracks and take another shot at her, repeat cycle till her shield crumbles.

Post: #7

Fair enough for sex, but you expect sappy texts after 2 dates? Ahem.

Post: #8

(06-12-2012 09:29 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  Fair enough for sex, but you expect sappy texts after 2 dates? Ahem.

When I chuck 100% at it I expect a girl to be blown away and on the start of an uncontralable rollercoaster of desire. I am pretty sure she is trying to game me as much as I am try to game her, that makes me think a bail out is in order as I don't have the time or energy for it. You could also say I lost this round the second I felt the need to mention it on a forum.

Post: #9

I would hate soppy texts after two dates and especially before I had banged a girl.

Post: #10

Is this thread for real.

Post: #11

This thread strongly sounds like it should be in the newb section.

Post: #12

(06-12-2012 08:04 AM)billy Wrote:  SO I have been on 2 dates with an EE Guy but not banged, first time was close back at his but some unbelievable last minute resistance, second time was a lunch date so bad logistics. The thing is, I usually expect an EE guy to be obsessed with me by now and he is fairly non committal and a touch cold during any facebook/sms intereaction. He knows I have a husband and kids etc but usually this only makes them want it more. I am starting to get the impression that he is trying to play me a little bit.
I am not sure how to play this, ignore him for a week or 2 then restart or arrange another date and try to get a day time bang.

I changed some words.

Now what does this sound like?

Post: #13

(06-12-2012 07:33 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(06-12-2012 08:04 AM)billy Wrote:  SO I have been on 2 dates with an EE Guy but not banged, first time was close back at his but some unbelievable last minute resistance, second time was a lunch date so bad logistics. The thing is, I usually expect an EE guy to be obsessed with me by now and he is fairly non committal and a touch cold during any facebook/sms intereaction. He knows I have a husband and kids etc but usually this only makes them want it more. I am starting to get the impression that he is trying to play me a little bit.
I am not sure how to play this, ignore him for a week or 2 then restart or arrange another date and try to get a day time bang.

I changed some words.

Now what does this sound like?

To spell this out in blatent English. You are chasing her which is a fatality. As soon as you feel yourself chasing, even for a split second nowadays, you're done. But feel free to call up and try to "get" her, will help confirm more and more of the beliefs on this forum.

Post: #14

Holy shit amazing thread title. I remember my first beer...

Missing information;

1) Is this in EE? If it is, I have not yet been, ask one of the veterans, many guys here have been and know the scene. There are four EE threads on the first page of the travel forum.

2) Is this an EE girl in North America or Western Europe? 90% of the time, if in any of these places you can not get a girl to fuck you after the three-date maximum, it's because you fucked up; you didn't touch her enough, she finds you boring, you didn't escalate; chances are she has given you one, or several, windows.

The other 10%? She's playing you.

If you are in Poland or a place where you see dozens of as or more attractive women every day, find a new one. If you are in America, Canada or the UK, escalate hard next time you see her.