Post: #1

OK, Sat. night I was talking to this chick and we were getting along great but when we started to dance I got the feeling that she wasn't all that into it. A lot of other chicks were checking me out, so after I went to the washroom I didn't really pursue her again. At some point her and her friend (who was definitely into me) and her friend's husband left. I didn't see when they left but I would have at least tried to get the number. Long story short is that I left what was an unsure thing and wound up with nothing. (Perhaps I should be been more aggressive in approaching other chicks.)

So is there any way to tell if a woman is down for a SNL? I basically often have most of the women in bar showing interest and so often get tempted to approach other women.

Let me add that where I live doesn't seem to be a SNL kind of city (which is not to say that it doesn't happen).

Post: #2

If she doesn't seem into it, then she's not into you, and you're not going to bang her.

I think you need to follow the typical steps of talk, touch, isolate, kiss, grope - and then see if you can push for a SNL. even if some girls are more likely (in general) to have sex right away, you are still going to have to do the work to obtain it.

Post: #3

I was touching her ass and putting my hands into her back jeans jocket. She never stopped dancing with me, but she did gently remove my hands from her pocket. In my opinion that's not clear evidence that she wasn't into me. I may just have been moving too fast (also, it was a small bar and people were standing around just looking at the dance area). Anyway, I'm wondering if I may have bailed prematurely, and more generally if there is some way to remove the uncertainty in these kinds of situations before moving on to the next chick.

Post: #4

If there's no resistance.
Sounds like a bounce was in order, this would tell you if she just wanted to dance.

Post: #5

"When was the last time you had sex?"

Does she ask where you live?

Are you making out within an hour?

Is she giving more attention to you instead of her friends?

Are you getting her horny?

Post: #6

How about for online girls? I have a few girls I met online that are ready to meet up but of course they say the guy needs to wait for sex blah blah. Alcohol seems to get rid of all these problems.