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BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
Had her on beach trying to finger her. Every time i went for it she pushed it away. We go back to my place and same shit while she keeps going for my dick i keep pushing her away, telling her, "if i can't touch, you can't either." She asked if she could get a lick. I kept going with my stance and then said "fine". Pulled them drawers off and then went to town. She was spitting over my dick. I've never had this shit happen before. She says "you going to cum for me?:

Things she said tonight, things that I am not used to:
On Beach:
"im so wet right now"
"i want to fuck you but im scared i'll enjoy it too much"
"im a nympho" after telling me she loves sex
"i haven't had sex in 6 months" "its been a while"

In Car:
"have you ever had a threesome?"
"i want to have a threesome but i have trust issues"
"all females are bicurious"

My room:
after cumming in her mouth, I ask, what are you going to do now? she says: "probably go masturbate in my room"

I kept asking her, if you want to fuck why so hesitant? Meanwhile she's slobbing the knob like no tomorrow. She says "im a girl your a guy" whatever the fuck that means.

Chick Logic... wtf... why this anti slut resistance? Why do girls do this?
06-04-2012 11:34 PM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
Ha, weird...

A good tactic is to run your finger slowly over her thighs... up and down, slowly towards her crotch (not too close), then away. Go back and forth for 20 minutes. Run your finger in circles around her tits, coming closer to the nipple.

Put your nose to her neck and breath in deeply, tell her she smells great. Move your nose up and down her neck, behind her ear, down to her shoulders. Don't kiss. Just smell her, and tell her she smells great.

Do this for 20-30 minutes. After that time, there's a good chance she'll be so horny she'll let your hand wander so close to her crotch you pounce on that pussy like a tiger. She won't resist then. But give it 20 minutes. She has to be desperate.

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06-05-2012 02:58 AM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
Don't try to have a logical discussion with her about what she wants to do and why. Take charge and escalate. If you keep seeing her and she still refuses to fuck even though she gives you a BJ, she's got some issues (unless she's a virgin).

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06-05-2012 03:04 AM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
(06-05-2012 03:04 AM)RawGod Wrote:  Don't try to have a logical discussion with her about what she wants to do and why. Take charge and escalate.
Yeah, haven't had much luck trying to persuade girls to let me do them, using logic-based argumentation. I wonder why. Amuse
06-05-2012 06:40 AM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
The problem is your logic was shoddy and not formalized. You need to get a little more technical and drop this on her.

After you lay that shit down on her, slide your hand down her pants/up her skirt. Escalate. She will be rendered speechless by your flawless logic.


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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
She definetely wants you to fuck her. Be sexual when talking to her. Tell her you want to lick her pussy and you would love her to come in your mouth. Once you say that, you will be fucking it, that strategy never fails.
06-05-2012 07:16 AM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
(06-05-2012 07:16 AM)pitt Wrote:  She definetely wants you to fuck her. Be sexual when talking to her. Tell her you want to lick her pussy and you would love her to come in your mouth. Once you say that, you will be fucking it, that strategy never fails.
06-05-2012 03:34 PM
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She asked me last night while moaning, "what do you want?" I say "your pussy" "what are you going to do with it?" "fuck it" "how will you fuck it?" "hard" I slide my.hand down and she stops me. Then begs to lick.my.dick.
06-05-2012 03:37 PM
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Stop talking to her. Bend her legs behind her head and put your dick in.
06-06-2012 02:14 PM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
(06-05-2012 07:16 AM)pitt Wrote:  She definetely wants you to fuck her. Be sexual when talking to her. Tell her you want to lick her pussy and you would love her to come in your mouth. Once you say that, you will be fucking it, that strategy never fails.

I think this is a winner. If she doesn't want to fuck after 69ing (you can get there by saying you'll cum in her mouth), I'd be shocked.

Other than that, fuck it, what's the problem? Mouth feels better than pussy with a condom.
06-06-2012 07:11 PM
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(06-05-2012 02:58 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  Ha, weird...

A good tactic is to run your finger slowly over her thighs... up and down, slowly towards her crotch (not too close), then away. Go back and forth for 20 minutes. Run your finger in circles around her tits, coming closer to the nipple.

Put your nose to her neck and breath in deeply, tell her she smells great. Move your nose up and down her neck, behind her ear, down to her shoulders. Don't kiss. Just smell her, and tell her she smells great.

Do this for 20-30 minutes. After that time, there's a good chance she'll be so horny she'll let your hand wander so close to her crotch you pounce on that pussy like a tiger. She won't resist then. But give it 20 minutes. She has to be desperate.

Good move. Make sure your fingers are BARELY touching her, just the tips of them. You can just smell the juices flowing if you do it right.

Another move I use is for after she has said I want to but can't or something, or if I did a 'freeze-out'

Make sure you're lying down and you can reach her back. Run your fingers like I described above from the top of her ass/pants to about 6-10 inches up, back and forth. Make sure you do this on the left side of her back. I don't know what it is but this makes girls wet. Maybe they're already horny and its just my touch, but every girl gets tingling town their spine (sometimes their muscles kind of contract), goosebumps, etc.

This move also works well on the insides of her forearms (where her veins are). Hell scalp massages also relax the shit out of girls.
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06-06-2012 09:15 PM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
(06-06-2012 09:15 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  
(06-05-2012 02:58 AM)ElJefe Wrote:  Ha, weird...

A good tactic is to run your finger slowly over her thighs... up and down, slowly towards her crotch (not too close), then away. Go back and forth for 20 minutes. Run your finger in circles around her tits, coming closer to the nipple.

Put your nose to her neck and breath in deeply, tell her she smells great. Move your nose up and down her neck, behind her ear, down to her shoulders. Don't kiss. Just smell her, and tell her she smells great.

Do this for 20-30 minutes. After that time, there's a good chance she'll be so horny she'll let your hand wander so close to her crotch you pounce on that pussy like a tiger. She won't resist then. But give it 20 minutes. She has to be desperate.

Good move. Make sure your fingers are BARELY touching her, just the tips of them. You can just smell the juices flowing if you do it right.

Another move I use is for after she has said I want to but can't or something, or if I did a 'freeze-out'

Make sure you're lying down and you can reach her back. Run your fingers like I described above from the top of her ass/pants to about 6-10 inches up, back and forth. Make sure you do this on the left side of her back. I don't know what it is but this makes girls wet. Maybe they're already horny and its just my touch, but every girl gets tingling town their spine (sometimes their muscles kind of contract), goosebumps, etc.

This move also works well on the insides of her forearms (where her veins are). Hell scalp massages also relax the shit out of girls.

Update:
She came to my room while watching netflix and every five minutes we are going at it. Everytime i get close to her vag she moves my hand away and says she can't. I say ok lets watch more netflix. Then she gives my back a tongue bath. It persisted over and over til i said "hey let me get something just in case." Thanks roosh... When getting ready to cum she said cum for me. I came and then she said "you want me to finish for you" as she opens her mouth. I look at her and say, "you didn't feel that? I came" lol

yea i have a winner... seeing her again this weekend. Thinking im catching oneitis. Hopefully i'll get a threesome with her.
06-06-2012 09:54 PM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
weird. i would just continue getting good head if she has no problem doing it. get her drunk and she'll let you fuck...
06-06-2012 11:09 PM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
I bet she's self conscious about a stinky pussy or herpe or something.
06-07-2012 02:18 PM
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RE: BJ on first date... doesn't want to have sex because she's scared she'll like it
(06-07-2012 02:18 PM)Fisto Wrote:  I bet she's self conscious about a stinky pussy or herpe or something.

Lol it's a possibility
06-08-2012 12:46 AM
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