Post: #1

Hey guys I just started trying the pof/okc dating stuff this week and managed to possibly have two tentative dates scheduled early next week. I seem to be getting a better date to effort ratio this way over my day or night game, but I am still a novice at those too. I tried searching around, but could not find an answer to these problems.

I have two problems: I got their numbers, used the Bang "do you want to hang out later in the week?", but forgot to ask where they were located (would normally do this in real life before number), though I haven't picked a venue yet (following Bang).

What would be the best way to ask for their location through text? And should this be done on the scheduled day of the date or before?

My next issue is that the hotter one is being sketchy (but has delivered so far). She was giving shit comments during our online chat ("Sounds intense " "Aww what a sweetie" "At least half"), so I just threw out "I have this thing for meeting people face to face. Ferro xxx-xxx-xxxx" (thanks Basil I think) and surprisingly she said she would message me today and did. Here is the text convo:
[I am the one in bold]


Hello
1:25pm
Hello
1:25pm [I had my phone off, so I don't know when she tried texting each one]
Hey its ferro. how are you?
1:26pm
Good. Sleepy.
1:38pm
Its good weather out there for sleep. Btw whats your name?
1:50pm
Cassie [not using her real name]
2:05pm
I'm going to the gym and I really don't want to
2:06pm
Hi Cassie heh bc of weather or your routine?
2:14pm
Weather mainly and my butt hurts
2:24pm
Usually the more i hurt my butt the bigger and stronger it gets. Pros and cons
do you want to hang out later in the week?
2:36pm
I should tell you, I have a boyfriend. I don't know why I'm really doing this. I get bored easily. Sorry if that's all disturbing to you
2:37pm
I just met you and youre already telling me about your problems
How about tue at 9?
2:47pm
What would we do
3:03pm
Are you working?
3:23pm
I am lifting now.
Let me think of a place. Ill hit u up tues
3:35pm

What do you guys think? I need some player criticism. This is my first time with the boyfriend line, and naturally the Bang line seemed to work. Though I still do not know where she lives, didn't really get confirmation of the day nor time (nor a dismissal), and unfortunately the weather will be shit all week. What is a player to do?

Post: #2

If she really has a bf, then it doesn't matter where she lives. You'll want to be by your place and away from hers. Just throw a place out that works for you and see if she's down.

Post: #3

dude she is down to cheat.

Liked the "telling me all your problems" line. Classic.

Just play it cool and aloof, and whatever you do make sure it seems innocent enough. She needs her hamster logic to tell her that it "just happened" and its not her fault, since she already told you she had a boyfriend.

Post: #4

Holy shit! After further research I have either hit the Canadian jackpot or a very impressive/creepy male scammer. Using the auto-add contact feature on my android for the first time gave me her full name, and email address. From that and doing a tineye search on all of her images led to 'her' page on the Toronto Sun Sunshine Girl website (basically the closest canadian thing to the UK Page 3 girl). Now I know you are all shouting obvious scammer, and I would agree even though I want to believe, but there is some evidence in favour of this being real:

Evidence for real:
-she has 7 images uploaded, 2 were from the sunshine photoshoot, but 1 of them is slightly blurry and was not featured with the ones on the website (possible outtake, who else would have access to this unless she posted on fbook)
-the rest of the photos are obviously of her. (scammer would have to have full access to myspace or facebook profile, though I cannot find either)
-the number is real and shows her real name and email, though her last name is not featured on the sunshine girl site (scammer would have to have male version of name or name spoof, high tech for a basic troll like this)

Evidence against:
-2 of pics look like they were taken off of a monitor or a picture of an actual picture, because of the odd curves and black outline (either she is not tech-savvy, or scammer dropped the ball)
-sunshine girl is a toronto magazine and the shoot was done this year, my girl had lived in my town for a few years (could have flown in for shoot?)

I am totally willing to try this out (what is worst that could happen; I get stood up by scammer?), though if the bf is not a shit test then I worry how strong he might be to get her.

Post: #5

Alright, I found a good idea of the hot girl's general location from her profile, and just casually asked the other girl her location and it was no problem, so I will do that from now on. It was shocking that such talent could be on OKC, but I am over it now. Though it would be nice if I could give RooshVForum a good testimonial: "RooshVForum got me a Sunshine Girl after just one week of trying online dating." lol