Post: #1

I was seeing this girl for a bout 2 dates. A drinks date and a movie night. To set up the third date the convo went like this:

Her: Hi how has ur weekend been?'

Me: Quite just a few drinks with d boys. Urself?

Her: nice...Yeah mine was quiet too jst doing uni stuff nd working, when do u finish uni?

Me: This thursday i finish. Wanna do something thursday night?

Her: Do you have exams?..yeah sounds good wanna go pancakes on the rocks?

Me:: Is your place free? Drinks and a movie (This is where i fucked up cause i wanted to push for the bang. Mind you i dont drive and there's always someone at my place)

her: Umm i dont think my place is a good idea. I dont really know you that well yet. I asked if u wanted to go to pankcakes at the rocks u didnt even acknowledge my question, it ok doesnt matter, anyhow i dont think we're on the same level here so take care

me:(my mate helped rephrase this text) sorry i didnt mean it like that. im buying a car in a couple weekeds so i gotta be a bit tight with cash thats all. How about dinner at beverly hills?

And not a single reply was given that day. Initially i wouldnt to reply "if you wanted to come to my place that bad you couldve just asked"

I want to know what Im doing wrong in text gaming chicks.

Post: #2

fuck that bitch. I wouldn't even worry about it. I guess you can wait a week or 2 and text "what's up?" if you really are trying to fuck her.


did you try to fuck her the first date? 2nd? I've never even gone on a 3rd date unless we've fucked and I like being around her.

Post: #3

I don't know if its my game but living in Sydney Australia, chicks make you work for sex. I think its the type of girls I go for but all are withholding on sex unless you're in a relationship with them

Post: #4

(05-28-2012 01:53 AM)joker Wrote:  I don't know if its my game but living in Sydney Australia, chicks make you work for sex. I think its the type of girls I go for but all are withholding on sex unless you're in a relationship with them

So what. Just call them your girlfriend and bang away. No one says you can't have more than one girlfriend at a time.

Post: #5

(05-28-2012 12:29 AM)joker Wrote:  I was seeing this girl for a bout 2 dates. A drinks date and a movie night. To set up the third date the convo went like this:

Her: Hi how has ur weekend been?'

Me: Quite just a few drinks with d boys. Urself?

Her: nice...Yeah mine was quiet too jst doing uni stuff nd working, when do u finish uni?

Me: This thursday i finish. Wanna do something thursday night?

Her: Do you have exams?..yeah sounds good wanna go pancakes on the rocks?

Me:: Is your place free? Drinks and a movie (This is where i fucked up cause i wanted to push for the bang. Mind you i dont drive and there's always someone at my place)

her: Umm i dont think my place is a good idea. I dont really know you that well yet. I asked if u wanted to go to pankcakes at the rocks u didnt even acknowledge my question, it ok doesnt matter, anyhow i dont think we're on the same level here so take care

me:(my mate helped rephrase this text) sorry i didnt mean it like that. im buying a car in a couple weekeds so i gotta be a bit tight with cash thats all. How about dinner at beverly hills?

And not a single reply was given that day. Initially i wouldnt to reply "if you wanted to come to my place that bad you couldve just asked"

I want to know what Im doing wrong in text gaming chicks.

I almost never put into writing plans to fuck, or get to the apartment, until we've already smashed and are on that level.

My reasoning is two-fold:

1. A lot of chicks want to imagine that the sex they have with you is spontaneous. Straight up inviting you to her place blows that cover. So taking her up on the pancake shit, and then from there trying to weasel to her place would have been my move.

2. Some chicks will be testing you to see how eager you are to bang so if you respond with plans for the bang you've failed.

Drinks and a movie used to be my go-to game years ago but I don't fuck with it anymore at the beginning unless the girl is clearly fiendin for my cock. Even virgins know you are talking about sex if you say drinks and a movie.

The way the girl responded to your text shows the she failed the 'bitch' test. She probably was going to be a pain in the ass.

Post: #6

I know there shouldn't be a standard for the amount of dates you should have before banging but could i get a template on how text game should go? Previous (successful texts) would be good

Post: #7

(05-28-2012 12:54 PM)joker Wrote:  I know there shouldn't be a standard for the amount of dates you should have before banging but could i get a template on how text game should go? Previous (successful texts) would be good

http://www.bangpickupguide.com/misc/text...rooshv.pdf

Post: #8

Change of events. The chick that ended it with me texted me 3 days after not replying to make text saying:

ohhh ok fair enough Hey look sorry for jumping down ur throat its just everytime a guy says "do we have the house to our selves" there's only one thing on their mind...again i apologise Beverly sounds good can we start fresh?

How should i reply to this text and after how long?

Post: #9

wait a day to text her back. Keep it 100% logistics, don't acknowledge any of this drama bullshit.

"hey just saw ur text. ya lets meet up in bh. thurs at 8".

Post: #10

Nice. I think she likes you, so she's going to give you a second chance after you demonstrated your dumbassery. Play it cool, give the girl space.

thedude3737's suggestion is good.

Post: #11

There was nothing wrong with your "text game" per se here.

You just made your sexual intentions too obvious too early for this girl's taste. A different girl might have responded positively-you never know

Your follow up text was a nice save- it gave you a pretext for why you wanted the home date in a way that made her feel guilty for questioning you

I agree this girl likes you enough to give you another chance.

Don't bring up the prior incident- if she does just wave it off as nothing

Have you escalated with her on the previous two dates? If not you've made a mistake and are on the verge of getting friendzoned. Try escalating as much as you can get away with on this date.

Post: #12

now your dilemma is staying with Pancakes on the Rocks for dinner or choosing a new venue for drinks

Post: #13

I was seeing this girl for a bout 2 dates. You should be pushing for the bang, not the hang, on the first date
A drinks date and a movie night. Taking a girl to the movies is a terrible date idea because you can't talk, and all the attention goes to the movieTo set up the third date the convo went like this:

Her: Hi how has ur weekend been?'

Me: Quite just a few drinks with d boys. Urself?

Her: nice...Yeah mine was quiet too jst doing uni stuff nd working, when do u finish uni?

Me: This thursday i finish. Wanna do something thursday night?you could have been more specific here. Don't ask her questions. Tell her you have plans to be out somewhere and she should "come hang" You have to lead.

Her: Do you have exams?..yeah sounds good wanna go pancakes on the rocks?

Me:: Is your place free? Drinks and a movie (This is where i fucked up cause i wanted to push for the bang. Mind you i dont drive and there's always someone at my place) yes- but this is the third strike, not the first, which is why she blows you out

her: Umm i dont think my place is a good idea. I dont really know you that well yet. I asked if u wanted to go to pankcakes at the rocks u didnt even acknowledge my question, it ok doesnt matter, anyhow i dont think we're on the same level here so take care

me:(my mate helped rephrase this text) sorry i didnt mean it like that. im buying a car in a couple weekeds so i gotta be a bit tight with cash thats all. How about dinner at beverly hills?

And not a single reply was given that day. Initially i wouldnt to reply "if you wanted to come to my place that bad you couldve just asked"

I want to know what Im doing wrong in text gaming chicks.

This girl got frustrated by your bad game. Don't take it personally. And don't invest yourself in her. Hit the next button. Don't get into a conversation with her over text; that whole ".. and yourself?" could have been used to set up new plans. If she's texting you out of the blue, it's a good sign that she's ready to meet up, so don't shoot the shit over text- get back to her with meetup invitation.

Post: #14

I've only gotten makeouts from the two dates we've had and i figure this girl will take a bit and possibly want a relationship before she puts out. I'll do my best to game other girls in the process but i've only had 1 bang so i probably need to do this to get my numbers up

Post: #15

How to deal with this chick like she wants me to text her everyday I guess like how is my day, blah blah?

And I'm into texting like for logistics only, when to meet her. She's mad at me because I really don't reply to her text. And I still didn't bang her, though.

Drama texting.