Post: #1

I'm looking for possible tips on dating multiple women and/or maintaining a harem under the following conditions...

1. Most of the girls live in close proximity to one another

For example: a newer prospect of mine literally lives right accross the street from a girl I just had sex with this morning (since I still live it home I prefer not to bring too many girls back with me), another girl I'm dating lives five minutes away. Three other prospects live in the same dorm room.

2. This is a small town (about 120 k inhabitants)

I constantly bump into people I recognize down town, and it's typical to meet a new person only to find out on facebook that you share at least two mutual acquaintances.

Keep in mind I'd like to continue sleeping with at least one of these girls, and right now, none of them seem to know eachother yet.

Post: #2

I live in a similar sized town so i understand your dilemma.

If you go out anywhere with a girl there is a real risk that another one of your girls or a friend of hers is going to see you

There are several ways to handle this:

1. Have a main girl you go out in public with, while seeing other girls casually in private at their place or yours Risk: the private girls will get dissatisfied rather quickly at this treatment. Solution: just move on to other girls

2. Go out in public with your girls and do the best you can not to get busted. Risk: you will get busted eventually. Solution: just move on to other girls

3. Refuse to agree to be exclusive with any girl so she won't be surprised when she finds out you're with another girl.Risk: girls may or may not accept this. Solution: just move on to other girls. (are you seeing a pattern here?-you should always be pipelining)

4.Have a main girl and spice this up with SNL and short flings Risk: Lower risk but she still might find out. Solution: good tradecraft and pipelining. I have found this works well

5. Date several girls in different nearby towns. Risk: low risk but costs you gas money and time. Solution: accept added cost as the price of doing business. I am doing this now-the driving is a pain but otherwise works well