Post: #1

I was reading this blog, http://two.cedonulli.com/2012/02/guys-from-la/ , when I came upon this quote:

Quote:American women, it’s a different game. Mainly it’s just about making them feel that you’re the dude they want to drop their bitch shields for. I’m too lazy to get into it, you probably know what I mean. It’s a much less cerebral play, more of a brute force game of asserting confidence. It’s complex in its own right, and I learn a lot about myself in dealing with American women.

When I think back on how much easier it is for me to get with European & Latin girls than it is with American girls, I've come to realize that my American game is pretty much shit.

For you guys who understand the nuances between the two different worlds (of non-American and American), how do you change your approach to American girls?

Post: #2

I think this is a great post on the topic:

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Post: #3

That's a great post. When I think about it all my successful approaches I have not been proud of at all. Recently, I remember going up to a girl, starting with some small talk and telling her to kiss me and she does! and before I know it she's grabbing my dick and grinding her ass on it, and I'm touching her vag over her panties. All in 1 fuckin minute!

In those cases I just wonder if I ought to take the slut to the bathroom but then that's just not something I'm really into, at least not in a club bathroom.

I guess you just never feel like you're "Conquering" an American girl. You just feel like you've just slept with a cheap prostitute.

Edit: Also, I just realized something I was saying to myself in my head that must have held me back. I realize when I want to "get in a girl's pants" I'm a lot more successful, than when I tell myself I want to "meet girls." "Getting in a girl's pants" maintains a sexual mission rather than "meeting a girl" which gives it a rather vague direction, often leading to friendly behavior.

Post: #4

(05-23-2012 02:47 PM)kerouac Wrote:  That's a great post. When I think about it all my successful approaches I have not been proud of at all. Recently, I remember going up to a girl, starting with some small talk and telling her to kiss me and she does! and before I know it she's grabbing my dick and grinding her ass on it, and I'm touching her vag over her panties. All in 1 fuckin minute!

In those cases I just wonder if I ought to take the slut to the bathroom but then that's just not something I'm really into, at least not in a club bathroom.

I guess you just never feel like you're "Conquering" an American girl. You just feel like you've just slept with a cheap prostitute.

Edit: Also, I just realized something I was saying to myself in my head that must have held me back. I realize when I want to "get in a girl's pants" I'm a lot more successful, than when I tell myself I want to "meet girls." "Getting in a girl's pants" maintains a sexual mission rather than "meeting a girl" which gives it a rather vague direction, often leading to friendly behavior.

It's quite astonishing what I've realized after becoming a part of this board and really paying attention to what others with more experience than I have contributed either to this forum or through various blogs and writings. Basically go for sex all the time. When you are out, go for sex the same night. When you are on a date, go for sex the same night. I guess this doesn't apply so much during day game and potentially in various other cultures outside America, but here for dates and night time you are never punished for pushing the envelope.

As Roosh said, the creep always prevails over the alpha.

As Tuthmosis said quoting Talleyrand, "Women sometimes forgive a man who presses an opportunity, but never a man who misses one."
--Charles Maurice de Talleyrand-Périgord

And the list goes on. The first date bang guide is uncanny and a must read. All these "norms" I had before really paying attention to the game are now completely blown out the window. It's really amazing, to see and hear the same tendencies and excuses time and time again from American girls. "Just so you know, we are not having sex tonight." "I'm not that type of girl." Etc. It's even more amazing that girls almost always put out so damn easily, IF you know how to proceed. If you asked me this before, I thought I always just got "lucky" if a girl put out, or that they were major sluts (which they probably were). But when you see so-called good girls putting out early, it really widens your eyes.

Put another way, American girls are great for banging, horrible for dating.

Post: #5

“I’m a bit of a sex tourist” I tell them, going on about the hot Thai girls. The German girl is disgusted, B is kind of amused at the semi arrogant but humorous delivery. We get into a whole talk about sex tourism. B asks me how many girls I’ve slept with since I got here (late December). The whole table falls silent, I know she’s calling my bluff. I tell her … “about five or so, but I’ve been practicing restraint”. LA dude smirks thinking that he just won. He starts going on about this date he was on and the girl is all into him but he didn’t want to take advantage of her. Suckahh!! I ask about dimming the lights so we can see his halo. I’m back to how I just can’t resist sex with hot girls and also, why would I. The gambit works, B likes the bad boy much better than LA boy trying to white knight the scenario. Fucking amateurs.

This is gold.

Post: #6

(05-23-2012 05:11 PM)PROD3GY Wrote:  “I’m a bit of a sex tourist” I tell them, going on about the hot Thai girls. The German girl is disgusted, B is kind of amused at the semi arrogant but humorous delivery. We get into a whole talk about sex tourism. B asks me how many girls I’ve slept with since I got here (late December). The whole table falls silent, I know she’s calling my bluff. I tell her … “about five or so, but I’ve been practicing restraint”. LA dude smirks thinking that he just won. He starts going on about this date he was on and the girl is all into him but he didn’t want to take advantage of her. Suckahh!! I ask about dimming the lights so we can see his halo. I’m back to how I just can’t resist sex with hot girls and also, why would I. The gambit works, B likes the bad boy much better than LA boy trying to white knight the scenario. Fucking amateurs.

This is gold.

Hehe. Thanks. That was a fun night.

You guys should enjoy the American girls. In hindsight, there's something to be said for all the glorious whore fucking in the U.S. No cultural details to observe, no waking-up-in-bathtubs-filled-with-ice to worry about. It has it's moments, that country.