Post: #1

Hi,

I am new to the forum, but stumbled upon the wonderful posts here after doing a google search. I have hit a brick wall concerning my game. I have always been an above average looking guy, who has always run good game, ( at least I think) but the last 3 dates I went on, the girl has either flaked mid date or sent me a text, or email stating she did not want to see me again. This has really hurt my game.

Just last week I went a date with a 6, which should have been an easy lay. She invited m over to her house, we had some wine and moved to the bedroom. I tried to kiss her, but she turned away! I tried again a little while later and had success. I tired for a while to get her panties off and fuck her but the resistance was to strong. At the end of the date I left, a few days later, I texted her. And I got an email back from her. Here it is.

"I had a lot of fun on our date but I feel I should tell you that I don't think I see it going anywhere. You're very sweet and I thought about going on another date but I don't believe it would be a good idea. It simply wouldn't end where I would prefer a relationship to go at this point in my ilfe. I wish you well and I just know you'll meet someone amazing. You're such a gentleman and have a sweet heart. Good luck!!! "

A gentleman, what the fuck!!! I tried so hard to fuck her. Well anyway to make a long story short. I have a date lined up Friday with an 8 -9. All week we have been texting back and forth. And it was going great. She asked that I call her last night, and I said I might be able to but I was kinda busy. Well, I called and got her VM. Let her a quick brief message and that was it. She called back and my dumb ass answered! I dont know why, I should have let it go to VM, but I answered, I guess I was nervous that she wouldnt think I was interested. ( I know, so fucking beta). Well, we talked for about 30 minutes, when my girlfriend pulled up in the drive way and I had to jump off the call. I sent her a text last night to ask her some more questions and never got a response.... I am stuck as to where I should go from here. Tonight I have a 2nd date with a 7 who I am determined to fuck, I hope I can close so I can regain my confidence. Any advice would be appreciated.

Cooze Hound.

Post: #2

Quote:A gentleman, what the fuck!!! I tried so hard to fuck her.

Impossible for us to really tell what's going on, but 3 bad dates is not a brick wall. Keep trying..

Post: #3

You're talking to them too much. Set up a meetup and go radio silent until that day to confirm. When you meet them, keep your answers vague and redirect back to them to qualify themselves to you. Escalate early and often.

Your mouth is your worst enemy. Your looks do not make up for this.

Post: #4

Yup, Astro you are right, my mouth is my worst enemy. Lately I work my game so hard and push to escalate that I come off as to much of a player. Girls are sensing this, I need to take a step back and be a little less aggresive, maybe. Roosh, I enjoyed your book Bang. Although, I have been always good with girls, the book offered some poinant ideas for me to refine my skills.


Cooze Hound

Post: #5

Let us know how it goes with that girl!

Dude - Keep up the steady stream of dates. Approach a lot and join various different social groups (try Meetup.com, salsa classes and CouchSurfing meetups.) If you can keep up 2 dates a week, you'll get laid pretty quickly.

Agreed - It's not really a wall.

Post: #6

Hey man, bad shit happens to all of us.


Maybe you should just avoid taking girls on dates? I know it helped me.