Post: #1

Got out of a 2 year LTR a couple of months back and I still feel i'm lacking in motivation to go out and meet other women.

At first i thought it was just me being a self-pitying beta, then i after reading around i decided to get a blood test done and found my testosterone levels were slightly below the healthy minimum threshold.

Fast forward 3 months and i'm healthier, lost 10 kgs, lowered my cholestrol to healthy levels, testosterone nearly doubled, and beginning to see the outline of a six pack under the right light. Would love to cut another 10 kgs, but one step at a time.

But still, i'm feeling little to no physical motivation to meet women.

This is where I come to the conclusion where it is my absolute disdain for women and their groupthink clashing with my desire to pound them is holding me back. After reading Roissy and Roosh for the past year or so, i can no longer take women seriously. For sure, i'll eyeball a hot chick's behind on the street and give a leering smirk, and i still whack off to hardcore teen porn, but actually swallowing my pride to approach a woman... i'm not feeling it.

Do i hate women? Absolutely not. Perhaps indifference is the word for the moment - and perhaps that's worse.

Post: #2

sounds like you have to address your issues of self-loathing first.

maybe read someone other than Heartiste. Someone in your state should be reading optimistic stuff, not the jaded, cynical Roissy.

As a matter of fact, stop reading everything related to game for a week, stop whacking off for a week. Then see what happens.

Post: #3

If you don't want to meet women, why force yourself?

I only force myself to do things that are good for me. I hate the taste of kale, but I eat it anyway.

When i go into phases where women bore me, I don't sweat it. Take some time off to focus on your life. Get your money right. Hit the gym. Get your life in order.

Post: #4

(04-13-2012 11:04 PM)MikeCF Wrote:  focus on your life. Get your money right. Hit the gym. Get your life in order.

this.

If everything else in your life is ok, and you still lack the motivation to approach, stop watching teen porn and masturbating. When your only way of busting a nut is inside a woman, you tend to perceive them differently and forgive their shortcomings.

Or just build up your negative emotions into a small, diamond hard bright and shining ball of loathing and use it on some poor girl as a WMD of hatefuck and sexual abuse.

Post: #5

Abstaining from masturbation is damn fucking hard. I'm addicted. After 3-4 days i'm like this:

http://www.sinfest.net/archive_page.php?comicID=3131

Although recently i converted my computer desk setup from sitting to standing - it's harder to jack off when you're standing up.

Post: #6

well its something you have to work out on your own man. sounds like you have a sex/masturbation addiction and some deep-rooted issues against women. these aren't light issues that a forum can help u with.

Post: #7

don't swallow everything you read on the internet. some people give good practical advice, but can be tendentious in the extreme when it comes to more general social commentary.

heartiste in particular is mostly aspergers like repetition of the same negative themes, or similarly assburgers over reading of social situations. reading this shit isn't good for you if you don't get out much